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TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
One comment our Board received was that they were glad that structure is coming to our HOA, but is concerned that it's becoming too formal and not fun to live in the development - not sure where the trade off is.

I'm developing an article for the Associations newsletter and would appreciate input.
Our goal would be to see if there is support for a social committee. Here is the draft:

Business and Social
Two Sides of a
Homeowners Association


Getting to know your neighbors and calling them friends. Friendly conversation with those living across the way. Coming together to support someone when tragedy happens or sharing someone’s joy in their life. Perhaps sharing food and drink or celebrating a holiday. These are examples of the social side of a homeowners association.

The Business side of a homeowners association is not as much fun as the social side. Having to tell someone they can’t do something with their property because it doesn’t comply with the Restrictions. Paying bills while trying to stay in budget. Planning for the future and try to save enough funds so those plans can happen. Listening to concerns from members. Wanting to do things one way but the governing documents, laws and regulations require things are done a different way. Paying taxes and filing reports with the State. Those are some examples of the business side. The business side is not nearly as much fun as the social side but is something that simply has to be done.

When a development begins, things tend to be more social. The developer is usually handling the business side of the Association leaving the Board time to focus on the social side. As the development grows and the developer is no longer handing the business side, Boards need to try and balance their time between the two sides. Too much time on one side can cause issues on the other side.

Both sides are needed. The social side maintains community harmony, builds friendships and can encourage volunteerism. The business side protects the members from legal issues that could arise.

This Board has focused, and will continue to focus, on the business side because that is where the Boards limited time needs to be spent to protect the members.

Due to this limited time, the Board will look at forming a social committee. A social committee would be responsible to organize, publicize and run social events.

As a first step, a survey will be sent to the membership. This survey will ask if there is membership support for a social committee, how much money should be allocated to such a committee, ideas for social functions and if you would be willing to serve on such a committee.

Together, lets balance both sides of our HOA.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
Works for me! May also want to see if anyone might have any concerns that a committee and/or board should keep in mind, such as issues with noise, parking (especially for events like a community yard sale), number of events that should be held over the year, etc.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 1,334
Posted:
Well done. A few suggestions.

Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/20/2025 8:58 AM
The business side protects the members from legal issues that could arise.
The business side helps protect property values and also helps protect members from potential legal issues.

Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/20/2025 8:58 AM
how much money should be allocated to such a [social] committee
How clear are your covenants that money can be used for social events?

Have people actually asked for such a committee? Or does the board in its best judgment think it is a good idea?

I have never felt comfortable spending much, if any, money on social events. This is due to the wording in my past HOAs' covenants.
JackieB4 (California)
Posts: 398
Posted:
Per usual... thanks to Tim, Shelia, Elle we quickly receive pertinent info. To dodge any bullets and to stimulate the return of FUN to our HOA, (without a Social Committee) I started a
LENDING LIBRARY in front of my garage. Neighbors are sending me photos of their kids finding a good one. Secondly, once a month(last Saturday/month), I have a BINGO IN THE STREET event with the PRIZE tables holding donations arriving from members/guests. It's always a fun event, interesting prizes.... and gathering steam. The kids play multiple cards and families socialize. I used NO HOA funds and skipped the hassel of another committee. I might have mentioned this before ????, but it's worth a repeat for newcomers. Definitely a win-win for our HOA.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 1,334
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JackieB4 on 07/20/2025 11:47 AM
Per usual... thanks to Tim, Shelia, Elle we quickly receive pertinent info. To dodge any bullets and to stimulate the return of FUN to our HOA, (without a Social Committee) I started a
LENDING LIBRARY in front of my garage. Neighbors are sending me photos of their kids finding a good one. Secondly, once a month(last Saturday/month), I have a BINGO IN THE STREET event with the PRIZE tables holding donations arriving from members/guests. It's always a fun event, interesting prizes.... and gathering steam. The kids play multiple cards and families socialize. I used NO HOA funds and skipped the hassel of another committee. I might have mentioned this before ????, but it's worth a repeat for newcomers. Definitely a win-win for our HOA.
I do not believe you have mentioned this.

What great ideas, and all working around having to have a committee.

My god you have kids reading actual books? That's magic right there.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Shelia,

We would put restrictions on any social committee.
Such restrictions would be:
Must be inclusive of entire membership
Must not exceed allocated budget
Due to tax implications, must not charge entrance fees or accept cash contributions

Elle,

Our CCO, as has been pointed out, said that past meetings were more social.

