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DavidW5 (North Carolina)
Posts: 565
Posted:
Our declarent controlled board has imposed a new rule that prohibits lap swimming in our outdoor pool. The pool is irregularly shaped and does not have lane dividers to separate lap swimmers from leisure users of the pool, although it does have a black line of tile on the bottom across the long axis for lap swimmers to follow. The typical pool usage is very low. Often there is nobody in it. At other times there may be a handful of folks socializing in waist to chest deep water. The new rule bans lap swimming even when the pool is completely empty and also bans the use of goggles, snorkels, etc.

At a meeting with the homeowner appointed to the board by the developer, after theses rules had already been implemented, he admitted that the rules resulted from complaints by leisure users of being asked/told by lap swimmers to move off of the black line. There have been no other incidents; no collisions, no injuries. No lap swimmers were consulted prior to imposition of the rules, to determine what alternatives should be considered.

So, we have a beautiful outdoor pool which goes largely unused. The lap swimmers have offered a variety of compromises (such as allowing the life guard to determine when high pool occupancy makes lap swimming unacceptable) but the board refuses to consider them.

The level of anger, frustration, and mistrust within our community continues to grow. The slowdown of the housing market has pushed the transition of control from the developer to homeowners out more than two years. By the time we have the chance to elect a board that will consider the needs of ALL members of the association, the community will be hopelessly polarized.

I regret having bought a home in an HOA.
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
David,

Whether you are a board member or not, have you thought to broach this subject with the declarant. I sounds like the non-lap swimmers were the squeaky wheels. Now he needs to hear from the lap swimmers who have just as much a right to enjoyment of the pool. Board decisions should be beneficial to the masses not just a chosen few!
SusanW1 (Michigan)
Posts: 5,202
Posted:
"Time and place" rules could be implemented. Some lakes have it for fishing after complaints that the leisure boaters were upsetting the sports-fishers.

So it would mean at certain times, lap swimming is allowed and the leisure swimmers need to know that. Other times, no lap swimming allowed, and lappers need to know that.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

David,
The lappers pay their assessments as well as the loungers so both should have the ability to use the pool. You will need to force the Developer to relook at this problem. My association assigned times for both to use the pool for their own special enjoyment. It probably will work best if each group is assigned times to do their special thing, like even and odd hours or 4 or 5 times a day, each gets their turns. This is sort of like treating little kids, you play with the toy for an hour and someone else plays with it in the next hour. This is Childish at the least.
DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
Have they ever referred to it as a "swimming" pool, or advertised a "swimming pool" as one of the amenities when selling units in the development? If so, I think they'd have a legal problem banning swimming in the swimming pool!
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By DavidW5 on 06/17/2009 7:06 AM

I regret having bought a home in an HOA.

Why? Because you don't know how to assert your rights as a homeowner in the HOA, too? Shame. You get what you put into it, I suppose.

Oh, I'm sure the fact that not being able to do laps is going to decrease the value of your property.

Or maybe not. **shrug**
DJ1 (Ontario)
Posts: 798
Posted:
Michele, I don't think his regret is related entirely to the swimming pool issue. But swipe away.
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
Will do, thanks for your permission!

AnnaD2 (Florida)
Posts: 960
Posted:
We tried to impliment ONE hour a day (while the kids were in school) to designate it as an "adult exercise" hour only. We got such a backlash from the parents of FOUR kids because our docs state that no common areas can be designated for the exclusive use of one group of people.

So, as it stands these FOUR kids can run havoc all over the "Peaceful Enjoyment" of all the other eighty people who live here.

Sorry.....I don't believe the kids have all the rights in the world. Especially when their PARENTS are teaching them bad manners; the "me first" attitude"; and that they should NEVER consider the rights of others who live here.

If I had acted like that when I was growing up (disrespect for my elders) I would have paid for it.

EvaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 190
Posted:
David,

please ‘Hi’ to Virginia for me. The problem is that most Developers write all these rules to benefit themselves, not the membership. In fact, the Florida law does not even allow filing a lawsuit against the Developer no matter what he does, I do not think. Again, not sure the VA law says.

