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JuanF (California)
Posts: 10
Posted:
Hello, new to this forum, I am happy to have found this and exited to share, discuss with you. Now to my question, with a little background.

The board decided to expedite a hearing on me, about my tenant (son). According to our governing documents, they skipped warning 1-2 and went straight to expedited hearing because supposedly it warrants the seriousness of the offence. They didn't say that, but their actions speak for themselves. I asked them several times by email to provide me the reason for the meeting and the refuse to tell me, pretty much they just say attend the hearing. The associations own paperwork that was sent to me, says if I can't attend the meeting I can respond in writing, but they refuse to acknowledge this and pretty much say the same thing, attend the hearing. Now I know the reason they are giving me a hard time; our elections are coming up in March and all board members will be replaced and my son is the ringleader lol. They have refused to provide documents to my son, even though I gave written permission for him on my behalf to acquired them, which is in-line with our cc&r's. I can go on and on.... My questions is for the hearing, I will be sending my wife, which doesn't speak much English. My son will be going with her to translate, he's the person they have it out for obviously. If they refuse to speak to my wife (homeowner) because my son (Tenant) is there to translate for her, what ideas or suggestions do you guys have?
Thank You for your time!
Juan.

(A. A Warning Notice (Exhibit 2) is completed by the Property Manager and forwarded to the violating homeowner. At the discretion of the Board or Property Manager, this step may be skipped if, based on the seriousness of the violation, more immediate action is warranted.)

B. if the violation persists after two warnings have been issued or if the seriousness of the violation warrants immediate action, either (1) a Violation Notice (Exhibit 3) is sent to the violator, stating a deadline by which to cure the violation; or (2) an Expedited Hearing Notice (Exhibit 5), stating a date on which a violation hearing will be conducted.

TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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Question: is your wife a member, i.e., is her name on deed as an owner?

DAVIS-STIRLING ACT
CIVIL CODE SECTION 5855. DISCIPLINARY MEASURES; NOTICE OF HEARING; NOTICE OF DECISION.
(a) When the board is to meet to consider or impose discipline upon a member, or to impose a monetary charge as a means of reimbursing the association for costs incurred by the association in the repair of damage to common area and facilities caused by a member or the member’s guest or tenant, the board shall notify the member in writing, by either personal delivery or individual delivery pursuant to Section 4040, at least 10 days prior to the meeting.

(b) The notification shall contain, at a minimum, the date, time, and place of the meeting, the nature of the alleged violation for which a member may be disciplined or the nature of the damage to the common area and facilities for which a monetary charge may be imposed, and a statement that the member has a right to attend and may address the board at the meeting. The board shall meet in executive session if requested by the member.

(c) If the board imposes discipline on a member or imposes a monetary charge on the member for damage to the common area and facilities, the board shall provide the member a written notification of the decision, by either personal delivery or individual delivery pursuant to Section 4040, within 15 days following the action.

(d) A disciplinary action or the imposition of a monetary charge for damage to the common area shall not be effective against a member unless the board fulfills the requirements of this section.

(Added by Stats. 2012, Ch. 180, Sec. 2. Effective January 1, 2013. Operative January 1, 2014, by Sec. 3 of Ch. 180.)
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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As the statute states, the board has to meet with you in executive session if you request it AND they have to give general notice to the membership of all executive sessions at least 2 days in advance of the meeting. But your name should not be mentioned on any general notice.

If it turns out they fine you, you could pay the fine "under protest" per Civil Code section 5658. then sue them in small claims court for that amount because they failed to follow legal procedure.
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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As you can see from this law firm link, before an association can accuse you of a violation, it has to adopt and distribute rules and penalties.

https://www.davis-stirling.com/HOME/D/Due-Process-Defined
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Why would you send your wife when you know she doesn't speak English very well? You need to make time to attend this meeting since you're the owner-landlord and this has escalated to where you may face more sanctions. If you can't go, ask I it can be rescheduled or if you can participate virtually (e.g. Zoom) or by conference call. Be prepared to explain why you can't come in person.

