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Posted By DJ1 on 02/08/2009 8:01 AM
You said "His subject line was dogmatic and purposefully misleading."
Ever watch Judge Judy, Michele?
She would say you don't know what he was 'thinking' so how can you know he was 'purposefully' ... even with his, my or your bias.
Of course I can!
I'm not a "judge," so I don't have to stand by the level of the bar that Judge Judy does.
However, there are many many times where she can make determinations and assessments, based on past history and past statements.
The pattern of communication from "George" has left it's mark.
I already agreed that there is nothing wrong in the least with reading about and knowing and understanding all the "warts" that come with association living.
Again, that's a distraction from my main point, which is that the subject line in and of itself was not only a misrepresentation, but, based on past performance, most likely an intentional one.
The disagreement isn't over the posting of and discussion of the content of the article.
Many here are doing that.
You and I, however, seem to be locked in a struggle over whether or not the subject line was misleading.
I say it was.
You say it wasn't.
Again, 180' endpoints that will never be joined!
How much less manipulative would a subject line like this have been:
"News Report in Texas Discusses Claims That HOAs Lead to Reduced Home Values"
No bias. No bull. No slant. No "statement" in and of itself.
Someone just glancing through the subject titles on the forum would not get the seed planted "Gee, there's
evidence somewhere that
proves HOAs lower home values! I'll read it later. . . "
And, of course, doesn't have time, whatever.
I know he didn't use the word "proves," but that's my point. Remember, my career was in "spin." Certain words trigger various subconscious connections.
The word "evidence" itself suggests something concrete and credible. Then to point that "evidence" at the lowering of home values by HOAs, well, one dot leads to another. . . .
By the time one reads the article one is already of the mindset that there's some credible standard of proof there. And, there clearly wasn't.
So the problem isn't with the article, it's with the portrayal of what it contained.
He's more than welcome in his accompanying text to his opinion that what is in the article is "evidence" to him and good enough in an of itself.
But he should be more "credible" in his own subject lines.
And, given "George's" propensity to be completely aware of language and its nuances, I don't believe for one minute that it was unintended skew.
And back to the poor sad worn-out dead horse named Red Shed, I also don't believe the homeowner just painted his red. Regardless of what he may or may not have understood "color scheme" to mean (even though we really don't know the actual verbiage of the covenant, only the poster's paraphrasing of it), it was pretty clear that whatever he did wasn't even run by the board or Arch Committee for approval. It's been a while since I read the post, but from my take away, the shed that was red was out of compliance from day one. It either was never approved or the color was never presented for approval.
We were lucky here in our subdivision to escape most of the ice damage. Our electric only went out briefly, but my father-in-law's went out, as did my daughter's. So FIL and his pet, daughter and family and their pets, and us and our pets all huddled in the house for the duration. It lasted about a week.
One thing I know now, cats generally don't make friends with other cats that easily.