Missy -
My tone was never intended to be offensive, I am sorry! Your initial post was vague and open to interpretation. The facts would have been helpful.
I've never worked or voted on board members who were inclined to violate their own covenants! That's cruel. I am sorry you are dealing with such a situation (again, your initial post left my response open to interpretation good or bad).
How many other board members are there? Is there enough that agree with him to form a quorum? Is he being too nice to his board member? Unfortunately, this inaction is a problem for all of you. I would probably confront the offending board member. The other alternative is to quit or form a petition and try to have the offending board members removed from office (ugly and I'm sure there are documents in your covenants to support it...last resort I guess).
Good luck - your both so close to the situation that it must be miserable. Don't give in and try not to quit!!
