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Posted By MaryA1 on 06/08/2009 9:21 AM
Ron,
One other thing I meant to mention. . .
IMO, whether or not you want to be a board member is a moot point. If you feel there are serious problems the board is not addressing, you have a right to call them on it. Just be sure your have all your facts straight. What happens all to often is that the people who complain the most are the ones who never want to step up to the plate and do their part. And in many instances they are people who don't know what they're talking about and just end up stirring up a lot of trouble for the BOD. HOAs are volunteer assn's so every member has a resp. to be involved and help out. But in most instances it's only a few who are willing to take on that resp. I think that is the crux of what Dana and Michele are trying to get across to you.
Mary, once again you nailed it.
Ron, although I’m very busy today updating our CC&R’s, meeting a painter, the manager, a tree contractor, 2 owners, and dealing with 20 plus emails I want to give you the time you deserve.
I’ve put some of your quotes from this entire post here and would like to show you how you have become the people you despise, those being your board members. From your first post to your last this is how the conversation has gone. (Now when I say “go to” I want you to reread your post at that number.)
1) ”I can not give any good examples because they are so secretive and I just don't have the details I need.” Kind of hard to prove any misuse of funds. If you got on the board then this would be easier to prove or disprove. You know that old saying keep your friends close but your enemies closer?
2) “I think the board members are hiding expenses for their personal wants, like the pool heater that is never covered. Other expenses as well. I can not give any good examples because they are so secretive and I just don't have the details I need.” Go back to number 1.
3) “Well I can not describe it as good as I would like to but it was in a very I AM BETTER THEN YOU way.” Now make sure you remember saying this one, this was your board talking to you.
4) ”They are very snooty and act like they are better then everyone else.” Remember this one too please.
5) ”You ask for proof, I do not have it.” And there is that lack of proof again.
6) ”Always been a math guy ad not an English guy.” I’ll get back to this one…….bear with me.
7) ”Both my wife and I were laid off last December when our children were four months old. We are getting by OK but the money will run out.” That’s pretty good use of math there.
8) ”Well, thank you all for your input. I agree with everything said.” Nice to know I said something right so I must have been reading so far.
9) ”I like to not get involved.” This doesn’t help for numbers 1,2, or 5.
10) “Plus the old board was not good either.” Go back to number 9. And I suppose numbers 1, 2, and 5 applied to them also?
11) “The reason so many California associations go bankrupt is because they do what our association does. They do not plan for the future and instead of saving money they just spend, spend, spend.” Go to 1, 2, 5, 7, 9, and 10.
12) “I am sorry if I offended you. It was not my intention but thank you for your input.” I guess I’ve still been paying attention so far.
13) “For my children I want to influence them to think for themselves and make their own decisions while allowing others to do the same. Not to be someone who tells others what they can or can not do or let others tell them what they can or can not do. To me that is all about personal freedom. I want my children to be free thinkers and to allow others to be free thinkers.” Is this not just what your board is doing and yet you are trying to tell them what they can or cannot do. You are not willing to let them be “free thinkers!
14) “No I do not think the world financial situation is due to poor Condo Association management. But Condo and HOA associations in California do go bankrupt quite often.” The learning curve has started.
15) “$255,000 for what is basically a two bedroom apartment is a lot of money.” Yup, it sure is.
16) “But you are right I didn't spend any time with HOA documents before buying.” So far here’s proof that I’m still paying attention.
17) “Our unit was a short sale. Quite a few other short sales here defaulted into foreclosure.” Go back to number 15, 6, and 9.
18) “I think you still do not get it.” Uh oh, I guess the phone rang. But wait, go to 16, 12, and 8.
19) “Stepping up to the plate has nothing to do with it and if you actually read what I said in my posts then maybe you would know. Stepping up to the plate has everything to do with it. Go to 1, 2, 5, 7, 8, 9, 10, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, and 17.
20) “Perhaps you have difficulty with simple math so I will give you a pass with that. However if you can not add and have no concept of fiscal responsibility then you are no help to your own HOA or me. Gosh Ron, your sounding like your board now, go to numbers 3and 4. Apply 13 also.
21) “But then again maybe you are board members with the same personality like the board members here. You think you are better then the rest of us.” Reread 20 and go to 3 and 4. Apply 13 also.
22) “So in order to be cool like you instead of paying the mortgage and feeding my children I will get the inside of the condo re-done.” Reread 21, 20, 3, and 4.
23)You probably don't get the joke here but if you could actually read and understand what I have been saying the past few days I wouldn't have to explain.” Apply 13, read 22, 21, 20, 3, 4. Then 12, 6, and finally 9 again.
Gee Ron, in two pages of posts you became what you hate. Funny how that works eh? And what you hope to instill in your children you don’t live by yourself.
Now that everyone has a had a good laugh(I hope so as this took some time). Go back to Mary’s post as she is wise beyond her years; find out some facts, look at the big picture, protect your quarter mil investment, and help if you can.
At this point I don’t care if I offended you but I hope I showed you that I at least paid attention.
Oh and Ron? I owe 60K on a home worth 225 so I guess I “am” pretty good with math. And zero foreclosures(Mary, that unit paid up), we have money in reserves(thanks to my board, not the previous one); all this because I didn’t follow your rule number “9”.