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TammyY2 (Florida)
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A woman in our neighborhood, had a candidate she wanted on the board. She was a proxy, and presented the proxy with another paper ballot for the same person. She has been alleging all sorts of crimes on her unofficial Facebook page. I believe we should pursue charges of voter fraud.
She has had our HOA board & residents under siege because of a personal vendetta with the current president. She is a dinestic terrorists in our neighborhood for 9 months and we need it to stop. Has anyone had an issue such as this?
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
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What a mess and that mess was created by your HOA board.

If an owner must be present at a meeting to vote, the board should not issue ballots prior to the meeting. Ballots are issued at the meeting and those with a proxy get the ballot for the owner they are representing.

If owners may cast a ballot without being present at a meeting, ballots are issued in advance and cast prior or during the meeting. A owner may also give their proxy to a person to vote on other issues before the owners at the meeting.

Good luck with an election fraud charge for HOA election .

CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
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How to handle voter irregularities: robust election procedures that verify homeowner information, discard duplicate votes, etc. Many homeowners are confused by proxies or they change their minds and attend the meeting after all - so by itself misuse is not proof of anything.

How to deal with accusations and allegations: Are they true? Do you have proof? Does the accuser's behavior violate your association's governing documents? If you're on the board and the answer to any of these questions is "no", then let it go. If the accusations rise to the level of defamation, the accused individual can talk to a lawyer about potential legal action. Warning: defamation claims are hard to prove, and collecting damages is harder. If there are no provable damages, you're probably wasting your time - but I'm not a lawyer, this is not legal advice, talk to your own lawyer about the details.

How to deal with the Drama Llamas: They want attention. Don't give it to them. They want to provoke a reaction, and boards typically will give them what they want - which encourages them to continue with the bad behavior. Consider implementing the "gray rock" technique (Google it). I call it "brief, bland, boring", and it involves making the Drama Llama's interactions with the board as dull and boring as possible. Caveat: if the accuser's behavior violates the law, seems dangerous in some way, or is escalating, then bring in the professionals (police, etc.) - these things are beyond the board's ability to handle on their own.
TammyY2 (Florida)
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We did discard them. Our attorney was present as well. None of the accusations are true, and she has written six letters to the new management company for proof. Every time she gets info she twists it to fit her narrative. I’ve looked into libel/defamation… it is hard to prove, but I have over 1500 pages of proof. The problem is she quit as CEC chair, but told everyone she was fired. She is splitting up the community. We have 550 homes, most of them are on her page. She has caused so much of a disturbance it is tortious interference with HOA business.
I’ve been quiet, we’ve tried to make solutions, but her desire is for me to quit.
SheliaH (Indiana)
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Your title says voter fraud, but everything else that’s followed since has been about her threatening people (sounds like you’re the target?) Keep those issues separate.

You said this lady had a proxy, which would mean she was casting a vote for another homeowner. You also said she presented the proxy with another paper ballot for the same person – are you saying the ballot was also the owner who gave you the proxy or someone else? If not, are you saying she got hold of a paper ballot which is supposed to be confidential?

The paper ballot should have been turned in by the person casting it, whereas the person named as proxy would attend the meeting to cast a vote on behalf of the owner who couldn’t attend. If the same owner named a proxy AND completed a separate ballot, one or the other should have been disallowed. Did this affect the election outcome?

Personally, I don’t see this as something to sue over – it might be another matter if this happened with dozens of ballots and this lady was responsible. Even then, it would be easier to disallow those ballots and those homeowners would have to show up and cast their votes personally or turn in their ballots themselves. And what would you sue for – this is more of a screw up the board should have addressed when it was discovered. By the way, when WAS it discovered and what happened next? Did anyone talk to the owner to verify what he or she wanted to do?

(Yet another example of how proxies get messed up because people don’t understand and ask questions or fail/refuse to read and follow instructions)

As far as the allegations are concerned, it would appear you are the target, since you say you have 1500 pages of proof. . How has this lady’s actions made it more difficult for the board to conduct business – are people believing what she says and show up at the meeting to disrupt the board’s ability to conduct business? If that’s the case, what do the rest of your board colleagues have to say about this?

You say you have 1500 pages of proof - so take Cathy’s suggestions and have your attorney review it and you can discuss your options. If this proof is more about the lady’s attitude towards you, I wouldn’t call it a HOA issue. You could sue, but remember, it’s one thing to sue, another to win and still another to collect. If you can prove these allegations are disrupting your personal life, go and do what it do. Otherwise, ignore it – when people like this see no one’s paying attention (because they think the person is a crank and petty as hell), it’s not as fun.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By TammyY2 on 11/27/2024 6:07 AM
I’ve looked into libel/defamation… it is hard to prove, but I have over 1500 pages of proof.
If you cannot show that the party under attack (the HOA? HOA board members?) suffered financial harm, then with one exception, you do not have proof of libel/defamation.