A different individual said they appreciate the structure going into place for the hoa but "it is starting to feel really formal and not fun to live here - not sure where the tradeoff begins and ends."

Last years membership survey suggested separating business and social functions.

Last year the boards attempt at amending the Bylaws divided the community.

The Board believes we need to find a way for the community to heal.
Perhaps a social committee will do that.
Worth a survey.

I agree with you that spending association funds on social functions can be a slippery slope.
The covenants don't really provide for social functions beyond maintain common areas (that we don't have) for "all residents use and enjoyment"
Push come to shove, I'd have to say it's not allowed by the CC&Rs.

However, past boards have used funds for food and drink at the annual meetings - creating a social event.
They have also purchased an ad in the local newspaper for community garage sales.

Hence, tossing it to the membership to see how much, if any, they want to spend on social functions.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
sorry, forgot one major restriction

NO Alcohol. Too much liability.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Jackie,

I echo others when saying great ideas.
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:


Does any part of your declaration provide social activities as a function of the HOA? Mine doesn’t and the budget for 2 function is $1,000, which is $8 per owner a year. If someone objected, I believe we would have to end this meager subsidy.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
That could be a circular argument - the declaration doesn't address the issue AT ALL, so what's wrong with it? Or...this isn't listed as a function of the HOA, so why are we allocating money? If no one's complained about this so far and your budget isn't much anyway, I wouldn't worry about it.

To cover yourself, it wouldn't hurt to evaluate the functions you've had over the last two or three years and consider if the attendance justifies the line item in the budget, and the money is enough to cover expenses, since everything's gone up. You can also poll the community to see if the HOA should continue the two activities it has and if anyone has ideas on other ways it could be funded.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
Posted:
Well done!

I get the feeling that some owners view the association as a social club or country club. So I suggest showing them the benefits of the business side. It's not this boring stuff that costs money and takes us away from the REAL purpose of the association. Inside it supports the financial and legal health of the association. It helps avoid unplanned expenses and higher future costs by doing a good job today. It gives the association a solid foundation that allows the social stuff to continue. Without the finances, there would be no social stuff - only run down property that's not attractive to owners or potential buyers/lenders.

And I hate to tell your homeowners, but there are some of us who think the business end IS the fun stuff. I've been thinking about forming a finance committee, although my focus would be mainly as a recruiting/training tool for future board members. You may want to consider something similar (in your spare time)...

We've had "heartfelt" discussions around here about using assessments to pay for social events, but in this case it makes sense to take it slowly.

People can have a lot of fun with participant-funded events. My community does a pot-luck late summer/early fall picnic plus pre-Halloween trick or treat (because you can never have too much candy). Both are popular. We have no clubhouse or amenities for socializing, and our CC&Rs state that the purpose of the association is to maintain the property - nothing that suggests socializing is a proper use of assessment dollars. But we manage.

When you get down it, it doesn't matter whether owners pay for their entertainment directly or if they pay for it via assessment dollars. It's all the same money and it comes from the same source. The main difference is that non-participants aren't paying for their neighbors to have fun if the association isn't involved - which is my main objection to association-funded events. In my mind it violates the principle of "every owner treated equally", which I think is one of the things that community associations get right.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By CathyA3 on 07/21/2025 6:05 AM

We have no clubhouse or amenities for socializing, and our CC&Rs state that the purpose of the association is to maintain the property - nothing that suggests socializing is a proper use of assessment dollars. But we manage.

Similar for this Association.

This is why I would want a membership vote first before allocating funds to social activities (especially since we have such a small budget and no real way of increasing it).

LoriM15 (Florida)
Posts: 1,009
Posted:
Our community is 25 years old and has run out of steam for social activities. When the community was developed, many of the homeowners were early retirees with lots of energy - and many moved to Florida from out of state. They wanted social activities and treated the community more like an over 55 development. Lots of activities for adults and almost none for families. Lots of parties where they wasted tons of money decorations (the kitchen was full of bowls, candles, tablecloths, etc. that were only used once and then abandoned). The idea was the clubhouses were hubs for entertainment. Now, those people have mostly moved on. No one wants to do any planning or any work. We have younger families moving in and there are few activities for them. Even if we have a pot luck where the association provides hot dogs, we end up getting the same 50 people (out of more than 1500 in the community) who's contribution is mostly a bag of chips or box of cookies from the supermarket - then they want to take all the leftovers.

