BonnieS3 (Florida)
Posts: 22
Posts: 22
Posted:
hello - I am a state of shock over recent events regarding the other 2 Board Members (X and Y). Recently I have been under "email" attack from the 2 Board Members. Member Y is a new Member and is being misguided by Member X. I have been receiving very arrogant and accusatory emails from the both of them, criticizing me, canceling Board mtgs. scheduled. Tonite, in preparation for a mtg. w/our attorney tomorrow, in reviewing the emails, I discover that one of the emails contained several emails between the 2 Board Members and in addition to Member Y's wife, who is an attorney. I had suspicion that the emails I was receiving from Member Y were not from him, but in fact from his attorney wife. I also advised our property manager. The emails just didn't seem to reflect the type of person he is. In any event, upon reading this email, Members X and Y and Y's wife exchanged emails on how to respond to my emails. Attorney is responsible for the awful emails sent to me. Not only are the 3 criticizing me, but also the property manager and our attorney.
Add'l info: my mtg w/our attorney tomorrow is to discuss Member X's position on the Board -- he is not a homeowner but a HO's roommate; our docs state that Board Members must be HO's. Discovered this in early December; attorney and manager suggested we cease all decisions of the Board until this issue was dealt with. Do becuz there has been no communications from the property managar, is what has Member X misguiding new Member Y.
Does a Board Member have any recourse to this type of behavior? I'm assuming not but I have been under a great deal of stress and am inclined to resign from the Board; I have lost several nite's sleep. However, upon receiving the email that probably was by accident, how can I walk away from what surely will be chaos were I to resign.
The email attacks are just unbelievable. I had 20 emails within 12 hours this weekend.
How do I respond to the emails containing the proof that Member X and Y are joining forces against me, as well as Y's wife? I have drafted an email in response.
I suppose attorney will advise tomorrow. Thought I might get some thoughts tonite so that I can sleep! Thank you!
Add'l info: my mtg w/our attorney tomorrow is to discuss Member X's position on the Board -- he is not a homeowner but a HO's roommate; our docs state that Board Members must be HO's. Discovered this in early December; attorney and manager suggested we cease all decisions of the Board until this issue was dealt with. Do becuz there has been no communications from the property managar, is what has Member X misguiding new Member Y.
Does a Board Member have any recourse to this type of behavior? I'm assuming not but I have been under a great deal of stress and am inclined to resign from the Board; I have lost several nite's sleep. However, upon receiving the email that probably was by accident, how can I walk away from what surely will be chaos were I to resign.
The email attacks are just unbelievable. I had 20 emails within 12 hours this weekend.
How do I respond to the emails containing the proof that Member X and Y are joining forces against me, as well as Y's wife? I have drafted an email in response.
I suppose attorney will advise tomorrow. Thought I might get some thoughts tonite so that I can sleep! Thank you!