The board should send violation notices to the owner ( it's OK to send a copy to the house), but having seen my share of tenant-landlord clashes during my time on the board, my Spidey sense is telling me there's a lot more to this story than your son (and perhaps you) are letting on. Get a copy of these violation notices from your son - and if he can't or won't come clean, talk to the neighbors , as they might know what's going on.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Your son is not a member of the HOA. I believe the request should come from you the owner/member. You are responsible for whatever your tenant is in violation of. They seem to want to tell you to your face instead of hiding behind paperwork. Your son is in interference of the operation of the HOA no matter what you assign the issue to be.

Former HOA President
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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The HOA has not even stated a violation.
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 01/25/2024 6:49 AM
Your son is not a member of the HOA. I believe the request should come from you the owner/member. You are responsible for whatever your tenant is in violation of. They seem to want to tell you to your face instead of hiding behind paperwork. Your son is in interference of the operation of the HOA no matter what you assign the issue to be.

The HOA is in violation of state law. It is required to state the alleged violation in the 10-day notice of hearing.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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What does it matter. They want to talk this out. Just do it.unless know your son is in the wrong and you too.

Former HOA President
JuanF (California)
Posts: 10
Posted:
Yes my wife is an owner.
JuanF (California)
Posts: 10
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My wife is an owner as well, I am doing this way because they are targeting me and my tenant (son) and this way he can attend as a translator. They never had an issue with him before. He would go to the board meetings, translate for other members and the board. But now that he spoke up about different governing documents and inconsistent violations against other homeowner, now his a problem.
JuanF (California)
Posts: 10
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The violation only says , (tenant).
JuanF (California)
Posts: 10
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There is more to it, a lot more inconsistent violations and retaliation from the board. Their time is up in two months and anybody that has spoken up has received violations. But the most outspoken, has been my son (tenant). That’s why his been the main target, for violations and now expired hearing.
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By JuanF on 01/25/2024 7:23 AM
My wife is an owner as well, I am doing this way because they are targeting me and my tenant (son) and this way he can attend as a translator. They never had an issue with him before. He would go to the board meetings, translate for other members and the board. But now that he spoke up about different governing documents and inconsistent violations against other homeowner, now his a problem.

Don't be discouraged. It is very common for a board to retaliate when it is criticized. But boards like that usually make a lot of legal mistakes.
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By JuanF on 01/25/2024 7:29 AM
The violation only says , (tenant).

"Tenant" of course is not a violation.. you have already won a small claims case for a refund because they didn't specify a violation consistent with their adopted, published rules. All your neighbors possibly could do the same if due process was not followed and they paid a fine.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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Please forgive but your son is not a member of the HOA. Has no standing nor voting rights. Honestly they need to keep their mouth and opinions out of the HOA Business. Plus stop using your son to hide behind. Which have a feeling is the dynamic here. If my tenant related to me or not got involved in HOA business I would tell them to stop. It is not their lane.
Plus I'm want to add you are assigning the situation to be in retaliation. You determined that. A garbage can left out on a Sunday is still a can left out on Sunday when rules say must be hidden by Saturday. Someone gets a violation for that you going to say they are targeted? Now every violation is?

Sorry but this battle is you the owner whom has right to vote and get documents. It is not your son. The HOA is not in violation or targeting because of that. TR hat is what you say they are. I say non members have no rights.

Former HOA President
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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Melissa, why do you attack people who are looking for help?
In California, HOA members are allowed to bring an interpreter at their own expense.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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I am not attacking anyone. I just do not give terrible advice like you do that gets people in more trouble and debt.

Last time I checked a non member has no reason to be in HOA business. Unless power of attorney they are not members. I do not like non members involved or interrupting HOA business. Period

Former HOA President
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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Oh and this does not involve bringing an interpreter. It has everything to do with the son being involved with voting in their HOA. An interpreter is encouraged to speak for the owner. However again the facts are that person who does not speak English is not the owner

Mark my words this person is pulling electric in the book to be a puppet master and hide much like you.

Former HOA President
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 01/25/2024 8:23 AM
I am not attacking anyone. I just do not give terrible advice like you do that gets people in more trouble and debt.

