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I respect your side of the arguement Michele, i truly do. I just know from experience that our board was pilloried because of our badly worded "rule" that prevented "Any owner from operating a business from the home".
I tried to practice the "don't ask/don't tell" policy, and luckily, had very few complaints. When we did have a day care/baby sitting service open their doors, a simple chat from us to the owner was enough. However, IF she had wanted to, she could have made our life difficult, by simply pointing out that we were NOT enforcing the rule against others in the HOA, just her. She didn't, and the sleeping dog stayed still.
However, if you have a rule that states "no business", how can a board tell one homeowner "yours is a business because it has traffic but their business isn't a business because it doesn't." with a straight face? If the real rule is "traffic" or "external advertising", then why doesn't the board change the rule to mean what they mean? How can you pick and choose and remain consistent? Is one truck parked outside okay? Two trucks Not okay? a truck less than 2 tons okay, but a truck with a derrick on it not okay? If i advertise on the internet, that's okay, but advertise in a paper is not okay? When the next board comes in power, is three kids in daycare okay, but 4 is not anymore?
If the board has guidelines (like your board seems to have had), that helps ensure consistency, and that's great. Such guidelines add meat to the bones of the rule, and flesh it out (nice bio analogy, eh?).
As for how I know who runs a business out of their home, in most cases, it was easy. We talked to our neighbors, noticed when UPS came to the door twice a day, signed for packages for "Dolly's Candles" when Dolly wasn't home, talked to the website designer about his roadblocks, went to a tupperware party for the fourth time as a (fill the hole, make the party look bigger) guest, saw the bumper stickers on the cars, etc.. Usually, a simple "How's work?" conversation in the driveway or at the mailbox was enough to get a litany of how bad business was, the problems they had with internet connections, phone lines messing up, not enough room in the garage to store items, increasing or declining sales, etc..
Honestly, i am not against people running a "home based business"... i wrote a novel from my kitchen table, which technically is a home based business (well, it would have been a business, had it actually sold). I just wish that HOA's would write the rules better to ensure enforcement from board to board, year to year, instead of just ignoring parts they don't like, favoring people they do, etc.. I think it is unfair to people entering a contract to have very ambiguous, undefined terms that can come back and bite them later. It's too much like "bring me a rock management" in reverse, when you say "No businesses!", and then say later "well, that one is okay." "So is that one" "And that one" "and that's okay, right now" "Not that one, of course. No home based business are allowed, can't you read?"