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Posted By TimB4 on 04/04/2010 11:37 AM
There are very few people left actively serving in the armed forces who served in era of Vietnam. Those were the days that when troops arriving home the were ushered out the back door of the plane away from a terminal and into a tent on the tarmac. They were told to change into civilian clothes before returning home and to watch their backs. Welcome home!! All this because people couldn't separate the issue of a war from those who were told to fight it.
Tim, as one of those Vietnam-era vets (I was US Army Security Agency, Asian-language-trained intercept operator), I, too, was actually spat on in an airport while in uniform heading home for some R&R, which was such a shock to me, especially since I'm female. I knew about how some of my male counterparts were treated, I just (naively) figured that a female soldier would be treated differently. Ever since then, I NEVER left post in uniform if I could help it.
I completely understand and know full well and first hand all that those of us from that era had to endure.
It was a couple decades before one could comfortably be able even to tell people that, in fact, you ever were even in the military.
My point is very much like yours, that today everyone, including the troops, know that bell weather has significantly changed.
I have a close relative who was served during the "clean up" in Bosnia. That entailed standing duty during the mass grave excavations, etc. He was then sent to Iraq and was with one of the groups that were first on the ground in Baghdad.
He tried to explain to me one day why the displays of the yellow ribbons on the cars or signs in the yards didn't mean anything to him. Keep in mind, he's saying this through Post-traumatic Stress influenced reality right now.
He feels that it's a "bandwagon" affect. That people have this guilt for how vets and military were treated after VN, and think that all they have to do is put on a flag lapel or yellow ribbon and that will somehow make up for it all. He doesn't think they have any real clue what it means to be a soldier and what their real sacrifices are. (for the record, he and I often debate this particular point. But, again, he is speaking from a different place than even I ever had to go.)
He feels when it comes down to americans really putting teeth behind the "support" bandwagon, like making sure that vets receive the proper support after leaving the military, or that their pay while in the military be improved (so that they don't have to go on food stamps, etc), or making sure the government actually allows PTSD to be properly diagnosed, that they are MIA. He feels that's how Americans should show their support.
Anyway, I think we are both on the same page, and there is nothing at all wrong with people wanting to express their support for the troops. I especially like to be part of welcome home cheering sections when I get the chance! But if someone feels very strongly about it, there are more concrete, direct ways that would be immensely more self-satisfying than simply planting a sign in a yard.