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Posted By RobertR1 on 01/25/2009 9:27 AM
George,
If picking apart is not allowed and I really got no problem with that, as I, nor you, can ever answer every question. So I do, in some small manner understand what you are saying, with exceptions, but no matter, as it doesn't solve the fence problem and I think I posted this will all be settled by give and take and some tactics will cross the line a little.
I am sort of stumped to understand from reading the posts here, you are convinced most that post here don't understand what is really going on. This site is filled with compromises and changed minds and new approaches and specific tolerances. Even our most dogmatic posters seem able to live with the differences they find in their associations and the differences of opinions they find on this board. I wouldn't want to ask them if they thought I was right because I clearly showed them the error of their ways. My impression is that nearly all come here to learn, not be taught. Your post is a lesson and I learned from it and I appreciate it, I hope it makes me wiser in the future, isn't that what it is about here?
Although my best instincts tell me to leave well enough alone, my baser instincts drive me to comment. I apologize in advance for allowing my baser instincts to prevail.
I was educated in an academic tradition much different from the common American system of higher education. In most universities one is assumed innocent of stupidity until proved guilty. In the university which I attended one is assumed guilty of stupidity until proved innocent. It is the difference between the English system of justice (
common law) and the French system of justice (
Code Napoléon). Indeed, the law school which I attended prided itself on the number of its graduates who failed the bar exam on the first round. The school viewed its function not to train lawyers, but to educate students in the law. I was taught not to ask "how," but rather, to ask "why?" I was not taught common statistics, but rather, Bayesian statistics.
I have learned not to take anything said in open discussion personally. I have learned that
ad hominen responses are signs that the opposing side in a debate knows it does not have the facts to support its case. They serve to distract the discussion from the merits of the arguments. Some of my staunchest allies in legislative battles have previously castigated my opinions from the floor.
I learned that one does not gain knowledge by expressing one's uninformed opinion. "An open mouth equates to a closed mind." Yet, in this forum there is much uninformed opinion masquerading as fact. A number of posters consistently offer opinions that show a lack of understanding of the issue at hand. They base their opinion upon anecdotal information or upon personal experience which is very often wrong. All it does is tend to perpetuate misinformation, rather than contribute to the advancement or dissemination of knowledge.
This uninformed opinion is particularly acute when it comes to questions that have legal ramifications in case or statutory law. In such instances, it does not matter what my opinion is (or any poster's opinion is, for that matter). What matters is what has been determined in the courts or legislatures. Before expressing an opinion, I should take the time to educate myself so that I can offer an informed opinion should I so choose.
I have sought to refrain from posting on threads to which I cannot contribute meaningfully in the discussion (particularly those that deal with "how" rather than "why"). While I may have an opinion, I refrain from expressing it, because it is an unformed opinion. Instead, I read silently and learn from others.
I would posit for discussion that many of the problems that homeowners associations have stem from (1) a misunderstanding of the role of governance and (2) the perpetuation of outmoded concepts. Admittedly, this bulletin board deals with problems of governance. Yet, I am nevertheless surprised by the large number of posts and threads that deal with boards of directors acting outside their scope of authority or in direct contravention of the governing documents. While I know differently, one could presume after reading the posts here that rogue activity is the norm, rather than the exception, for homeowner association boards.
There are several threads in which reasonable people may reasonably disagree, especially those that are based on equally valid, but differing perspectives. I find those most educational.