Last time I checked a non member has no reason to be in HOA business. Unless power of attorney they are not members. I do not like non members involved or interrupting HOA business. Period

You are a liar Melissa and a defamer yourself. I have never given bad advise that got someone into debt. Why are you so angry and vengeful? Nobody said the tenant was a member, he is an interpreter. Why do you always manufacture stories when people come here for help?
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 01/25/2024 8:25 AM
Oh and this does not involve bringing an interpreter. It has everything to do with the son being involved with voting in their HOA. An interpreter is encouraged to speak for the owner. However again the facts are that person who does not speak English is not the owner

Mark my words this person is pulling electric in the book to be a puppet master and hide much like you.

Again you spout lies. Obviously you didn't read the posts.
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 01/25/2024 8:23 AM
I am not attacking anyone. I just do not give terrible advice like you do that gets people in more trouble and debt.

Last time I checked a non member has no reason to be in HOA business. Unless power of attorney they are not members. I do not like non members involved or interrupting HOA business. Period

I wish you worked for me so I could fire you.
JuanF (California)
Posts: 10
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Dear Community Members,

I would like to express my sincere gratitude for the valuable feedback I received recently. It was both surprising and heartening to witness the support within this community regarding matters related to the HOA.

I understand that some may have reservations or doubts, questioning my intentions or assuming that I am merely hiding behind my role as a homeowner. However, I want to clarify that I am actively running for a position on the board. Engaging with my fellow community members has revealed that approximately 80% of them are in favor of me taking on the role of President following the upcoming elections in March.

My primary goal is to address concerns about potential bullying or retaliation from the current board. I have invested considerable time in studying our governing documents, CC&R's, corporation documents, and the Sterling Act. While the latter is quite extensive and requires additional time for a thorough understanding, my intention is to ensure a fair and transparent process within our community.

One specific idea I had was to leverage my son's translation skills, as the board seems keen on keeping him out of the picture. I believe this could potentially raise legal issues, particularly in California. Although these issues may not directly fall under HOA rules and regulations, they could have implications in civil, state, or federal domains. I am in the process of identifying the specific legal codes associated with this strategy.

I want to take this opportunity to express my gratitude once again for the responses received. Whether you are an ex-board member, a current board member, a lawyer, or a fellow homeowner, I encourage everyone to give each other the benefit of the doubt and refrain from passing judgment prematurely. In a community, it is essential to provide constructive feedback and foster a positive environment. Let us collectively contribute to the prosperity and well-being of our community.

I look forward to the opportunity to not only assist others but also to work collaboratively for the betterment of this community.

Thank you
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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Understand I am not trying to be mean in my advice or comments. My intent is to bring out the picture of why the HOA wants your son to stop meddling in their business. They do not have to listen to them. You will find this out if you are elected.

The fact is if you did read and do your research then you would know why they are calling you to the floor and not your son. You can use him to translate. That is your right. However his opinion does not matter.It would be like a dead person bringing in an interpreter who disagrees with the situation. It is not their situation. It is yours

Good luck on running and being elected. However understand you are going to experience an eye opening experience. It is not as black and white as you think. Plus you will find yourself agreeing with your current board you think are mean and retaliating. Enforcement of the rules is never equal, responsive, or met with agreement.

Former HOA President
JuanF (California)
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Thanks again, looking forward to this new endeavor. I have been in management for over 25 years and believe this will be an easy task, when your transparent, consistent and care for your community and their opinions.
Juan
KerryL1 (California)
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In my opinion as a former long-time board member who's been a part of many violation hearings, you should write back to the board and cite the Civil Code 5855 (b) that states the Board must, in their letter to call you to a hearing, state the nature of the alleged violation.

It's best if you attend given you speak English and, imo, can have a clearer verbal exchange with board members.

So far as I know, the Board does not have to provide any documents to your son. Why don't you get them yourself???

I skimmed your letter, which I guess is to your HOA neighbors? Or is it to people her on this forum? Anyway, one thing to learn is that wooers do not elect boar officers, e.g., presidents, th other directors do.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By JuanF on 01/24/2024 9:17 PM
Hello, new to this forum, I am happy to have found this and exited to share, discuss with you. Now to my question, with a little background.

