Posted:
Michele,
Your sarcasm was so indecipherable we had to go through several iterations of posts before I figured out you are saying (I think) that you meant I was played by the Defendant homeowner. Whatever. I should have stopped responding when you started, but since you wrote something straightforward above, I'll respond to that.
I can only speak to specifics. I'm not a cheerleader, so I can't control (nor care) if you've got a warm fuzzy. For example, "something fishy about the timeline" is fairly meaningless. If you have specific questions that you think will help to clarify my description or perhaps reveal a problem, then by all means point it out. We may figure out something I missed.
I stipulated (I'm not a lawyer, so am I allowed to say 'stipulated'?) that I can only present one side (which happens to be mine, not the Defendant's). I copped to that the first time you brought that up, and you keep insisting, "No, it IS one-sided" as if to pretend that I'm arguing the point. Are you playing me?
"Taking a poke at Mike Tyson", etc., was obviously a joke with some hyperbole, not deification. I believe the Defendant is very capable, but that does not make him right -- it just increases the cost and risk to the HOA. The Court rulings in his favor tend to indicate he was right. As you said, he doesn't need my help, he doesn't need moral support, and I don't see how he could benefit from me educating myself and asking others for review. (And with the time I spend on HOAtalk on top of my job, family and talking to neighbors, I certainly don't have time left for "roaming the internet."
I don't think I've made him out to be a hapless victim. (The Mike Tyson shot certainly doesn't promote that picture, not does it even suggest a nice guy, which is also roughly accurate.) I also don't think his hands are clean. I think our BoD has put us in a very bad position and is spending our money frivolously, and that's my concern. I have no problem with Mike Tyson and the idiots slugging it out, if my money and my home are not on the line. You are right – the defendant is not an innocent bystander, but I never said he was. I am the innocent bystander.
I am not looking for validation. I am looking for advice about protecting myself and getting us out of this mess. I find validation in my research and my reasoning, and I welcome anyone to point out specific problems that may help me see the situation more clearly. I am not the Defendant, nor am I one of his enemies -- I am caught in the middle of this. I want all my neighbors to see that they are caught in the middle of this. I want to understand the potential risk, and I want the rest of the HOA to understand that risk.
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As to the case particulars that you asked about:
The slope in back is indeed very steep (31 degrees), but of course we are looking at that head-on in the photo, so it's not clearly discernable. It's much steeper on the side, which is easy to see, but that's (literally) peripheral to the point at issue. (The purpose of the photo was not to prove any one point, but to provide a visual reference, show what a "wall of planters" looks like, and show that it looks fairly nice and fits in.)
The BoD's own engineer determined that the wall is necessary to prevent erosion, as did the Defendant's experts. Facts like that do make this rather one-sided. The BoD's engineer also said (as you pointed out) that the distance from the house to the foundation is over 50 feet and the gradient and shifting are definitely NOT the cause of foundation problems. (Also the direction of tension related to the foundation problems was left-to-right, not front-to-back.) The swimming pool is closer and some cracks in the lining might be related, but I don't see that as a big issue. Keeping his "house from falling down" was obvious hyperbole, but he does have a right to keep the tail end of his back yard from sliding into the pond, and he has a contractual obligation to preserve the easement area (the slope).
You would probably like to know what I meant, when I said above that the Defendant homeowner's hands are not clean:
• He really should have asked permission first, even if he can show that the rules don't require it and many others never did.
• (In his favor, he did cheerfully submit a request when asked to do so, even though he felt it was not required.)
• When the BoD told him to stop building (when the wall was 90% complete), he could have just left the 10% unfinished to show good faith until they worked it out.
• He could have approached the HOA with hat in hand and asked nicely for retroactive permission, instead of pointing out all the reasons why the way he did things was correct according to the rules.
• In summary, he could have assuaged many egos by showing some humility and respect for the BoD's authority, rather than showing why he thought he was right.
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You saying this would be over if things were really as I presented them, is like saying the BoD must be right to keep it going, or they would do the right thing and settle. You assume their decisions are right, just because they made those decisions, so of course you circle around to the conclusion with which you started. I prefer to examine their decisions first and then determine if they are right based on the merits.
You have no further information about our current BoD. It may be reasonable to give current Directors some benefit of the doubt, but it is not reasonable to start with the assumption that whatever they do must be right and then applaud their actions based on that. If you just think you don't know enough about them and you don't consider me a reliable source, that's not completely unreasonable, but you could say that about anything posted in this forum.
Similar with the BoD's attorney. In my opinion, he must feel he can get more of our money, or it would have already been over by now. You could turn it around, too -- the Defendant must feel he will prevail, or it would have already been over by now. It's all circular reasoning.
Our BoD's attorney is a friend of the Defendant's neighbor (who has publicly said he will not stop until he makes the guy move) and used to work with him in City government. That could mean that our BoD had fortunate access to a good reference. That could mean this is all a conspiracy to use the HOA to promote a personal vendetta. It could be that a bad lawyer (on either side) is creating a problem in order to take us for all he can get. I think the negative are all real possibilities, but I'd rather stick to substantive facts and see where that gets me.
It's a fact that the homeowner we are suing is an attorney. That doesn't make him more right or more wrong, although it does raise the stakes when we sue him. It's a fact that he says he is right, and it's a fact that the BoD says they are right. I believe that when the BoD says why they are right, they show a very poor basis for it. It makes no sense; it doesn't add up; it's almost as if they are saying 1+1=3 and have become used to people just going along with whatever they say. That's not hyperbole, and it's not funny.
I know the Directors individually. They are mostly nice, reasonable people. Several are highly intelligent. However, they are indeed acting like a pack of doo-doo heads in handling this matter. I don't know if it's from ego or spite or political/social affiliation or gang mentality. Or if I am wrong; that's always possible. I have often seen intelligent individuals say and do stupid things in the context of a group, and history is replete with example of unruly, amoral mobs composed of many otherwise reasonable and upright individuals.
I can't ask for help judging individuals -- our Directors or the guy they are suing or myself. I don't see any way to present the kind of information you would need in writing; it would be a foolish and unproductive effort. All I can do is present the facts as I see them and ask what you think about that.