Once the Developer turns over the control to the membership, may be you can do something about it.

I too am sorry I bought a unit in HOA. For over 20 years I lived happily in a house –lovely community – and no one ever told us what to do. It worked. Now with all these commando rules it is just getting more and more ridiculous. But, may be it is necessary. I guess the times have changed. But, I still do not like it even though I have to comply with it.

EvaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 190
Posted:
Sorry,

I mean to say.. 'please say Hi' my keyboard is sticking :-)
KirkW1 (Texas)
Posts: 1,665
Posted:
And this is what happens when nobody is willing to give up ground.

But really, at what point are you declared to be swimming laps? And the no goggle's rule? That is just insane as there are plenty of people who don't swim laps and use goggles.

As for Anne's situation: well the Board should grow a spine and deal with the problem. I see no reason to have a rule for "Adults Only" when the kids are in school. If you have four kids out of control deal with those kids in a meaningful way. Impose rules on their behavior and enforce them.
AnnaD2 (Florida)
Posts: 960
Posted:
Kirk, we've tried and tried and tried. Kids playing and laughing in the pool is one thing; but we've got kids who are allowed to SCREEEEEAM at the top of their lungs while in the pool and we've gotten complaint after complaint after complaint from residents about it. Their parents don't say a word to them about it and when people have actually gone out to the pool and begged the parents to keep the kids more quiet they've been told they're not hurting anyone and for them to go back inside. People have even heard the parents ENCOURAGE the kids to do whatever they want because they're "allowed" to.

The parents have been sent all sorts of letters about the pool rules (disturbing behavior) association (noise) rules, etc. We've had board meetings with this topic on the agenda and every time we have the few beligerant parents sit there and scream at us and tell us this is a "family" community; kids will be kids; and that WE need to learn to be more "tolerant".

We have people here who are sick and elderly and it's very, very upsetting for them. I'm five units away from the pool, on the second floor, my windows are closed, and my air conditioner is on and sometimes I can't even talk on the phone with their screaming. Any suggestions?
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
Posted:
If these people are in violation, why are you only just sending letters?
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
Anna,

This is a hard shot to call. Kids at the pool equates to lots of noise and playful antics. A lot of kids and alot of elderly usually does not mix, I'm sorry to say. Today's parents aren't like our parents were; they don't seem to discipline their children but rather believe it's best to let them "do their own thing"! And people tend to get less tolerant of children (especially children at play) as they grow older. It would be nice to be able to reach a happy medium, but I really don't know that it's possible. Sorry, I don't have any answers except to say, please be careful about making rules that cannot be kept, i.e., no loud noise at the pool; no playing "Marco Polo", etc.
AnnaD2 (Florida)
Posts: 960
Posted:
MARCO POLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!

They only play that when the parents say: "Why don't you play Marco Polo, because THEY can't make you NOT play that"

ChristineC1 (Florida)
Posts: 13
Posted:
Many moons ago I posted about our condo HOA having a pool rule (Adult Hour from 3:00-4:00 - 18 and older only). I don't want to get into if it is a "good rule" or "bad rule" -- needless to say, we didn't like it. We have 7 and 9 year old girls and only get to visit our "vacation home" three weeks per year. An adult hour smack in the middle of day did not sit well with us.

Anyhow, a guy in a different building really made a huge stink about this including writing threatening letters. Long story short, when our resident manager found out the rule violated the FHA and we could be subjected to a fine -- he refused to enforce it and even put a sign in the office saying he will not enforce it (trying to cover his you know what).

We haven't been down there in quite a while, but I understand they changed the sign to read "Lap Swimming only from 3:00-4:00pm). I am wondering if this will cause more problems -- are you going to get kicked out of the pool at 3:05 if you don't begin swimming laps????