We tried having fitness activities. The only one that remotely pays for the instructor is chair yoga. For zumba and aqua fitness, we would get less than 5 people to attend a class that cost us $70 for the instructor. We tried charging per class, but people complained and stopped coming (and we were only charging $5 per class).

Bingo is very successful and self-supporting. We are allowed by the state to collect money for bingo as long as any profits are given out as prizes. Everything else we have tried has lost money - dinner shows, music shows, art classes, etc.

We do keep the business side and the social side separate. We do have an social budget, but it's a small amount in our overall budget.

Looking at it realistically, times have changed. Younger families are busy with work, kid's sports and kid's activities. They see the amenities as a place to unwind at the pool or on the courts, not as an entertainment hub. Only the older people want to attend events at the clubhouse, but that's not supportable. It's simply not fair to the very large majority of the community to spend association funds on the very few people that attend.

Our rules are that all events are open to everyone and we may not pay for alcohol.
JackS20 (North Carolina)
Posts: 271
Posted:
didn't you write before that your budget was $5000 per year? If you want to file IRS form 1120H then your social budget can't be more than $500 or 10% of your budget.

Here's what's gonna happen with your newsletter, everyone is gonna say YES WE want social events, but no one will be in charge of them. You have to make it clear that you are looking for leaders and organizers.
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JackS20 on 07/21/2025 10:19 AM
didn't you write before that your budget was $5000 per year? If you want to file IRS form 1120H then your social budget can't be more than $500 or 10% of your budget.

Here's what's gonna happen with your newsletter, everyone is gonna say YES WE want social events, but no one will be in charge of them. You have to make it clear that you are looking for leaders and organizers.

Our board refuses to be the organizers of any social events. It the community can’t organize a volunteer committee, we view this as lack of sufficient interest.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JackS20 on 07/21/2025 10:19 AM
didn't you write before that your budget was $5000 per year?

I agree.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
We did develop a survey to be included with the annual meeting notice package.
Will appreciate input:

1) Should the Association have a social committee to organize, publicize and run social events? yes/no

2) Would you be willing to serve on such a committee? yes/no

3) Should the Association provide funds to such a committee? yes/no

4) Knowing our annual income is $4,150 and there are expenses like insurance, administrative costs and maintenance of the entrance monuments, what amount of funds do you think should be used for social events? $_________________

5) What social events do you thin the Association should have?

Yes, we are aware that question number four will likely be a range from zero to $4,150.
We didn't want to set an amount because we want to see if the membership understands how much it costs to simply be an Association.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/22/2025 12:51 AM
Posted By JackS20 on 07/21/2025 10:19 AM
didn't you write before that your budget was $5000 per year?


I agree.


Took off more of the quote than I thought.

Yep, we understand the tax implications. We have to take baby steps with the membership as many, and certainly the vocal ones, do not understand the ins and outs of how Associations have to function.
JackS20 (North Carolina)
Posts: 271
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/22/2025 1:02 AM

4) Knowing our annual income is $4,150 and there are expenses like insurance, administrative costs and maintenance of the entrance monuments, what amount of funds do you think should be used for social events? $_________________

I would just tell them that it can't be more than 10% of the budget per irs rules or $415. why let them choose amounts higher than tHis when the board will jUst need to reJect it?

TechNicallY It's easy to get around JUst Have 1 MiNUte of HOA news at the end of the social event to make it HOA meeting.

You forgot to ask the most important question!
HOW MUCH OF YOUR MONEY are you willing to spend on social events by raising dues?
$20
$40
$60
Make sure the question is mean averaged. meaning they rank each choise on a scale of 1 to 5 and the average amount wins. IF you have 30% voting for $20, and $30% voting for $40 and 40% voting for $60. in this case 60% want to spend $40 or less but the winner is $60. mean average voting prevents this.

People dont' care about spending money till they realize it's gonna be their monoey.
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
Posted:
Great idea to include the survey. While you may not get any useful conclusions out of it this time, one of main benefits of surveys is getting people to start thinking about how to pay for things they want.

As others noted, if people aren't willing to pay for something or do any work to make it happen, then what they actually want is a visit from The Party Fairy who will clean up after herself.