If you want to know the exception, ask.
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
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The way to deal with people who are spreading lies is through transparency. If the board is doing an excellent job, people should know about it. The board has the bully pulpit (newsletter, website, email blasts) that lets you get the correct message out. After a while, people will figure out that the liar doesn't actually know what she's talking about. She still may get some traction with the folks who are like her (they want drama), but the reasonable ones should be able to see through her after a while.

Hang in there. And sometimes you have to take the long view and let people find out the hard way. We had a group of complainers and troublemakers who ran off our entire board last spring. They got themselves elected to the board and then proceeded to screw up publicly. Now more rational people are in charge and are picking up the pieces. It all goes with the territory, unfortunately.
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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If your state has the Common Interest Privilege, a claim of defamation may not be possible.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 11/28/2024 6:19 AM
If your state has the Common Interest Privilege, a claim of defamation may not be possible.
In the phrase "Common Interest Privilege," "common interest" refers to the interests that co-defendants in a lawsuit share. The co-defendants and co-defendants' attorneys can exchange emails and have their communications protected by the "common interest privilege" rule.

I see no application of the CIP rule to someone who posts false accusations on Facebook.
JackieB4 (California)
Posts: 398
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Yes ElleN...I'd love to know the EXCEPTION (voter fraud).
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By ElleN on 11/27/2024 8:21 AM
If you cannot show that the party under attack (the HOA? HOA board members?) suffered financial harm, then with one exception, you do not have proof of libel/defamation.

If you want to know the exception, ask.
JackieB4, the exception is a legal principle called "defamation per se." This explains it more eloquently:

So what makes a statement worthy of the “per se” designation? While, ultimately, what is considered “defamation per se” will depend upon how that term is defined by the specific jurisdiction in which the case is filed, there are several categories of statements that are recognized in many jurisdictions as inherently harmful and, thus, defamatory per se:

-- Statements that someone is guilty of a serious crime

-- Statements that someone was “unchaste” or engaged in sexual misconduct

-- Statements that someone has a “loathsome” or contagious disease

-- Statements that someone engaged in behavior that was incompatible with the proper conduct of his business, trade, or profession

These categories of statements are so commonly recognized as constitutional defamation per se because they are obviously harmful to the subject’s reputation without the need for further explanation or additional facts. With this premise in mind, a number of jurisdictions, like Ohio, do not limit “defamation per se” to a specific list of categories, but, rather, through a broader definitional concept. Thus, for example, in Ohio, any false statement will be considered defamatory per se if it naturally exposes the subject of the statement to hatred, ridicule, contempt or disgrace.


When defamation per se occurs, the plaintiff need not prove he/she was financially harmed. More at https://www.bdblaw.com/what-is-defamation-per-se/
JackieB4 (California)
Posts: 398
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ElleN- As always, THANKS!
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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Good article: https://www.floridacondohoalawblog.com/2019/11/26/say-what/
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By ElleN on 11/28/2024 8:46 AM
Posted By TerriS6 on 11/28/2024 6:19 AM
If your state has the Common Interest Privilege, a claim of defamation may not be possible.
In the phrase "Common Interest Privilege," "common interest" refers to the interests that co-defendants in a lawsuit share. The co-defendants and co-defendants' attorneys can exchange emails and have their communications protected by the "common interest privilege" rule.

I see no application of the CIP rule to someone who posts false accusations on Facebook.

Same can apply when a statement is made to HOA membership. Also, directors can be considered quasi-public figures which also requires a malice factor.

"California Employees Defamation Blog
Defamation Defense: What is the Conditional Privilege?

California Civil Code § 47(c) grants a conditional privilege against defamation to communications made without malice and on subjects of common interest. This conditional privilege is often used by employers to argue that they should be protected from liability for statements made about employees to other employees in the employer’s organization. Critical to determining whether the conditional privilege is even applicable is 1) whether the allegedly defamatory communication was made on a matter of common interest and 2) whether the employer acted without malice in making the statement. Only if both of these requirements are met can an employer be immune from liability for his or her statements.

Common Interest. The conditional privilege applies only if the statement is reasonably calculated to advance or protect the interest of the communicator or the person to whom the communication is made on a matter of “common interest.” Deaile v. Gen. Tel. Co. of Calif. (1974) 40 Cal.App.3d 841, 846. Depending on the circumstances, examples of statements made on a matter of “common interest” can include an employer’s job reference to a prospective employer and communications made between employees as part of a workplace investigation.