I'll be down there in a few weeks and will write a post about the outcome of this.
ChristineC1 (Florida)
Posts: 13
Posted:
Many moons ago I posted about our condo HOA having a pool rule (Adult Hour from 3:00-4:00 - 18 and older only). I don't want to get into if it is a "good rule" or "bad rule" -- needless to say, we didn't like it. We have 7 and 9 year old girls and only get to visit our "vacation home" three weeks per year. An adult hour smack in the middle of day did not sit well with us.

Anyhow, a guy in a different building really made a huge stink about this including writing threatening letters. Long story short, when our resident manager found out the rule violated the FHA and we could be subjected to a fine -- he refused to enforce it and even put a sign in the office saying he will not enforce it (trying to cover his you know what).

We haven't been down there in quite a while, but I understand they changed the sign to read "Lap Swimming only from 3:00-4:00pm). I am wondering if this will cause more problems -- are you going to get kicked out of the pool at 3:05 if you don't begin swimming laps????

I'll be down there in a few weeks and will write a post about the outcome of this.
ChristineC1 (Florida)
Posts: 13
Posted:
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Posted By AnnaD2 on 06/17/2009 3:44 PM
We tried to impliment ONE hour a day (while the kids were in school) to designate it as an "adult exercise" hour only. We got such a backlash from the parents of FOUR kids because our docs state that no common areas can be designated for the exclusive use of one group of people.

So, as it stands these FOUR kids can run havoc all over the "Peaceful Enjoyment" of all the other eighty people who live here.

Sorry.....I don't believe the kids have all the rights in the world. Especially when their PARENTS are teaching them bad manners; the "me first" attitude"; and that they should NEVER consider the rights of others who live here.

If I had acted like that when I was growing up (disrespect for my elders) I would have paid for it.


Sorry.....I don't believe the kids have all the rights in the world.

I just have to address this. You may think this way, however residents with children pay the same amount of association dues as you do and their families have the right to have the same access to the amenities as you do.

People who smoke by the pool annoy me to no end -- I'd love a "no persons who smoke can use the pool" rule but I know better.
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 7,043
Posted:
Christine,

My interpretation of the sign is that if you want to swim laps, you can only do it between 3 & 4 PM. The sign doesn't say you can't do anything else in the pool, therefore, IMO you can do as you please at the pool during that hour.
SteveM9 (Massachusetts)
Posts: 3,699
Posted:
Do you seriously need dedicated time, in writing, to do laps? Just pick a time where no one is around to do your laps. Problem solved.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

I wonder, how much would it cost to purchas one (1) line of rope with floats on it, allow one outside lane for lappers and be done with it.
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
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Posted By ChristineC1 on 07/17/2009 8:17 AM
I'd love a "no persons who smoke can use the pool" rule but I know better.

You know better than. . . what?

I know of hundreds of pools that have this exact same restriction.

And no alcoholic beverages.

And no glass anything.

MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
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Posted By DonnaS on 07/17/2009 12:22 PM

I wonder, how much would it cost to purchas one (1) line of rope with floats on it, allow one outside lane for lappers and be done with it.

Brilliant, Solomon!
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
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Posted By ChristineC1 on 07/17/2009 8:17 AM
Posted By AnnaD2 on 06/17/2009 3:44 PM
We tried to impliment ONE hour a day (while the kids were in school) to designate it as an "adult exercise" hour only. We got such a backlash from the parents of FOUR kids because our docs state that no common areas can be designated for the exclusive use of one group of people.

So, as it stands these FOUR kids can run havoc all over the "Peaceful Enjoyment" of all the other eighty people who live here.

Sorry.....I don't believe the kids have all the rights in the world. Especially when their PARENTS are teaching them bad manners; the "me first" attitude"; and that they should NEVER consider the rights of others who live here.

If I had acted like that when I was growing up (disrespect for my elders) I would have paid for it.



Sorry.....I don't believe the kids have all the rights in the world.

I just have to address this. You may think this way, however residents with children pay the same amount of association dues as you do and their families have the right to have the same access to the amenities as you do.

People who smoke by the pool annoy me to no end -- I'd love a "no persons who smoke can use the pool" rule but I know better.