The board decided to expedite a hearing on me, about my tenant (son). According to our governing documents, they skipped warning 1-2 and went straight to expedited hearing because supposedly it warrants the seriousness of the offence. They didn't say that, but their actions speak for themselves. I asked them several times by email to provide me the reason for the meeting and the refuse to tell me, pretty much they just say attend the hearing.
I agree with the others who say to ask the HOA to please comply with Civil Code 5855 and provide the nature of the violation.
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Posted By JuanF on 01/24/2024 9:17 PM
They have refused to provide documents to my son, even though I gave written permission for him on my behalf to acquired them, which is in-line with our cc&r's.
Please quote exactly what your CC&Rs say about giving a non-owner permission to inspect HOA documents.

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Posted By JuanF on 01/24/2024 9:17 PM
My questions is for the hearing, I will be sending my wife, which doesn't speak much English. My son will be going with her to translate, he's the person they have it out for obviously. If they refuse to speak to my wife (homeowner) because my son (Tenant) is there to translate for her, what ideas or suggestions do you guys have?
Inform the HOA that your understanding is that refusing to allow a translator is unlawful discrimination on the basis of national origin or ethnicity and so violates state and federal fair housing law.
SheliaH (Indiana)
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I'd still like to know why your son didn't give you the violation notices - I he got two of them for whatever reason, why wouldn't he tell you? It's not like the matter will just go away- as Melissa noted, he's not the homeowner. If your wife co owns the house, she could have given you a heads up on all this.

I dont deny the board might be doing something shady - some lie about sending notices to anyone, or send the notice to the wrong address, despite you updating the information three months ago, a complaint ING neighbor lying about everything because he or she has an issue with you and your family for other reasons, and so on. That said if your son's the one they're complaining about, I wouldn't expect them to give him anything - you should have asked for those notices from the start. This is how you build paper trails and know who said what to who and when - that will be important if this winds up in court. Among other things you could show the letter or whatever you gave the board or property manager stating who you authorized to represent you.

By the way, that doesn't remove your responsibility for your tenant's behavior - which is why you need to either get this hearing delayed so you can find out what happened or reschedule what else you have and attend this hearing. You don't want to give them ammunition by trying to say "well, we asked that he attend in person, but he didnt..."

As for translators, I'm not sure I'd trust your son to be truthful in translating what was said to your wife at this point. He didn't or wouldn't give you the violation notices, otherwise, you'd know what was going on. It might be better for her to use a language translator app on her smartphone if she has one

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By SheliaH on 01/25/2024 3:05 PM
I'd still like to know why your son didn't give you the violation notices - I he got two of them for whatever reason, why wouldn't he tell you? It's not like the matter will just go away- as Melissa noted, he's not the homeowner. If your wife co owns the house, she could have given you a heads up on all this.

I dont deny the board might be doing something shady - some lie about sending notices to anyone, or send the notice to the wrong address, despite you updating the information three months ago, a complaint ING neighbor lying about everything because he or she has an issue with you and your family for other reasons, and so on. That said if your son's the one they're complaining about, I wouldn't expect them to give him anything - you should have asked for those notices from the start. This is how you build paper trails and know who said what to who and when - that will be important if this winds up in court. Among other things you could show the letter or whatever you gave the board or property manager stating who you authorized to represent you.

By the way, that doesn't remove your responsibility for your tenant's behavior - which is why you need to either get this hearing delayed so you can find out what happened or reschedule what else you have and attend this hearing. You don't want to give them ammunition by trying to say "well, we asked that he attend in person, but he didnt..."

