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Posted By DeanJ on 08/04/2025 3:08 PM
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I am not big on committees, but if you are going to seat them, take all that volunteer. The reasons I believe in seating everyone is selecting people who tend to agree with the board is not very productive. The problem with the bomb throwers is they believe everyone is unhappy, everyone agrees with their point of view and wants to throw bombs. Seating them on committees of normal people requires them to interact and discover they arenât the majority and other people can and do have very different points of view.
Surprisingly when a board does this, the recommendations are usually tweaks of existing policy and the bomb throwers are now without a forum to claim discrimination.
What happens in practice is that the bomb throwers usually blow up the committee as everyone else resigns. I've watched it happen. Then you're left with an organized group of bomb throwers who set their sights on scaring off the entire board and anyone else who is thinking about volunteering. Watched that happen, too, a couple years ago - with many of the same people as in the first example. Bomb throwers don't learn. This is because that they aren't in it to improve the community, regardless of what they claim. They're in it for the emotional charge they get out of conflict. They don't want a committee to function well - they want it to go off the rails.
The only way a committee with troublemakers on it works at all is if the group has enough savvy and strong-willed people who understand the troublemakers' dysfunctional dynamic and who take steps to counteract it. Most people don't have the skills unless they've encountered it before and have the scars to show for it. (One of my fellow board members jokes about having PTSD from dealing with folks who blew up our board in 2023, but she's not really joking.)
As for discrimination, here's a secret about appointees: those doing the appointing are allowed to discriminate. A competent board wants to choose people who they think will do a good job and *who will work effectively with others*. Any accusation of discrimination will go nowhere because no one has a right to serve on a committee and because the board can appoint whomever they choose. (One of our vocational dissidents tried that "discrimination" nonsense and was shut down smartly by the association attorney.)
Why in the name of all that's holy would a board deliberately choose people with a track record of not getting along? I can't speak for other board members, but I have too much to do as it is and I refuse to referee fights between grown-ass adults.