RuthF1 (Washington)
Posts: 117
Posts: 117
Posted:
OK, so much for keeping things calm (grin). Some of you know the back history so this is actually an addition to the story.
I was able to get 10 owners to show up at this last meeting. They all promised they would not yell or cause a problem. The President met three of them a few mins before the meeting was to start and tried to tell them this was a closed meeting. Of course they all just sat down and said "try to make us leave".
The PM as usual was late due to "stuck in traffic" so we started the meeting. The president again started to tell everyone that we only had 10 mins to listen to them, they would then have to leave so we can discuss business. Again didn't go over well but the owners stayed calm and asked some very relevant questions.
The hot button for the evening was a Golden Lab that has been allowed (by the PM) to stay at the complex. This has been an issue for 6 mos and people are very upset that the dog isn't gone. The PM breezed in during this conversation and without asking a question to determine where we were in the conversation said "that dog has been approved to stay by the BOD" which of course we did not (another story). Then the PM said to the owner who said the dog had knocked her 80 year old husband down, "What do you want me to do? If we make that owner get rid of the dog are you going to go around and tell every other owner that has more than two pets they have to go?"
That was directed to me as I have 3 cats that never go outside, never has had a complaint of any kind and the only reason she found out is one of the BOD's in her pocket told her.
Then an owner who has a HUGE issue with the PM sighed loudly (I didn't hear it and I was sitting one persona away from her) The PM loudly said "Britt you need to settle down"... of course the entire group turned to the PM and said "She didn't say anything you need to stop".
Now the Jerry Springer episode:
Meeting ended nicely... we started the ES.. The owner who the PM had "scolded" stayed back after everyone left and asked if she could ocmment on the dues increase. Before she got her question complete the PM starts yelling at her then told her she had to leave. The next thing I know I am in between the two trying to keep them from hitting each other.
The president gets up and starts poking his finger in the face of the owner and accidently hits her. I am thinking OMG. Realize I am a 3rd degree Black Belt but this guy is 89yrs old. I finally get the owner out of the room all the time the PM is yelling a swearing at her. A few minutes later the owner gets her husband who comes in the clubhouse yelling "who hit my wife". I turned to the Secretary and said "call 911" and got between the BOD and the owners asking them to please stop. Of course the PM is screaming at them again while I am asking her to stop. The cops come and escourt the owners out (I am sure laughing at the entire episode) while the PM is ranting at me that this is all my fault because I wanted to get the owners involved and I don't like her (another long story). She also threw in what she does at every meeting "I should just quit then everyone would be happy"....
Welcome to our litte Peyton Place. Grin...
I had 2 BOD come to my home the next day with flowers and apologies that they took me out as President as their eyes have now been open to the PM. I am having them each write up what they saw and I will be calling the corporate office to bring them in the loop.
Crossing fingers that the next meeting is actually going to be productive (smile)
I was able to get 10 owners to show up at this last meeting. They all promised they would not yell or cause a problem. The President met three of them a few mins before the meeting was to start and tried to tell them this was a closed meeting. Of course they all just sat down and said "try to make us leave".
The PM as usual was late due to "stuck in traffic" so we started the meeting. The president again started to tell everyone that we only had 10 mins to listen to them, they would then have to leave so we can discuss business. Again didn't go over well but the owners stayed calm and asked some very relevant questions.
The hot button for the evening was a Golden Lab that has been allowed (by the PM) to stay at the complex. This has been an issue for 6 mos and people are very upset that the dog isn't gone. The PM breezed in during this conversation and without asking a question to determine where we were in the conversation said "that dog has been approved to stay by the BOD" which of course we did not (another story). Then the PM said to the owner who said the dog had knocked her 80 year old husband down, "What do you want me to do? If we make that owner get rid of the dog are you going to go around and tell every other owner that has more than two pets they have to go?"
That was directed to me as I have 3 cats that never go outside, never has had a complaint of any kind and the only reason she found out is one of the BOD's in her pocket told her.
Then an owner who has a HUGE issue with the PM sighed loudly (I didn't hear it and I was sitting one persona away from her) The PM loudly said "Britt you need to settle down"... of course the entire group turned to the PM and said "She didn't say anything you need to stop".
Now the Jerry Springer episode:
Meeting ended nicely... we started the ES.. The owner who the PM had "scolded" stayed back after everyone left and asked if she could ocmment on the dues increase. Before she got her question complete the PM starts yelling at her then told her she had to leave. The next thing I know I am in between the two trying to keep them from hitting each other.
The president gets up and starts poking his finger in the face of the owner and accidently hits her. I am thinking OMG. Realize I am a 3rd degree Black Belt but this guy is 89yrs old. I finally get the owner out of the room all the time the PM is yelling a swearing at her. A few minutes later the owner gets her husband who comes in the clubhouse yelling "who hit my wife". I turned to the Secretary and said "call 911" and got between the BOD and the owners asking them to please stop. Of course the PM is screaming at them again while I am asking her to stop. The cops come and escourt the owners out (I am sure laughing at the entire episode) while the PM is ranting at me that this is all my fault because I wanted to get the owners involved and I don't like her (another long story). She also threw in what she does at every meeting "I should just quit then everyone would be happy"....
Welcome to our litte Peyton Place. Grin...
I had 2 BOD come to my home the next day with flowers and apologies that they took me out as President as their eyes have now been open to the PM. I am having them each write up what they saw and I will be calling the corporate office to bring them in the loop.
Crossing fingers that the next meeting is actually going to be productive (smile)

