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JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
Hi all...

I'm new to these forums and have found them to be helpful so I'm reaching out to the community at large here to get some insight into the following situation.

My late parents bought the home we (myself and my disabled adult brother) live in. It is located in an HOA. Upon my mother's death 2 years ago, I inherited the house which is in a trust of which I am the sole trustee. I also got guardianship over my disabled brother. Fast forward to earlier this year, I had a safety structure with a latched door installed on our front porch to prevent my brother from falling off the porch and/or wandering off the property. Mind you, a fellow neighbor has a similar structure on their property. In fact, I got the idea to install this for my brother from them.

Anyway, I had put forth a reasonable accommodation request to the HOA board. They didn't respond in a timely manner so I went ahead and had the structure installed for my brother's safety. Four months later, I got a letter from the HOA stating that the the CCR's prohibit fences of any kind for any reason. I responded that I had contacted them for a reasonable accommodation request months ago and they never responded. Long story short, they said that they would not approve the structure and that I should remove it unless I could provide them with some medical reason the structure was necessary and why it was necessary on the front porch as opposed to the back porch. So I explained to them the front porch has an overhang which protects my brother from the weather elements (when it's rainy or windy for example) and that no such overhang exists in the back. I also explained to them sitting outside is one of his favorite pasttimes (mind you it was spring/early summer when this happened.) I also sent them the same medical documentation which was submitted to the probate court documenting my brother's disability (he's mentally retarded from birth) and the corresponding appointment of guardianship signed by the judge.

Their response to this requested documentation was to insist that the "fence and gate" had to be removed and that penalties and liens would begin accruing if it was not removed by "X" date.

Now neighbors across the street have no disabled individual and they get to keep their "fence" in place. The next door neighbor has installed a basketball court in his backyard...also a violation of the CC'R's. Another neighbor has a wheelchair ramp which runs the length of the side of the house so naturally, I'm starting to believe there is a bit of selective enforcement going on in addition to blatant discrimination.

So I filed a complaint with HUD and the Ohio Civil Rights Commission against the HOA and the specific person who's named was signed on both letters of denial. I also started reaching out to my legal advisors. While they review the papertrail of the case, I was wondering if anyone here has any thoughts on what sort of a case I may (or may not) have and how this could potentially play out should it reach litigation.

Many thanks in advance for any feedback!
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
Posted:
JayP8,

HUD will get back to you, I promise.

Be aware that the language of HUD and fair housing law is a bit arcane. E.g. you have submitted a complaint, bu in the language of HUD and FHA law, the complaint is not formally "filed" (as in now the HOA is in trouble) until what you submitted passes a certain number of legal tests.

Would you please describe what mechanism you used to submit a complaint to HUD? Did you use HUD's online complaint form? Has HUD at least acknowledged it received your complaint?

If you want an estimate of the timeline for HUD's response, let me know.

Also if you have not already started keeping a journal of the board's responses, please do so. Stay on the lookout for anything that seems like retaliation. Retaliation against someone who filed a FHA complaint is almost always, all by itself, a violation of the Fair Housing Act.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
Hi ElleN,

Thanks for your response!

Yes, I filed an online complaint with HUD and did receive an acknowledgement that they have received my complaint. I also filed a complaint against the HOA and its Manager/Agent with the Ohio Civil Rights Commission. Received an acknowledgement and a case number from them already. The turnaround time for them is about 10 days.

I did try calling HUD to get an ETA as to when I can anticipate a response, but no one answered the phone either at the D.C. offices or the local offices here in Ohio.

I have a detailed papertrail of letters and email exchanges from the HOA.

My private attorney is also working on the case at the moment.

I fully anticipate retaliatory action from the HOA which is why I'm lawyering up.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
Posted:
JayP8, I will assume you welcome further comment.

-- Did this private attorney help you write either of the complaints you submitted?

-- Has this private attorney written a demand letter to the HOA? Because if you can afford this, I would expect it to get you action a lot quicker.