As for translators, I'm not sure I'd trust your son to be truthful in translating what was said to your wife at this point. He didn't or wouldn't give you the violation notices, otherwise, you'd know what was going on. It might be better for her to use a language translator app on her smartphone if she has one

Pretty rude to call the son dishonest! What is with attacking posters asking for help? It's a scourge. Son is in best position to provide an accurate translation and to protect mother from tricky directors. Son didn't receive the violation notices, they were not sent - only the expedited notice was sent to the owner if I read correctly. His tenant's behavior? There was no evidence of any misbehavior because the required info was not included and the required notices were not sent.
JuanF (California)
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Thank you, Terry, you are correct. The hearing did happen and I have been busy. I will provide a summary of what transpired and answer many questions in one post.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Our Hero Terri. All hail Terri. Let us carry them on our shoulders as we raise up in cheer. Tell us more how you save the world again?

Former HOA President
JuanF (California)
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Today has been quite exhausting, but I wanted to share with you the latest developments in my interactions with the HOA. As TerriS6 mentioned earlier, there was no notice given to my son regarding the recent expedited hearing. We typically receive information via email, Townsquare/APP, and the only notice we received was for the expedited hearing related to a violation as a tenant, without prior notification.

To provide some context, the initial notice was sent via APP on December 29, and the hearing dates were posted on December 30 for a session on January 4. However, the physical document reached us on January 7. I had previously raised the issue of not receiving the required 10-day notice as per governing documents, and after pointing this out, a second notice was issued through APP on January 10, with a hearing scheduled for January 25 at 9:50 am.

The hearing itself unfolded in several acts:
Act 1: Initially, there was reluctance to allow my son entry, who was there as a translator. After some back-and-forth, he reminded them of state and federal laws regarding translation services, which they seemed displeased about, urging to "get this over with."

Act 2 - Issues Raised:
1.First offensive violation of not fully stopping at a stop sign.
2.He can’t attend board meetings.
3.Why is he taking pictures of the HOA
4.You still owe a fine for parking violations.
5.Are you aware of everything your son is doing?
6.He’s the one that requested a recall of all board members!
7.What do you have against us!
8.If he’s going to utilize his father's account to communicate with the board, he has to sign as such, not his father.

Act 3 - Responses:
1.Already responded to this and requested video proof and you haven’t provided that yet….
2.He won’t anymore.
3.Because if it’s not for malicious reasons and he’s not entering people’s property there is no issue.
4.As we spoke before you said just paid it when you can, there no late fee…
5.Obviously, he is in contact with us and helps us respond to all your ridiculous violations, that you have still failed to respond to.
6.It was sign my homeowners, the petition by my husband (me), what’s the issue?
7.Nothing personal, but as leaders of the community, you are not fair and consistent with all and then you start retaliating against anybody
that speaks up. My son tried to speak to you, mediate, compromises between homeowners and you told him ā€œDon’t worry about it, they can’t do
anything.ā€
8.Agree to disagree, but sure.

Act 4 - Board's Response:
1.We will provide it.
2.Ok good.
3.I don’t know about that……
4.Just wanted to remind you.
5.Well, we wanted to make sure the homeowners were informed.
6.We will see about that.
7.That’s his opinion.
8.Thanks

Act 4 - Resolution:
"We will inform you of the board's decision."

The conversations were undoubtedly more detailed, but here's a summary. Regarding my previous writing request, KerriL1, I would like to point out that I have the option to delegate someone to collect documents on my behalf. It's important to clarify that my reluctance to acquire the documents or engage with the board in person is not due to a lack of willingness. If you review the information I provided earlier, you'll understand that my current stance is rooted in principle. I am concerned about the board's specific retaliatory actions against my son, myself, and other community members. It's imperative that a commitment to following rules is upheld consistently, rather than selectively when convenient—a situation that currently prevails.

In response to your last question, my post was intended for this community. It wasn't an attempt to impress anyone but rather a genuine expression of gratitude towards those who offered feedback and advice. The aim was to encourage a positive environment within the community, emphasizing the importance of giving everyone the benefit of the doubt.

Moving forward, I will continue to support and keep you updated on the developments in what I playfully refer to as my HOA's Novel. I hope my writing brought some laughter; that was my intention.
Juan
Also, for those of you asking for this law, here it is and to confirm our governing documents don't talk about this issue, so we default to Stirling act etc.