(I'm actually stunned at the idea of an annual operating budget of $4150. Of course I'm in condos, so it's not a fair comparison.)
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JackS20 on 07/22/2025 3:36 AM

People dont' care about spending money till they realize it's gonna be their monoey.

This is one of the hardest things to get across to folks in HOAs and especially condos. It's all their money. Whether they pay for something themselves (self-funded social events) or they pay for it via assessment dollars, it all comes from the same source. People think "the association will pay for it" like there's a self-replenishing pot of money someplace (leprechauns, don't you know).

I think the biggest problem is that so many people don't understand money and engage in magical thinking about it. Fundamentally they don't understand numbers - and when you stick dollar signs on the front of the numbers, the little bit they did know evaporates.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Jack,

Our documents are poorly written.
There is zero way to increase assessments without amending the CC&Rs.
There is zero authority to impose a special assessment.

Hence, we are stuck with $4,150 per year.

Your probably right. The board would look foolish if the membership said to use $1,000 and we had to say tax implications limit this to $415.
Best to tell them that upfront.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/22/2025 1:02 AM
We did develop a survey to be included with the annual meeting notice package.
Will appreciate input:

1) Should the Association have a social committee to organize, publicize and run social events? yes/no

2) Would you be willing to serve on such a committee? yes/no

3) Should the Association provide funds to such a committee? yes/no

4) Knowing our annual income is $4,150 and there are expenses like insurance, administrative costs and maintenance of the entrance monuments, what amount of funds do you think should be used for social events? $_________________

5) What social events do you thin the Association should have?


Good set of questions. I might also ask how many events should the association sponsor each year - that could help people give more thought to how much should go in a social committee budget, or at least how these activities should be funded

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 1,334
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/22/2025 1:02 AM

3) Should the Association provide funds to such a committee? yes/no

4) Knowing our annual income is $4,150 and there are expenses like insurance, administrative costs and maintenance of the entrance monuments, what amount of funds do you think should be used for social events? $_________________
The covenants fix the annual assessment at an exact dollar figure. To change this dollar figure would require a vote of owners to amend the covenants.

Can you give readers a rough idea of how you all allocate the fixed dollar amount the HOA is allowed to collect each year?

Are the HOA's expenses (including a bit for reserves) truly less than how much the HOA collects each year?
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Don't mind sharing.

We were lucky and an insurance broker found us liability and D&O insurance for $1,000. Probably because our Association doesn't really have anything to maintain or own anything. Name Brand insurance companies wanted up to $4,000 for the same coverage.

Current Budget:

Income: $4,150

Expenses: $4,150

$270 Mowing around Entrance Monuments
$200 P.O. Box Rental
$1,000 Insurance
$450 Postage
$500 Printing
$170 Misc. Admin
$ 60 License,taxes,fees
$600 Legal (would be lower but lots of documents to update)
$600 Reserves (again, only 2 entrance monuments to maintain)
$100 Misc.
$200 Room Rental for annual meeting
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 1,334
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 07/22/2025 11:39 AM

Current Budget:

Income: $4,150

Expenses: $4,150

$270 Mowing around Entrance Monuments
$200 P.O. Box Rental
$1,000 Insurance
$450 Postage
$500 Printing
$170 Misc. Admin
$ 60 License,taxes,fees
$600 Legal (would be lower but lots of documents to update)
$600 Reserves (again, only 2 entrance monuments to maintain)
$100 Misc.
$200 Room Rental for annual meeting
How would say the 2026 budget look if the board allocated say $400 (or whatever dollar figure you think is a reasonable estimate) to social events?

Some //estimated// expense in the current budget has to be cut to pay for the new expense (social events).

Maybe owners need to be told that the Board thinks maybe it can find $____ in the budget to fund social events. But even this might open a can of worms about how assessment dollars are spent.

I am not sure I would ask owners how much they would like the HOA spend on social events. Why? Because they have little understanding of the HOA budget. Also they may not understand that the assessment cannot go up, due to the covenants.

I see one other oddity. I believe the Board from time to time points out that it cannot increase assessments without amending the covenants. An amendment is unlikely. The Board will not blatantly violate the covenant on assessments. But strangely (to me), here the Board is proposing spending money on social events arguably in direct violation of the covenants.

I would be tempted to delete proposed questions (3) and (4) and instead state something that might be more realistic, like:

(3) Would you be willing to pay out-of-pocket and in advance for social events on an event-by-event basis?

