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SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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This one discusses how organizations can encourage people (board members and others in this case) to take fresh approaches to the way things are done, including rule breaking. Enjoy!

PS - if you often look at articles on this website, you might run into a payment wall for this one, so keep that in mind.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/lisabodell/2024/11/15/a-bold-move-to-banish-employee-burnout-promote-disruptive-rule-breakers/


If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
BH5 (Virginia)
Posts: 84
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Shelia,

I just posted about our deep look at ridiculous language in our Gov Docs confusing quorum and voting requirements. Sometimes people try to figure out what something means when it has never meant anything. It's just poorly written (poor work by a legal "intern" maybe) and has been sitting around for decades while everyone debates the meaning and even copies it over and over. My take is not so much about "breaking rules" but about looking at the so called "rules" using common sense.

We completely got rid of proxy voting which is the most outdated and ridiculous way to manage HOA voting by members. Of course, the pandemic helped that along. But common sense had kept it going. California should take note.

JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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BH5

No Proxy Voting is a road black in being able to remove/change and entrenched BOD. I love Proxy Voting.
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
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Posted By SheliaH on 11/18/2024 6:08 AM
This one discusses how organizations can encourage people (board members and others in this case) to take fresh approaches to the way things are done, including rule breaking. Enjoy!

PS - if you often look at articles on this website, you might run into a payment wall for this one, so keep that in mind.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/lisabodell/2024/11/15/a-bold-move-to-banish-employee-burnout-promote-disruptive-rule-breakers/


This article is not applicable at to HOAs.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Legalese does have a sleep inducing quality- and to think one spends at least a year in law school learning "Legal writing!" Then again, it's been said "find out who controls the language and you'll find out who controls everything else." Remember, many of these legislators are attorneys and I guess they think as long as 5hey ca read it and understand it, who cares about anyone else? And it keeps them employed!

Personally I think people shoukd make an effort to at least attend the annual meeting so they can meet the people who've made decisions that will affect the community for the next tear and possibly longer, so they can make informed decisions on whether those people should continue. We might have a lot less confusion about when and how to use proxies if people would only tear themselves away from Instagram and ESPN every once in awhile, show up and speak up for themselves, casting their own damned vote

As for this article, I know it's not about HOAS specifically, but the reason I like posting them is because they can provide some useful insight as to why people do the shit they do. This one asked about rule breakers and how they can shake up old ways of thinking in any organization. Its not about breaking tge rules because its old or just because you can - maybe what's needed is some soul searching on whether that approach or procedure still works or should be tweaked or dumped

HOAs often stagnate because people csnt shake the "that's the way we've always done it" attitudes and miss out on opportunities. I'm think of Tim's recent conversation about his efforts to try and update the documents in his community and how some objected for that reason. One man said everything was fine until Tim showed up - the idea of changing anything scares people to death

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
BH5 (Virginia)
Posts: 84
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It is also the way those people got voted in. We had proxy hoarding. Someone running for the board who collected 60 proxies. His friend collected 70 proxies. At the annual meeting, we voted on other matters. The 90 people who attended were completely voiceless because those two guys had all the votes via proxies. We vote like normal now. We use a normal ballot, either paper or electronic. Everyone is happy.

KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
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Since CA instituted absentee mail-in secret balloting, in '06, HOA owners no longer use proxies, tho’ still OK per our Bylaws. The absentee secret ballot counts towards quorum, which for years in my HOA was 25% of all members for election of directors.

We completely restated our Bylaws in ’22, which required a simple majority of members, and eliminated proxy voting, write-ins on ballots, nominations from the floor of the annual meeting, cumulative voting AND quorum* These were recommended by our HOA attorney and by the CA HOA attorneys at Davis-stirling.com, BH5 writes”California should take note.” What does that mean???? Proxy doing is probably legal in Cali. Non-profit Corporations Codes, which apply many kinds or corporations.

BH5 writes they vote like “normal” now. What the heck does that mean? Many many posters here have proxy voting in their HOAs. Does “normal” means secret ballot like it does in Cali?

I also have no idea what you mean, BH5, when you toss in your posts the “confusion between “quorum” and “voting requirements.” I assume this confusion is in your Bylaws? Why not cite it for us??? Maybe there’s no confusion. Maybe y’all have been reading it wrong??
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
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I think the article applies to any group of humans, including HOAs - but maybe not in the way the author intended.

Which leads to my main criticism of the article: that it is too general. Many times rule breaking is actually disruptive and can't be allowed if a business is to function properly. Consider accountants or structural engineers who take an innovative or experimental approach to their work - or the folks who calculate your paycheck. The article should have been more precise about when and where and what sort of new ideas are valuable. Circumstances will dictate when the value of new ideas won't be overridden by other concerns; otherwise, there is strong pressure to conform. We humans get nervous when we feel that we're out of step with the rest of the group - it's the entire foundation of social media.

