PeggyW3 (Michigan)
Posts: 73
Posts: 73
Posted:
I am Vice President of a Condominium Association. The President asked all members of the Board to put together no more than 6 questions to give to our Reserve Study group addressing the Reserve Study which covered many areas. He wanted us to send our questions on to him so he bundle and send on to the Reserve group all together. It turned out my 5 questions were the only ones sent, no other Director had any questions. So, the President took it upon himself to answer these questions himself and suggested I ask a couple other board members (with whom I disagree somewhat and he knows that) for other answers to my questions.
I had worked for hours on these questions and wanted the Reserve group who deals with 150+ Associations to address my questions. I asked some questions questioning our plan for Roof replacement which was a topic included in their report. The President decided to just send one of my questions on anonymously when I had signed my name to the page of 5 questions and have even talked (in the past) with the person that they were being sent to. A very nice group.
If he was unable to answer or provide me guidance, I was ok with that. I was hoping he had had some experiences, in the past, regarding the best financial way to address new roofs.
The President indicated my questions did not apply to our Reserve Study and so he didn't send on. In my estimation, they did apply. I did not say anything negative about any board member. They are all good people. I did not criticize anyone, but I did give what I thought might be a good way forward and wanted their thoughts about how we might handle roof replacement in the interests of our financial situation. We have a young man (with no Association knowledge) on the board in charge of all the roofs, siding, and painting etc. He is like a kid in a candy store wanting to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars quickly potentially leaving us in a rather precarious situation. They don't see it that way, everything this young person says to do we hop on his wagon and do it. I seem to be a loner here, older, and just would like for other ideas to be heard and at least considered. Am I wrong here? I am not one who grabs the microphone and blabs forever about what I think. Many meetings, I say mostly nothing.
I have written our President who is a very nice man, and made it clear I did not approve of what he did, without my permission and without speaking with me first. I asked that he send the rest of my questions on to the Reserve group as he told us he would. It's like what I have to say, sometimes not always in support of everything this board wants to do and I am basically ignored. I understand that somewhat, they have been together on the board for years and think their ways of doing things and decisions made are the ONLY way to go. He likes to manage everything and everyone so that what he has decided is not jeopardized. that's fine, but don't I have the right as an officially elected board member to speak what I think regarding thus and such?
What do you think about this? Thanks for your help.
Peggy W3
I had worked for hours on these questions and wanted the Reserve group who deals with 150+ Associations to address my questions. I asked some questions questioning our plan for Roof replacement which was a topic included in their report. The President decided to just send one of my questions on anonymously when I had signed my name to the page of 5 questions and have even talked (in the past) with the person that they were being sent to. A very nice group.
If he was unable to answer or provide me guidance, I was ok with that. I was hoping he had had some experiences, in the past, regarding the best financial way to address new roofs.
The President indicated my questions did not apply to our Reserve Study and so he didn't send on. In my estimation, they did apply. I did not say anything negative about any board member. They are all good people. I did not criticize anyone, but I did give what I thought might be a good way forward and wanted their thoughts about how we might handle roof replacement in the interests of our financial situation. We have a young man (with no Association knowledge) on the board in charge of all the roofs, siding, and painting etc. He is like a kid in a candy store wanting to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars quickly potentially leaving us in a rather precarious situation. They don't see it that way, everything this young person says to do we hop on his wagon and do it. I seem to be a loner here, older, and just would like for other ideas to be heard and at least considered. Am I wrong here? I am not one who grabs the microphone and blabs forever about what I think. Many meetings, I say mostly nothing.
I have written our President who is a very nice man, and made it clear I did not approve of what he did, without my permission and without speaking with me first. I asked that he send the rest of my questions on to the Reserve group as he told us he would. It's like what I have to say, sometimes not always in support of everything this board wants to do and I am basically ignored. I understand that somewhat, they have been together on the board for years and think their ways of doing things and decisions made are the ONLY way to go. He likes to manage everything and everyone so that what he has decided is not jeopardized. that's fine, but don't I have the right as an officially elected board member to speak what I think regarding thus and such?
What do you think about this? Thanks for your help.
Peggy W3