Unfortunately the bureaucrats that run the world don't feel the same way. This is a re-post of mine from another thread on pools:

The HOA could be in violation of the Fair Housing Act (1988) for discriminating against a group of people, especially kids. Over the past decade, a number of court decisions have applied the provisions of the Act to HOA pool rules and regulations. The cases have held that restrictions on children’s use of a swimming pool, where those same restrictions do not apply to other adult residents, are prima facie cases of discrimination under the Act.

Courts have found that the only way an HOA may avoid liability for rules that discriminate against children is to show two things: (1) that the pool rule is rooted in a “compelling business necessity,” and (2) that the rule constitutes the “least restrictive means” to achieve the desired effect. In the context of swimming pools, concerns about safety and sanitation typically prompt HOAs to adopt rules that limit children’s use of the pool. Of course, keeping the pool safe and sanitary presents a compelling business necessity, but the Act requires that HOAs come up with more inventive ways to address their safety and sanitation concerns than simply forbidding minors under a certain age or non-toilet trained children from using the pool.

These are some of the cases that the courts have heard:

• An HOA’s rule forbidding children under 18 to swim without an adult was found by the courts to be in violation of the Act because it was overly restrictive. The court reasoned that under such a rule, even a 17-year old certified life guard could not swim alone. Less restrictive means could achieve the same safety goals by requiring persons without swimming skills to be accompanied by a person with swimming skills, regardless of age.

• A rule prohibiting all non-toilet trained children in the pool was also a violation because the goal could have been achieved by requiring all non-toilet trained persons to wear waterproof pants.

• Prohibiting baby strollers, walkers and playpens from the pool area was considered discriminatory even though it was clearly based upon safety concerns. The court found that a rule allowing only lounge chairs in the pool area have accomplished the same goal.

• A rule prohibiting inner tubes, balls and floats was not discriminatory because it covered equipment not used exclusively by children.


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AnnaD2 (Florida)
Posts: 960
Posted:
Christine, I in no way wish to get into an argument with you....this is not my purpose.....but

The older people here ALSO pay their maintenance fees to enjoy to pool. Older people have their hair done (on a regular basis) and also get their make-up done and do not wish to have unruly children splashing around and thus "making them look like a mess". So I do not feel it is unreasonable to appoint ONE HOUR to when the "adults" can use the pool for their use with the expectation that they can enjoy the water without being "trashed".

This time of year the pool is open around 13 hours per day. The adults wish for ONE HOUR per day (early in the morning) to do their exercises without children getting in their way.

We would not BAN children from that hour in the pool. Simply ask them (their PARENTS) to teach their children RESPECT for the elders using the pool at that hour. With all due respect; maybe you're one of those parents who believe their children's RIGHTS supercede common courtesy and respect for everyone else?

After the "oldsters" get out (at 9:00 a.m.) your kids could have the run of the pool for the next 12 hours of the day. Do you really have a problem with that???

We DO have children here that understand that when "elders" are in the pool to give them "clearance" and they help them....perhaps your children haven't been taught that yet?

Come on and "blast" me for this---but you sound very, very selfish.
EllenS1 (Florida)
Posts: 1,148
Posted:
Anna,

Surely there must be someting in your covenants as to "quiet and peaceful enjoyment" of your property or noise conditions, whatever. If you find this in your docs send out a violation notice which may or may not help. Even rental leases usually contain this language.
ChristineC1 (Florida)
Posts: 13
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Posted By AnnaD2 on 07/17/2009 5:02 PM
The adults wish for ONE HOUR per day (early in the morning) to do their exercises without children getting in their way.

We would not BAN children from that hour in the pool. Simply ask them (their PARENTS) to teach their children RESPECT for the elders using the pool at that hour. With all due respect; maybe you're one of those parents who believe their children's RIGHTS supersede common courtesy and respect for everyone else?

I guess it doesn't matter what you or I think or feel -- the law is pretty clear about banning certain groups of people from a common area for any length of time.

My issue at our place was -- why does it have to be smack in the middle of the afternoon (3-4pm) ?? Why not early morning?

