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ChristineS7 (Minnesota)
Posts: 58
Posted:
Our board meetings have been hijacked by one person who is loud, uses profanity, is accusatory, resorts to name calling, etc. Once she starts talking, other homeowners get up and walk out of the meetings. How does our board handle this person? We are waiting to hear from our management legal department but I also want to hear from your own personal experience. Thank you!!
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
Posted:
The board creates: reasonable rules for board meeting attendance; a procedure for addressing violations of these rules; and a fine schedule (if allowed by state law et cetera). The board gives all owners say 30 days notice of this rule (unless the covenants/bylaws/statutes say more time is required). Then per the procedure, formally warn the owner. If the owner continues, fine (per the procedure).

Some HOAs hire a security guard and let owners attending that they will be escorted out of the meeting if they disrupt it.

Also offer an "open forum" segment at the beginning and end of the board meeting. The rules for civil behavior still apply, but this open forum might help owners to feel they are being heard.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Our board meetings are held in individual homes.

If someone acts as you describe, the following happens:

1) They are asked to keep it civil or leave (basically a warning)

If it continues:

1) The president stops the meeting and places it in recess.
2) The property owner (typically the President) asks the individual to leave.
3) If the individual does not leave, they watch the president call the police concerning trespassing.
4) The person leaves or the police resolve the issue.
5) The President calls the meeting back into session and the meeting continues.

Typically, the individual leaves upon police being called and before they show up.

I've only seen this issue go to the police level once.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Does your board meeting agenda now have a time when owners may contribute? Or do they raise hands, at any time during the meeting and are permitted to speak? If the latter, that's the cause of this problem. At least two state permit ownrs to speak to any and item thy wish. Does Minn require this?

It's important to remember that we're talking about meetings of the Board -- owners are present SOLELY as observers.

But if they've been permitted to yak at any time, the first thing to do, with agreement by the Board, is to allow owners to speak only at at certain times. Some states require this open forum period. Does Minn.? I've long written here the value, imo, of 2 open forums--one at the beginning & one at the end.

Make this an agenda item at your next meeting. Normally this would be under New Business, but since that comes late on a meeting's agenda, the meeting chair should ask the board for its OK to deal with it first. Then:

"I move that owners may participate during board meetings only at an open forum at the beginning [or the board's choice] of our open board meetings." "Second"; "all in favor," etc. . After it's passed, the meeting chair should then say, "We shall have a handout prepared for the next open meeting about owner conduct during the meetings and during open forum."

If you'd like to see the Meeting Conduct rules that we have on the backs of every meeting agenda, I'm happy to paste it here, which I've done in the past.

CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
Posted:
If your state allows online meetings and you have the necessary equipment, consider moving them to Zoom or other platform for a few months until everyone learns to behave themselves. One of the clear advantages to online meetings is that they allow the person running the meeting to mute everyone who isn't a speaker.

Our meetings take place in the township Trustees Meeting Room, which the township makes available to non-profits at no charge. The advantage to this is that the county sheriff has a post in the same building, so help is available if things get really out of hand (they haven't so far).
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
My & Tim's post crossed. His approach looks very good to use especially if you need to meet before you can put together formal meeting protocol.

We've never had to do anything like that, but our various meeting chairs have a few times over the years singled out attendees who are "whispering" to one another to stop as the behavior distracts the Board while it's trying to conduct the business of the community. I have no doubt that in every case, the chair would have instructed the attendees to leave if they persisted.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Call the police. Make a report. Go to court. A HOA meeting is not above the law or not subject to it. Simply remind them the police can and will be called if can not speak when it is your time.

Former HOA President
MarkM19 (Texas)
Posts: 1,459
Posted:
I have definitely had a few very vocal owners attend our meetings that I presided over, mostly these were in my Ca. days. If you give them a chance to speak one at a time and once their time is over the president takes back the meeting and makes the point that any additional comments will have to wait till the last open comment section at the end of the meeting. I always like to have one at the beginning and the end, so people have a second chance. It is the board president who needs to take control of the meeting. If this person is not up to the task, then they should be removed, and the right individual should be given the role. I have always found that if you let them rant for the 3 minutes or less and then thank them for their comments whether they are good or bad they feel heard.
LetA (Nevada)
Posts: 2,679
Posted:
I second and third the Zoom option. The meeting moderator in this case would be our PM,
Mute is a fabulous thing.

Regardless if your governing documents specifically state a specific behavior will not be tolerated, your governing documents should
or may reference Roberts Rules for Order or something similar type of meeting decorum. This alone should cover you from any issues someone may
raise, and it will help you to keep a calm meeting and stifle those who are disruptive.
ChristineS7 (Minnesota)
Posts: 58
Posted:
I appreciate all of your responses. Yes, we have an open forum portion of our meetings, she hijacks this portion of the meeting and also hijacks the portion when the board is conducting business. She does this by yelling over the top of every other voice. We cannot do zoom meetings because 50% of the people who live here don't have computers. I have thought of calling the police and now that I am president, perhaps I will. Minnesota law requires that homeowners are allowed at most meetings.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Why does the meeting chair permit her to speak when it is not open forum?

To me, the police would be a very last resort.

Set meeting rules.

On the posted agenda for the next meeting, write that owner participation will only occur during open forum held xxx. At even at your next meeting, announce at the beginning that owners may only contribute during open forum. The Board will will not tolerate any interruptions of the business portion of the meeting. Anyone interrupting will be asked to leave the meeting.

I f she interrupts, as chair, rise an ask her to leave. It might help if a 2nd director goes to the meeting door to hold it open for her.

If she interrupts, and will not stop or leave, ask the audience what THEY think the Board should do "so that it can conduct your community business in an orderly manner?'

If someone has space in thier hime, another option is to postpone the meeting to reconvene in Unit xxx at xxxcm. "Ms Nasty may not attend."

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