CIVIL CODE SECTION 5205. INSPECTION OF ASSOCIATION RECORDS.
(a) The association shall make available association records for the time periods and within the timeframes provided in Section 5210 for inspection and copying by a member of the association, or the member’s designated representative.

(b) A member of the association may designate another person to inspect and copy the specified association records on the member’s behalf. The member shall make this designation in writing.

(c) The association shall make the specified association records available for inspection and copying in the association’s business office within the common interest development.

(d) If the association does not have a business office within the development, the association shall make the specified association records available for inspection and copying at a place agreed to by the requesting member and the association.

(e) If the association and the requesting member cannot agree upon a place for inspection and copying pursuant to subdivision (d) or if the requesting member submits a written request directly to the association for copies of specifically identified records, the association may satisfy the requirement to make the association records available for inspection and copying by delivering copies of the specifically identified records to the member by individual delivery pursuant to Section 4040 within the timeframes set forth in subdivision (b) of Section 5210.

(f) The association may bill the requesting member for the direct and actual cost of copying and mailing requested documents. The association shall inform the member of the amount of the copying and mailing costs, and the member shall agree to pay those costs, before copying and sending the requested documents.

(g) In addition to the direct and actual costs of copying and mailing, the association may bill the requesting member an amount not in excess of ten dollars ($10) per hour, and not to exceed two hundred dollars ($200) total per written request, for the time actually and reasonably involved in redacting an enhanced association record. If the enhanced association record includes a reimbursement request, the person submitting the reimbursement request shall be solely responsible for removing all personal identification information from the request. The association shall inform the member of the estimated costs, and the member shall agree to pay those costs, before retrieving the requested documents.

(h) Requesting parties shall have the option of receiving specifically identified records by electronic transmission or machine-readable storage media as long as those records can be transmitted in a redacted format that does not allow the records to be altered. The cost of duplication shall be limited to the direct cost of producing the copy of a record in that electronic format. The association may deliver specifically identified records by electronic transmission or machine-readable storage media as long as those records can be transmitted in a redacted format that prevents the records from being altered.

MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Nailed it. Son not minding his business in the HOA. Done here.

Former HOA President
JuanF (California)
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I think you missed the point and didn't properly read all my responses or just ignored them. You didn't nail it actually. Also how is your attitude not just this time, but going back several posts positively helps the community?
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Let me guess the community means so the HOA can stop writing you up for your son?;It sounds like your son pissed off the neighborhood and is telling you to handle it or they will... Your response is just as telling.

Former HOA President
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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"Act 2 - Issues Raised:
1.First offensive violation of not fully stopping at a stop sign.
2.He can’t attend board meetings.
3.Why is he taking pictures of the HOA
4.You still owe a fine for parking violations.
5.Are you aware of everything your son is doing?
6.He’s the one that requested a recall of all board members!
7.What do you have against us!
8.If he’s going to utilize his father's account to communicate with the board, he has to sign as such, not his father."

Do the rules and fine schedule include "not fully stopping at a stop sign"? (a private road not public?)
Do they include "not taking pictures of the HOA" (which would be unenforceable)?
Don't see anything that would be a rule on a fine schedule. And try to prove he was the only resident who didn't fully stop at a stop sign. Rules have to be enforced uniformly. Will be interesting to see how they write it up.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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OK, let's see...

1. Did you attend this meeting - it's not clear if you did. If not, I really think you need to take over at this point to get this resolved because it's clear there's bad blood between your son and the board and you need to hear the story from them, not just him.

(Terri might not think so, but people can and do lie or leave out information that turns the situation on its head. She also has ongoing issues with the board in her community - some of it IS their fault, but now its as if she automatically assumes the board is bad and the homeowner is good and that's not always the case.)

2. I do wonder about that stop sign violation - who's responsible for the streets in your community? If it's a city street, that ticket should have been written by law enforcement. In my community, we've adopted the city and county regulations on traffic and parking as community rules and also have security officers (off duty cops) to help enforce them. If the association regulates all that, there should be an appeals process and homeowners should know if this is enforced by, say, security officers, cameras, etc.