The same is true for any group of social animals. As long as differences don't threaten the survival of the group, they will be tolerated. Otherwise, "rule breakers" will be punished - and punishments can include ostracism or even death.

As far as community associations go, so much of what they do is dictated by law. But group dynamics still apply, and you often see them on dysfunctional boards.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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Posted By BH5 on 11/18/2024 4:47 PM
It is also the way those people got voted in. We had proxy hoarding. Someone running for the board who collected 60 proxies. His friend collected 70 proxies. At the annual meeting, we voted on other matters. The 90 people who attended were completely voiceless because those two guys had all the votes via proxies. We vote like normal now. We use a normal ballot, either paper or electronic. Everyone is happy.


What do you mean vote like normal?
NormanK2 (Florida)
Posts: 39
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Proxys is like mail in voting,it should never be allowed on important matters that matter to all invoved. And understanting the meaning of words bill clinton said it the best Depends on what the word is, IS !!
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
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Norma, Proxies are legal. in many states and HOAs. Mail-in voting is legal in many states.
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
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Many condo associations would be unable to achieve quorum and hold an annual meeting without the use of proxies. That would clearly be a worse outcome, and state laws/bylaws reflect that reality.

It's actually no different from paper ballots. Condo associations can have a high percentage of absentee owners. They often don't vote at all, in any format, which can prevent important measures from being approved.

If a community is having problems with proxies, that suggests an issue with their election procedures. How the proxy is used needs to be consistent with election procedures, and both need to reflect the nature of the membership in individual communities. (One data point: we have never had an issue with our proxies.)

In other words, blanket statements are unlikely to be true in community associations. There are always exceptions and outliers. And laws/rules should serve the needs of the people, not the other way around. Which pretty much says that I'm a rule-breaker, doesn't it? :-)
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Indeed - and for too long, laws are enacted not so much to serve people's needs but to ensure X group of people make more money and stay in power (you can't have one without the other).

We've never had issues with our proxies either, and they do help people participate in the process. Life can and does get in the way - people might not be able to attend a meeting because they have young children or elderly adults to care for (sometimes both), some have health issues, others have to work or will be in school, in-person or virtual. The problem is people don't pay attention to what's written on the proxy - it could be too much legalese or something else. Consider the average reading grade level in this country is 7th or 8th grade and according to the National Literacy Institute, 54% read at a 6th grade level or lower. Read this (if you can) and it may explain why some things in HOAs happen or don't happen:

https://www.thenationalliteracyinstitute.com/post/literacy-statistics-2024-2025-where-we-are-now#:~:text=54%25%20of%20adults%20have%20a,highest%20rate%20of%20child%20literacy.

Another problem with proxies is that people simply sign it and hand it over to whoever shows up at their door to collect it. Proxies are usually set up to allow you to select someone to attend the meeting and cast a vote on your behalf - who are you picking and can you trust them to do what you say? Better read that proxy so you'll know what you're authorizing them to do.

Coming back around to the article that prompted my starting this conversation - if something isn't working, sometimes you have to consider how it was addressed in the past and whether that approach works anymore. It may be a matter of tweaking a little or you may have to change your thinking about the issue and look at it from a different prespective. In my experience as a HOA board member, I found I picked up lots of ideas from different areas and anything that prompts you to think critically and in a more creative way is always a good thing. It doesn't mean you'll always get it right, but at least you tried, and even if you fail, you'll still learn something.


If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
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In addition to the literacy problem, we have innumeracy (people who don't understand numbers). It's impossible to understand association financing without basic math skills. It's one reason why the mistaken belief that you can keep expenses down by keeping assessments low is so widespread. Too few folks can look at how this works in real life and say "no, wait a minute, what about when something unexpected happens?". Add to that the human tendency to kick the can down the road and board members wanting the community to like them ... and there you are: 15 years later, roofs leaking, and no reserves.

Not only do too few understand what they've bought, too many *can't* understand.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Innumeracy - haven't heard that word before (I'll have to remember it!)

You're right about association finances - it's always been amazing to me that people think you can run the association for $1.98 and see your property values quadruple (we won't get into the debate about what sends those up, down, and sideways - let alone what "property values" really are). It's bad enough they forget about inflation, despite the fact that very little these days cost what they did even a year ago, let alone 10 or 20. Especially houses - the wear and tear from living in it year in and out will eventually prompt you to repaint, repair, and eventually replace. By the time you do that, the price of materials, labor, taxes, changes in building codes, etc., will affect the price, but some people STILL think the stuff will last forever.

It's frustrating, but board members have to press on and keep providing complete and accurate information, even if they're pretty certain they can say almost anything to homeowners and get away with it. Likewise, if board members babble, evade or get indignant when asked straightforward questions, homeowners have to stop them and make them explain themselves. You'll be able to tell fairly quickly who knows what they're talking about as opposed to repeating whatever the president, property manager, said. Make them make sense and keep asking questions until it does.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius

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