There are plenty of people that can get annoying at the pool besides children. Like I said, people who are sitting less than five feet away from you smoking (smoke drifts in the wind). We occasionally also have groups of older people that like "party" beverages in the plastic containers and like to laugh loudly and party by the pool. Rules should address behavior, not people. Instead of "No smokers are allowed to use the pool" maybe we could say "no smoking in the pool area" -- although, who knows, there is probably a law against that too!

Another option is to avoid the pool when those children are there. Most kids are in school all day for nine months of the year -- that leaves plenty of "adult" time.

For the record, I have two pretty quiet little girls. Occasionally, I have to remind them that "voices carry" when you are outside but other than that they are well behaved children.

Glen, that is interesting info you posted.

Another one of our pool rules is:

4. Children must be toilet trained, and if under 12 must be supervised
by a responsible adult.

Who knew that was a violation as well???
MicheleD (Kentucky)
Posts: 4,491
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Posted By ChristineC1 on 07/18/2009 7:20 AM
Instead of "No smokers are allowed to use the pool" maybe we could say "no smoking in the pool area" -- although, who knows, there is probably a law against that too!

There is not. There should be a rule against smoking and alcoholic beverages at the pool.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

Michelle,

Thank You mon cherie!
AnnaD2 (Florida)
Posts: 960
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We do not ban diapered babies from OUR pool; we have a rule that proper baby swim attire or water-proof pants must be used in the pool. I think we may need that to include incontinent adults, too.

Ellen, you're right....we do have rules about noise and disruptive behavior at our pool. We've sent countless letters about behavior that is "deemed disruptive or offensive" to people using the pool.

Christine, I'm sure your girls are very polite and I understand your frustration if the association "bans" them from the hottest part of the day. That's not fair.

It's just that I'm a "pro-elderly" person in the max of the words. There are too few "voices" for them and it seems that the next generation (the kids) and the following generation (the grandkids) have lost sight of the sacrifices those in their 70's, 80's and 90's have made for them to have the freedoms that they do.

The elderly seem to request so few minutes of the day....at least at my place. If they're demanding a huge "chunk" of time that will take away from families and children then THEY are wrong.

I didn't mean to come down on you so hard....but as I said; I will be a voice for the elderly anytime needed. It just seems that the elderly are expected to make accomodations for all kids; and all kids should not ever be expected to make accomdations for the elderly.

It's a sad, sad world we live in now. Manners and respect seem to have gone out the window.....and we've had to put in place laws and rules just to make people be civil and respectful.

It's embarassing..at least to those of us who were raised with morals, respect for our elders, and a sense of what "being a neighbor" meant.
GlenL (Ohio)
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Posted By AnnaD2 on 07/18/2009 4:53 PM

It's just that I'm a "pro-elderly" person in the max of the words. There are too few "voices" for them and it seems that the next generation (the kids) and the following generation (the grandkids) have lost sight of the sacrifices those in their 70's, 80's and 90's have made for them to have the freedoms that they do.

Anna, come-on get real. The world is divided between the people screaming for the rights of the kids and the rights of the elderly with the people stuck in the middle expected to pay for it all. Yes I'm on Social Security and Medicare and I get discounts for my medicines and to go to the movies and in some restaurants etc. And if I don't feel I'm getting enough the good people at AARP are willing to go to Congress and point out to them. And politicians listen because unlike kids (past election notwithstanding) us old people vote.

You can have your hour of pool exercise class; you just can't exclude the kids. Set aside an hour in the morning but make it open to everyone. The kids won't show up but if they do welcome them and make them exercise.


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DwightT (Idaho)
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Posted By GlenL on 07/18/2009 11:08 PM

You can have your hour of pool exercise class; you just can't exclude the kids. Set aside an hour in the morning but make it open to everyone. The kids won't show up but if they do welcome them and make them exercise.

That's probably the best idea in this whole discussion. Don't make it about the age of the participants, make it about the activity. That way nobody can claim ageism, but people can still have a time slot that is dedicated to exercise. I would even say you should encourage the kids to show up for this. Most of them could use a bit of exercise anyway.

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