-- In HUD, statutory, and Code of Fed Regulations language, "filed" has a different meaning from that which you are using here. To make things easier in communications with HUD and here, I would use the word "submitted" instead of "filed." In fact, in HUD's eyes, while HUD agrees you have "submitted" a complaint, it has not actually been "filed."

-- I have seen state agencies turn around Fair Housing complaints much more quickly than the federal agencies. That's not meant to be criticism of the feds. It's just reality.

-- HUD should have an "intake specialist" reviewing your complaint, seeing if it passes all the tests. It's a fairly automaton-like process. If care was not taken in writing a complaint of this nature, intake specialists can reject complaints and not pass them to the next step. One can still lawyer up and pursue this with one's private lawyer, though. If HUD rejects your complaint, by my reading of the seriousness of this situation, this is far from over.

-- If your complaint passes the first round of HUD vetting (so to speak), I expect that two to six months may pass before HUD sends your complaint to the HOA and asks the HOA for its side of things.

-- So far, by my reading, I consider what has happened here to be pretty outrageous, fair housing wise. This is without the possibility that the HOA is selectively enforcing. (I would really downplay the selective enforcement. By my reading, this is a perfectly reasonable accommodation and I personally do not appreciate the HOA making your life, as a caretaker, any harder. You are saving the state and so taxpayer a lot of money by caring for your brother, for one thing. These *&^%ing HOA boards.)

-- I am sorry you have to spend anything on an attorney. If I were your (civil rights-fair housing attorney) I would start demanding the HOA pay you for your trouble, along with paying your attorney fees to get this situation "fixed" a.s.a.p. (I am not an attorney. I have a long, familial and other background in fair housing.)
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
Hi ElleN.

Yes, I welcome any and all information that can help me.

No, I did not enlist the help of my attorney to file the complaints online. Rather, it was a synopsis much like the post I wrote here that details the nature of the complaint. I hope this passes HUD's smell test. And yes, I do realize federal agencies are not exactly timely but my concern is the HOA will assess penalties and then try to foreclose on our home in the time it takes for them to serve the HOA with my complaint.

My attorney's next step will likely be to reach out to the HOA with a demand letter and I fully intend to make the HOA pay my attorney and any other fees which may be accrued in the due course of things but I also anticipate they will fight this with their attorneys. I am fully prepared to do whatever is necessary for my brother's well-being.

It is my intention to hit them with every means at my disposal.

Your feedback helps me feel a bit better about the prospect of taking on the HOA. Thank you.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Posted By JayP8 on 12/12/2023 6:09 PM
And yes, I do realize federal agencies are not exactly timely but my concern is the HOA will assess penalties and then try to foreclose on our home in the time it takes for them to serve the HOA with my complaint.
I have personally witnessed a HOA bill an owner for the cost of addressing a Fair Housing complaint the owner had submitted. HUD did not pursue the complaint; it never even got formally "filed." The HOA Board, in its reckless naivete, figured it could bill the complainant-owner for the HOA's attorney fees. Wrong, and I do mean bigly.

The HOA brought suit to foreclose on the owner's home, exactly as you are fearing. It was horrible. And it was an incredibly stupid mistake by the HOA.

The owner found a pro bono civil rights lawyer, nationally known. The owner was very lucky. I could not believe it. It's hard to find lawyers to take on these (relatively small, but egregiously legally outrageous) cases.

HUD was great. But the private, concise and to the point, civil rights lawyer certainly helped put on the screws. He did not even behave like a pit bull. The latter was not needed. The facts and law were overwhelmingly on the owner's side.

About 1.5 years after the owner had first submitted the FHA complaint to HUD, a "HUD Conciliation Agreement" (a settlement) was reached.

One and one-half years was a long time. It was a lot of stress.

To review: Most of the time "filed" HUD complaints land in a settlement, where the accused HOA pays something; possibly has to apologize in writing; maybe has to re-write its procedures; and more.

