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Ellen and Roger,
I do my version of the same thing, only less formally. I buy a small plant, get a welcome to the neighborhood card, make copies of the CC&R's, the Bylaws and the neighborhood map, and go introduce myself as the President. I get their contact information, have a chat, tell them about garbage/recycling/green waste pickup, and then say, "If you have any questions about the CC&R's or the neighborhood please call me or one of the other Board officers," who are identified on the neighborhood map. And then I leave. This way, their first glance at the paper will not see,(and they will glance at it) "You have moved into a restricted community. These are the rules you have to live by." I want them to see and feel the plant first, leave the card and envelope unopened and just have the chat. Then in the privacy of their home, they can read the inviting card, which says nothing about what they can or cannot do, and move onto the CC&R's all warm and fuzzy.
Now, I know that is NOT what your lovely letters of welcome say. But I also know that human nature will tell this homeowner that it does. And, also instinctually, she may feel the "Big Brother" creep up upon her. It's all irrational but it's also predictable, whether she's already read the CC&R's already.
Now having said that, I have just 40 houses in my 'hood, so this personal, non-form letter approach is highly doable and effective. The large communities in the hundreds, perhaps not so much. Still, a welcome letter of any sort is just good form - whatever form fits!
Dorothy