It doesn't sound like you know how this is supposed to work- have you checked your documents? Sometimes this information is written in a homeowner handbook and/or posted on a community website - you need to find out as well as review other community rules (because there's a chance the board could jam up your son for something else- which is why HE should know the rules).

3. What was your son photographing and why? Generally if you can see something from the street or you're in the common area, like a parking lot, you can snap away, but it's another matter if you go into someone's yard or peer into a car. Talk to your son, and if necessary, tell him to stop it.

4. Don't know why the board would be upset if a non homeowner is calling for a recall - your son doesn't have voting rights anyway, so I think they're being petty.

They do have a point about non-homeowners attending board meetings. Generally association meetings are reserved for members only, although some do allow them to speak during resident forum. Our community does this and usually they leave afterwards. If a homeowner gives a proxy to a tenant to vite on his or her behalf at an annual meeting, they can also attend that.

5. I understand about allowing translators to attend - it would be the same if someone was assisting a deaf owner who knows sign language. However, there's a difference between simply translating and interjecting your opinion about what's being said or who said it - translators can misinterpret the original meaning accidentally or on purpose.

If your son wants to assist his mother, that's fine, but it may be he's telling her something that wasn't said (how would the board know since they don't speak the same language?) Perhaps you should start attending meetings yourself instead of getting the information second or third hand.

6. You mention "ridiculous" violations, but don't say what they are or who committed them. If this involves your son again, why not request a meeting with the board so all of them can be addressed once and for all? Yes, you'll need to attend and make it clear to the board that from now on, they are to contact you with any violation issues. They can copy your son, but the official response needs to come from the owners - you or your wife.

And I still think it's time for your wife to consider using a language translator app so she can hear things for herself instead of through your son, especially if he's the subject of the complaint. She may or may not get the entire story because it's human nature to spin things so we look better.

7. Tell your son to stay out of HOA politics. If you want him involved, make him a co-owner or he can buy his own place.

I really am sorry for all the conflict you and everyone else has gone through. In my 10 years on the board, I found the people skills are just as important as understanding the documents, and sometimes boards have that "we are the board and therefore we are" attitude, and don't stop to consider if what they're doing makes sense. Likewise, homeowners think the HOA bylaws and CCRs are a cafeteria and they can p8cknwhat applies to them and ignore everything else (how dare that <%$#@ bowrd tell ME what to do with my PORPERTAY!!!!!)

In the middle of the screaming, someone has to be able to stop and say, "OK, this isn't getting us anywhere - let's stop, take a deep breath, or two (maybe three) and start over" in doing do, I would hope both sides can see where things went sideways, take steps to resolve it, apologize for their role in the foolishness and move on.

However this ends, I wish you and yours the best.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
Posted:
Shelia wrote ā€œTerri might not think so, but people can and do lie or leave out information that turns the situation on its head. She also has ongoing issues with the board in her community - some of it IS their fault, but now its as if she automatically assumes the board is bad and the homeowner is good and that's not always the case.)ā€œ

You have jumped aboard another poster’s Defamation Train. If you had read all the court cases and judgments which were ALL in my favor, and if you were aware I have never violated any restrictions or rules or deadlines or anything in my HOA, you would know that ALL the legal issues/problems here were caused by the board.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Wait the court cases you won demanding the HOA pays you back court costs but then claims that the HOA paid nothing? Does anyone believe a word you say here? Nope.

Former HOA President
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Shelia

Many first time poster come on here telling their part of the story and or slanting things in their favor and as you said quite often once the fact are known it usually turns the situation upside down. Also, many of them go away when they are being told things they do not like.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
I agree with Sheila assessment. Also let us not forget the OP wants to run for the board. My question is how do they plan to handle a situation where a non member gets involved while they are on the board that is not their son?

The reality is this person son ticked off a bunch of neighbors and complained to the board. Which will leave the dad looking bad and having an agenda to be on the board. He does not sound like he even lives there himself. His son needs out of the HOA business or sell him the house.

Former HOA President
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:
It’s not uncommon for people who dislike and violate HOA rules to be advocates for replacing a board. That doesn’t give them a pass from enforcement proceedings.

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