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John, i agree with your post (and your pet peeve, i share that too, ugh!), and while "johnny does it, why can't I?" is not a valid defense, if Johnny does it, and the board allows it, and I do it, and I get fined, it does drill holes in the fairness and equal application required of enforcement. It makes the board defense weak.
If someone does it and it isn't seen, that's one thing... people speed, and the police only catch a few. However, if someone has been stopped for speeding, and the police let them leave without a ticket, then stop you and give you one, they better have a darn good reason to explain the discrepancy.
perhaps there is a reason the HOA enforces rule X here, and not Rule Y there... but a good board should be able to enumerate the reason to everyone, so that everyone knows the playing field is level. When a board does not have an answer, or they dismiss the question out of hand, they are playing into the hands of the accusor. the board should be well prepared to explain their policies and decisions when asked, and they can stop a lot of these issues from escalating.
I have even experienced a board that HAD a solid reason to deny a request, push off an "accusor", dismiss him, ignore him, etc., until he finally fomented a small rebellion among the owners. That board was overthrown, eventually, and when the new board came to power, they discovered the rule/reason, and simply told the original accusor "you can't do that because of this rule. Period." the accusor was fine with it, he just wanted to be taken seriously, and hear the reason his request was rejected.
the board in this situation sounds like they have done due diligence, and I hope they are prepared to answer the questions that the owner will throw to them. If they are prepared, then this issue will shortly find its conclusion. If they are not prepared, then this issue will last a long time.