Malice. Even if a statement is made on a matter of “common interest,” the privilege may still be overcome by showing that the employer acted with malice. Malice for the purposes of establishing an abuse of the conditional privilege only requires a showing of a state of mind arising from hatred or ill will evidencing a willingness "to vex, harass, annoy or injure." (Burnett v. Nat. Enquirer, Inc. (1983) 144 Cal.App.3d 991, 1009. Although easy to state, establishing malice can be complex and nuanced and is a concept that both courts and attorneys frequently confuse. Future blog posts will clarify this concept further and discuss the many number of ways in which malice can be demonstrated."
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By TammyY2 on 11/26/2024 6:45 PM
A woman in our neighborhood, had a candidate she wanted on the board. She was a proxy, and presented the proxy with another paper ballot for the same person. She has been alleging all sorts of crimes on her unofficial Facebook page. I believe we should pursue charges of voter fraud.
She has had our HOA board & residents under siege because of a personal vendetta with the current president. She is a dinestic terrorists in our neighborhood for 9 months and we need it to stop. Has anyone had an issue such as this?

And calling someone a domestic terrorist is not defamation?
CathyA3 (Ohio)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 11/30/2024 10:49 AM
Posted By TammyY2 on 11/26/2024 6:45 PM
A woman in our neighborhood, had a candidate she wanted on the board. She was a proxy, and presented the proxy with another paper ballot for the same person. She has been alleging all sorts of crimes on her unofficial Facebook page. I believe we should pursue charges of voter fraud.
She has had our HOA board & residents under siege because of a personal vendetta with the current president. She is a dinestic terrorists in our neighborhood for 9 months and we need it to stop. Has anyone had an issue such as this?


And calling someone a domestic terrorist is not defamation?

Probably not. Defamation has to have factual, provable or disprovable statements - eg: "that person killed my dog." Vague expressions such as "domestic terrorist" are generally considered to be opinion and not actionable - eg, "she's a rogue lawyer".
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By CathyA3 on 11/30/2024 11:15 AM
Posted By TerriS6 on 11/30/2024 10:49 AM
Posted By TammyY2 on 11/26/2024 6:45 PM
A woman in our neighborhood, had a candidate she wanted on the board. She was a proxy, and presented the proxy with another paper ballot for the same person. She has been alleging all sorts of crimes on her unofficial Facebook page. I believe we should pursue charges of voter fraud.
She has had our HOA board & residents under siege because of a personal vendetta with the current president. She is a dinestic terrorists in our neighborhood for 9 months and we need it to stop. Has anyone had an issue such as this?


And calling someone a domestic terrorist is not defamation?


Probably not. Defamation has to have factual, provable or disprovable statements - eg: "that person killed my dog." Vague expressions such as "domestic terrorist" are generally considered to be opinion and not actionable - eg, "she's a rogue lawyer".

Domestic terrorism is a crime so it would have been libel per se, or libel on its face, if the subject's name had been used because it's being posted to third persons who are not members of her HOA.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 11/30/2024 10:44 AM
Posted By ElleN on 11/28/2024 8:46 AM
Posted By TerriS6 on 11/28/2024 6:19 AM
If your state has the Common Interest Privilege, a claim of defamation may not be possible.
In the phrase "Common Interest Privilege," "common interest" refers to the interests that co-defendants in a lawsuit share. The co-defendants and co-defendants' attorneys can exchange emails and have their communications protected by the "common interest privilege" rule.

I see no application of the CIP rule to someone who posts false accusations on Facebook.


Same can apply when a statement is made to HOA membership.
I advise HOA owners not to assume they have legal carte blanche to make any old false statement to anyone about the HOA, HOA directors or their neighbors.

Whether calling someone a domestic terrorist (where there is nothing to support such an assertion) qualifies as libel per se will very much depend on the state.
CathyA3 (Ohio)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 11/30/2024 1:36 PM
Posted By CathyA3 on 11/30/2024 11:15 AM
Posted By TerriS6 on 11/30/2024 10:49 AM
Posted By TammyY2 on 11/26/2024 6:45 PM
A woman in our neighborhood, had a candidate she wanted on the board. She was a proxy, and presented the proxy with another paper ballot for the same person. She has been alleging all sorts of crimes on her unofficial Facebook page. I believe we should pursue charges of voter fraud.
She has had our HOA board & residents under siege because of a personal vendetta with the current president. She is a dinestic terrorists in our neighborhood for 9 months and we need it to stop. Has anyone had an issue such as this?


And calling someone a domestic terrorist is not defamation?


Probably not. Defamation has to have factual, provable or disprovable statements - eg: "that person killed my dog." Vague expressions such as "domestic terrorist" are generally considered to be opinion and not actionable - eg, "she's a rogue lawyer".


Domestic terrorism is a crime so it would have been libel per se, or libel on its face, if the subject's name had been used because it's being posted to third persons who are not members of her HOA.

