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Posted By LindaL6 on 11/30/2009 9:52 AM
That's your misinterpretation. Making assumptions.
Linda
Right, everyone knows that's your job.
Look, I will admit that there have been times when a homeowner comes to an annual meeting with comments like, "Where does my money go!" (after we have repeatedly mailed budget updates throughout the year, not to mention the financial statements he might have in his hand) or "Why didn't the association plow the streets last winter?"
And the board president may have laughed, but it was not AT the homeowner, simply at the frustration that is often tied up in what on the surface appears to be simple question, but is asked over and over, usually by the same people.
Take the snow plowing, we get maybe 2 really bad snows each winter.
Even then the streets are covered for two days, tops.
Not to mention the fact that the county is responsible for the snow plowing on our roads.
But for some reason, many of our residents mistakenly believe that SNOW PLOWING is what they pay assessments for.
It is not. Even though we discuss it every year at budget time, send the budgets out to everyone with NO line item for SNOW PLOWING.
Still, we reach out every year for plowing quote. Unfortunately, the quotes we have received for keeping a plow on "retainer" exceed our budget limitations. And, were we to actually have to plow, we could only plow half of one main street with the money we'd have available.
And the membership wanted us to keep assessments low and not increase them over the years. For ANYTHING.
Okay, they can't have it both ways.
Yet we will continue to get calls on those one or two snowy days demanding to know when the streets will be plowed.
So, yeah, I think the board president may have laughed when that comment came up. But again, it wasn't AT the person, but at the idea that we are having to go through that entire dialog again, and still end up with no rate increase and no snow plowing on the budget for the year.
Sure, the BOD probably handled your question poorly. After all, you've held onto the emotion of it all this time. As would many, I suppose. But there's no way to really know if they were really being mean or personal intended without being in the room to know how it all went down.
At any rate, it happened a good while ago. Are you telling us that in the course of time you haven't taken the opportunity to meet with one or two of them face-to-face outside of a board or annual meeting and talk to them about how it made you feel?
Remember, board members are association members just like you.
They aren't government officials or royalty either.
Perhaps it might be worth your while to get to know some of them on a neighbor basis, and they you.