Anna: I did mean Ann, sorry!
John: this isn't a court of law and we are neither your argument experiments nor your fellow "barristers." People come here to get opinions, advice and perspective. We offer it. I doubt they expect they're getting either legal opinion or group-think etched in stone.
You singled out my response alone to "pick apart" and mine was the least aggressive of all.
That's what triggered my annoyance, not your escalating my response and in the process implying that I was connecting dots to
sanctions.
My response recommended a kinder, gentler approach than a "cease and desist" letter.
And then you escalate
my words to make. . . what point, exactly?
And, quite frankly, you're much too humble. I think you rather enjoy parsing words.
The point is that the former member appears (based on what the original poster has communicated) to be using the website as a form of weapon.
You say "misinformation" is "mistakes," the board who is reading them is characterizing it as obvious snip and clips, out of context "mischaracterization" (i.e., also a polite way of saying lying) or spinning to lead people to
his predetermined opinion.
We are hardly in a position to determine who has the accurate perception.
But we can reply to the poster in a way that we think makes sense.
And I quite clearly qualified my response:
IF he is outputting misinformation (lies) and
IF he is posting personal information, and
IF he is making negatives comments about the board members. . . .
The board members are private citizens. The bar is set much lower on any claim they may wish to make for libel or defamation.
much lower. And they don't have to prove his characterizations of them are wrong as much as he will have to prove they are accurate.
If he's not getting into personal attacks, and if he is not posting improper, inaccurate, or personal information, he's free to play on his website to his heart's content.
A "gentle" reminder from their attorney that he
not engage in such activities is neither uncalled for nor inappropriate.
And doesn't have to involve "sanctions" at that point.
Now, if he ignores the gentle request, that's a different story. . . .