Is the troublemaker planting explosives in the clubhouse and detonating them during a community event? Or destroying HOA property? That's domestic terrorism.

If the term is applied to someone lobbing verbal grenades, then it's being used in a metaphorical sense. Colorful, vivid language that I appreciate - as ElleN noted, I'm all about the metaphors - but that is not terrorism in the literal sense even though the victims of vivid language can feel as though they're bleeding (in a metaphorical sense). Nobody expects literal bodies lying on the ground, which is the usual goal of terrorism.

I do expect that the troublemaker is a bully and a vocational dissident whose goal is to shut everybody up or force them to do things her way. Metaphorical terrorism.

But by all means consult a lawyer about this. I'm not one, as we know.
CathyA3 (Ohio)
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Also, using "domestic terrorism" in a non-literal sense cheapens the horror that is actual terrorism. It's like the word "Nazi" that's slung around and applied to trivial things. I had a parent who grew up in Nazi Germany. Those people were anything but trivial.

We're supposed to be horrified by this stuff. Some HOA bully running her mouth? Annoying, sometimes worse than annoying - but I don't fear for my life or the lives of my loved ones.
TerriS6 (California)
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Sure but it is a good example of libel per se. One doesn't have to delve into what was meant by saying it because on its face, a domestic terrorist is a criminal.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 12/01/2024 4:14 AM
Sure but it is a good example of libel per se.
The reasons this a poor example (or probably not an example at all) of libel per se are several. For one: Several states do not even recognize defamation per se. Second several states that do recognize defamation per se require that a false assertion of being guilty of a crime involve a crime of moral turpitude. Third calling someone a "domestic terrorist" and nothing more would not pass the bar for falsely claiming someone committed a crime. The speaker would have to assert something false like, "Steve Jones was convicted of ___ in December 2020 when he conspired to do xyz."

More.

The courts have long set a high bar for a speaker/writer being found liable for defamation (per se or otherwise), because all manner of frivolity is spoken all the time, and litigating each and every one would be an enormous burden on the courts and taxpayer. As well there are free speech concerns when people think they will be sued every time they say something.

On the other hand why would someone want to spew nonsense on a Facebook site and risk having to lawyer up?

People should try to be accurate in their claims.
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By ElleN on 12/01/2024 7:42 AM
Posted By TerriS6 on 12/01/2024 4:14 AM
Sure but it is a good example of libel per se.
The reasons this a poor example (or probably not an example at all) of libel per se are several. For one: Several states do not even recognize defamation per se. Second several states that do recognize defamation per se require that a false assertion of being guilty of a crime involve a crime of moral turpitude. Third calling someone a "domestic terrorist" and nothing more would not pass the bar for falsely claiming someone committed a crime. The speaker would have to assert something false like, "Steve Jones was convicted of ___ in December 2020 when he conspired to do xyz."

More.

The courts have long set a high bar for a speaker/writer being found liable for defamation (per se or otherwise), because all manner of frivolity is spoken all the time, and litigating each and every one would be an enormous burden on the courts and taxpayer. As well there are free speech concerns when people think they will be sued every time they say something.

On the other hand why would someone want to spew nonsense on a Facebook site and risk having to lawyer up?

People should try to be accurate in their claims.

Talk about generalizations! You have no clue what a court will do. Calling someone a domestic terrorist is plenty to file a claim that will be heard. Whether there is a judgment in the plaintiff's favor is kind of irrelevant.
SheliaH (Indiana)
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So you're going to go through the trouble of a lawsuit just because someone called you out of your name? Yes,miss hurtful and very petty, but you have to consider, if anything followed. If nothing happens at all, it might be due to people being snart enough to tell name callers usually don't have anything intelligent to add to the conversation, so they resort to name calling. Just like in grade school.

That's a lot different than, say, the election workers in Georgia who faced DEATH THREATS and had to move for their safety due to false accusations of election fraud (to me, that's not the same as what kicked off this conversation).


If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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Tammy
Did you run for the BOD and not get elected?
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
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From the HOA FAQ:

* Deliberate misbehavior and ignorant misbehavior often look the same. Homeowners often get the two confused.

* Anyone who wants to serve on an HOA board needs to have a thick skin, or they will have a very unhappy time of it.

* Courts just love to sort out petty HOA shite. (No, they don't actually...)
SheliaH (Indiana)
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Posted By CathyA3 on 12/02/2024 4:25 AM

* Courts just love to sort out petty HOA shite. (No, they don't actually...)

In fact, that's a good way to really piss off some judges - they will yell at both parties and tell them to go out in the hallways to straighten this out. And if they don't, the judge (now REALLY ANGRY) will straighten both of them out, and it won't be pretty....

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius

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