Denise,
I've found myself in the same situation with my own HOA, of course I'm got my own neighborhood email network that they have to contend with also. When the Board refused to involve itself in the safety issues associated with the construction of a convenient store / gas station directly across from our own (w/o traffic lights) I launched my own website. It has since been retired but seeing as the Board intends to continue holding their monthly HOA meetings in secret, a new website will soon be complementing the independent email network.
In most cases the only legal name the HOA can actually claim is something like the "Wildwood Homeowners Association" (ficticious name). They cannot legally stop you from calling yours the "Wildwood Community" or "Wildwood Herald", etc., unless they have actually trademarked the name "Wildwood". Of course that doesn't mean they can't just try to harass you with an attorney. I know my HOA threatened to sue me over my email address "
[email protected]" and consulted an attorney but they never followed through as they were probably told the same thing I had already researched.
Domain names are cheap (<$10/year) and a lot of them will usually allow you a certain amount of space in which to post yours for free. Several high schools now offer computer courses and have groups that might be able to help you with setting yours up as part of their community service requirements.
If you do need to raise some money to set up something more elaborate, ask a realtor if they would like to advertise on your site to help cover your expenses.
I would first let the Board know of your intentions and try to establish it staying on friendly terms with the Board. But under no circumstances should you agree to let them play censor to a privately established website. Open communications is an essential element of an Association and if your Board doesn't step up to the task then they shouldn't complain when someone else does.
Good luck,
Randal