(4) The HOA cannot lawfully increase assessments. The budget cannot support funding social events without cutting other anticipated expenses. Would you vote to amend the covenants to allow an increase in the assessment which would then allow the HOA to fund social events?


I understand the board's goals here. But this seems so messy, legally and budget-wise.

I am pondering.

Maybe the solution is something like twice yearly pot lucks at someone's home, with cornhole and croquet. The Board announces these, but otherwise provides no funding.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
I agree it's messy no matter how one looks at it.

Past Boards did not set aside reserves and paid for a meal at the annual meeting (ran $400-$500).

Members are aware of this, so we can't say we have no money.

Charging for events would cause tax implications as those funds would be non-exempt income.

I do like adding #4 to the survey. Have to think how to rework those questions.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
I think we would open up a can of worms talking about budgets, funding and tax implications.
Therefore, I'm dropping question 4 entirely but keeping question 3.

Personally, I think most will say we should have events and a committee but nobody will agree to volunteer to serve on a committee to make that happen.
At the very least, we can demonstrate a desire to improve the social side.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
I wanted to let you know that I tried AI today to see if it could make the article better.

I asked that it be simplified for better understanding and polished for a newsletter.

This is the result:

Business and Social: Two Sides of an HOA

Being part of a Homeowners Association isn’t just about managing property—it's about building a community. The HOA has both a social side and a business side that help make the neighborhood a better place to live.

The Social side is the true spirit of any community that lies in the connections we make with one another. Getting to know your neighbors, forming lasting friendships, and sharing both the joys and challenges of life are what make a neighborhood feel like home.

The business side is the operational side that keeps things running smoothly. This includes things like: Ensuring properties comply with community rules (Restrictions); Collecting fees from members to meet community needs; Paying bills while staying within budget; Listening to concerns and addressing member feedback; Sometimes, adhering to rules and regulations that may not always align with personal preferences but are required by governing documents, laws, and regulations.

While the business side of an HOA may not be as fun as the social side, it’s essential to ensure the continued success and well-being of our community.

When a development is first getting started, the atmosphere tends to be more social. During this time, the developer usually handles the business side of the HOA, giving the Board more freedom to focus on fostering community connections. However, as the development grows and the developer steps back, the Board must balance its time between both the social and business sides of the association. Focusing too much on one can lead to issues in the other.

Both sides are important. The social side helps maintain community harmony, encourages friendships, and often sparks volunteerism. The business side ensures property values are protected and helps safeguard the association and its members from potential legal complications.

At this stage, the current Board has prioritized the business side. This focus ensures that the necessary tasks to protect members are being handled. However, we acknowledge the need for balance.

Recently, we received a valuable piece of feedback: "I do like getting structure around the HOA, but it's starting to feel really formal, and not as fun to live here. Not sure where the trade-off begins and ends." This comment gave us something to reflect on, and it’s clear that more attention is needed on the social side.

Unfortunately, with volunteer time being limited, we need to find an effective way to address this. To better balance both sides, the Board is considering the formation of a Social Committee. This committee would be tasked with organizing, publicizing, and running social events for the community.

As the first step, a survey will be sent to all members to gauge support for a social committee, gather ideas for social events, and determine if anyone is interested in volunteering to serve on the committee.

We look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas!

CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
Posted:
I think that AI actually did a pretty good job. It got the tone right: factual but friendly and approachable. And apparently it didn't make up stuff out of thin air, which AIs such as ChatGPT often does (because that's its function).
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
I think that when it is rewriting an article you made, vs. making one from scratch, AI would be more factual (if you were factual of course).

I agree, it did a pretty good job.

Knowing that my membership is not HOA savvy, I'm glad it can simplify an article.
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:
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Posted By SheliaH on 07/21/2025 5:40 AM
That could be a circular argument - the declaration doesn't address the issue AT ALL, so what's wrong with it? Or...this isn't listed as a function of the HOA, so why are we allocating money? If no one's complained about this so far and your budget isn't much anyway, I wouldn't worry about it.

To cover yourself, it wouldn't hurt to evaluate the functions you've had over the last two or three years and consider if the attendance justifies the line item in the budget, and the money is enough to cover expenses, since everything's gone up. You can also poll the community to see if the HOA should continue the two activities it has and if anyone has ideas on other ways it could be funded.

Because the declaration includes what the money can be spent on and parties isn’t on the list.

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