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Posted By MrTexaS1 on 05/20/2026, 2:43 PM
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Posted By MarkM19 on 05/19/2026
, 7:35 PM
.... I personally do not go to the pool because as the president of our HOA if I see something and do not take action I am not doing my job and if I do correct something I am a Jerk....
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Mark there must be a happy way to take action without being perceived as a jerk. What if your action - on observing a rule violation at the pool- was simply to document it and present it to the board for the board to take united action? This would avoid any contention the day you are at the pool, so you can enjoy your property, and the board can discuss and organize a smarter system of management to discourage or prevent the thing that is out of order.
Pool Chair. As Shelia put it, it’s “the job that eats your soul.*
When I was doing it, I would dutifully write up each incident: “the ___ family broke into the pool at 11pm and had a 30 person party with food and alcohol.” “Mr. & Mrs. ___ greeted the LGs with “are you the pool nazis?” and “will you save me if I’m drowning?” and vulgar language.” “A group of young tenants broke into the pool at 3am and had a party with liquor and glass bottles, which ended when one young woman vomited explosively on the pool deck.” “Mr. ___ challenged a LG and was asked to leave. Instead, he got in her face and wouldn’t leave and she called 911. Mr. ___ claimed to be the victim of racism and prejudice.” I have more: the woman who ordered our pool contractor around like he was her personal servant “fetch me that hose!”. The fellow on the landscaping crew who would teach ‘girlfriends’ how to break into the pool. The woman who brought her 8yo? son to the pool, sat and played with her phone while the boy turned each and every chair upside down, then they left without a second glance at the now inverted chairs. At least a couple of instances of a ‘failed swim diaper’ where the parent attempted to sleaze on out without being detected. I say “at least a couple” because these are only the incidents I’m aware of.
Each was dutifully reported to the Board, who refused to take any action. “We should be kind …” No. You should go clean up that vomit from last night.
If there’s a moral to the story, it is: make sure the Board is backing your efforts. And if you discover that they aren’t: quit the gig.
HOA Board ex-President
Austin, Texas USA
“You can’t put too much water in a nuclear reactor”