JaneK (California)
Posts: 175
Posts: 175
Posted:
I’ve been reading IreneC’s posts. This is probably not the first post on this subject and I’m sure it won’t be the last.
Being the minority on a petty, vindictive, narrow-minded board is not easy. It can make you crazy. I have often thought, “What can I do or say to change their minds? What would change my mind in a similar situation?” Besides getting a large majority of owners out to protest the board’s actions, I’ve come up blank. Apathy, as usual, reigns supreme and the small group of owners trying to change things is ignored.
The directors will not talk to or listen to homeowners regarding anything, requiring all communications go thru the management company. Management does not always pass all communications to the board. (Because they won’t listen to homeowners, they are not aware of this and won’t believe it.) I can understand requests for maintenance or reports of leaking pipes, etc. going to management; they are better prepared to deal with these issues, but opinions and thoughts? Board members should be open to discussing issues with homeowners. It’s as though the homeowners are second-class citizens sent like servants to the back door of the mansion.
The board claims that talking to the homeowners is not right and that it will get them sued. Huh? As long as a decision is not made independently of the rest of the board, such as telling an owner that an architectural change or similar is or isn’t OK, or disclosing confidential information, what is wrong with soliciting opinions? Finding out what homeowners are thinking about things? Even something as simple as, “What color would you like the clubhouse painted?” They should listen. I feel board members need to know the thoughts of those they represent so that they can make the best decisions for all. Often it is difficult for many to get to meetings, they work full-time and commute long distances.
I believe that the board honestly feels they are doing what is best for our community. But many of the things they have done could easily get us sued; selective enforcement, nasty, threatening letters and fines for trivial or non-existent violations, actual harassment of owners, conflicts of interest with contractors, disregarding laws, ignoring and/or misquoting the CC&Rs as well as being incredibly rude and disrespectful to homeowners. They will not believe people have moved solely due their decisions and actions. When the market improves, I suspect there will be many, many for-sale signs out, mine included.
The board is suspicious of and ignores the small group of owners trying to convince the board they need to listen and pay attention to homeowners’ thoughts and opinions.
Does anyone have some ideas how to turn this situation around before there’s a lawsuit?
Jane
Being the minority on a petty, vindictive, narrow-minded board is not easy. It can make you crazy. I have often thought, “What can I do or say to change their minds? What would change my mind in a similar situation?” Besides getting a large majority of owners out to protest the board’s actions, I’ve come up blank. Apathy, as usual, reigns supreme and the small group of owners trying to change things is ignored.
The directors will not talk to or listen to homeowners regarding anything, requiring all communications go thru the management company. Management does not always pass all communications to the board. (Because they won’t listen to homeowners, they are not aware of this and won’t believe it.) I can understand requests for maintenance or reports of leaking pipes, etc. going to management; they are better prepared to deal with these issues, but opinions and thoughts? Board members should be open to discussing issues with homeowners. It’s as though the homeowners are second-class citizens sent like servants to the back door of the mansion.
The board claims that talking to the homeowners is not right and that it will get them sued. Huh? As long as a decision is not made independently of the rest of the board, such as telling an owner that an architectural change or similar is or isn’t OK, or disclosing confidential information, what is wrong with soliciting opinions? Finding out what homeowners are thinking about things? Even something as simple as, “What color would you like the clubhouse painted?” They should listen. I feel board members need to know the thoughts of those they represent so that they can make the best decisions for all. Often it is difficult for many to get to meetings, they work full-time and commute long distances.
I believe that the board honestly feels they are doing what is best for our community. But many of the things they have done could easily get us sued; selective enforcement, nasty, threatening letters and fines for trivial or non-existent violations, actual harassment of owners, conflicts of interest with contractors, disregarding laws, ignoring and/or misquoting the CC&Rs as well as being incredibly rude and disrespectful to homeowners. They will not believe people have moved solely due their decisions and actions. When the market improves, I suspect there will be many, many for-sale signs out, mine included.
The board is suspicious of and ignores the small group of owners trying to convince the board they need to listen and pay attention to homeowners’ thoughts and opinions.
Does anyone have some ideas how to turn this situation around before there’s a lawsuit?
Jane