I would be very surprised if your HOA Board is as stupid as the HOA I describe above. If the HOA attorney is at all competent, the HOA attorney will counsel the board to cave and to do so immediately. If the board is ignorant, egotistical and vindictive, and the HOA attorney just cares about billable hours, then retaliation may begin.

I hope your attorney is at least civil rights law specialized.

If your submitted HUD complaint gets past the initial vetting, then next either the HUD intake specialist, or someone one step above the specialist, will re-write the complaint to "perfect" it. The HUD staff will ask you if the new version of the complaint is acceptable to you. The HUD staff will accept just about any changes you want; they pretty much have to. But chances are what the HUD staff writes will be quite good.

The guys at this level are on your side at this step. They want the complaint to be legally accurate.

Really by my assessment, your "perfected" complaint should be like five sentences long. The five sentences (or so) includes the citations to the correct parts of the Fair Housing Act.

This puts you to a lot of trouble. Everyone I know who has gone through this (and I am up to five since 2013; four in the last few years) says the money they were paid as some kind of compensation (as in settlement) did not make it worth it. However, the money and aggravation that the HOAs and boards had to pay and experience did take a toll; did send a message; and did put boards and managers on alert to shape the hell up.

From a legal standpoint, situations like this make my blood boil.

If you wish, create an email address on gmail or yahoo where you can enjoy anonymity, and post it here. I will email you and stay available for assistance. One of my principal reasons for participating here is to stay alert to Fair Housing situations and help people with them, as a non-lawyer.

I am sorry there are such idiots in the world.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
Could you share the name of that civil rights lawyer at [email protected] please?

I intend to pay whatever "penalties" are incurred so as to avoid foreclosure and recoup them when the time for litigation comes by suing the HOA for attorney fees, penalties, etc. My parents left me considerable means in the trust but I don't want to unnecessarily spend money I don't need to. Part of my intention with HUD is for them to penalize the HOA with punitive damages to send a message that no one has the right to eff with disabled individuals. I'm not looking to make money in this...only for the HOA to stop harassing my family and to ensure no one else gets bullied by them.
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:
Actually HUD won’t get back with him. Complaints in Ohio are handled by state agency.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
You do realize your HOA is only funded by it's members for it's members. So suing your HOA is suing yourself and your neighbors. Who do you think will pay that penalty and how? By raising dues or special assessment.

The only responsibility of the court is to make one whole. You are requesting attorney fees. You are not promised them. The court decides whom pays their own legal fees.
A foreclosure looks bad on your credit no matter how well off you may be. A foreclosure stops as soon as you pay what is owed. Bad idea to put your home in foreclosure by not paying dues. It looks bad on you.


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DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:
I sincerely wish your HOA would have answered your first communication and worked with you to reasonably modify the home for your brother, but honestly you deciding to stick an addition on the front of the home on the cheap to utilize an existing overhang is neither reasonable or respectful of your neighbors and the appearance of your community. Reasonable doesn’t mean the least expensive.

Now it sounds like you are looking for a payday too.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
"You do realize your HOA is only funded by it's members for it's members. So suing your HOA is suing yourself and your neighbors. Who do you think will pay that penalty and how? By raising dues or special assessment."---Of course I realize this but apparently the HOA doesn't care about that, so why would that stop me from pursuing them for ignoring the law?

I do not intend to let the HOA foreclose on the home by paying the penalties but rest assured, I intend to recoup them when the case reaches the litigation stage. The HOA wants a war and they've got one.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
I didn't "stick" an addition onto the front of the home "on the cheap". It cost $2,000. It not only has beautified my home but has made it suitable for my brother's needs. Nowhere did I say that "reasonable" meant least expensive and the HOA doesn't care about the cost of the installation. They just want it gone. The house was built with a covered porch so I simply utilized that with a beautiful custom made safety enclosure. Calling something you haven't seen and characterizing it as "cheap" is not only judgemental but deeply insulting when you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
Posted:
I didn't "stick" an addition onto the front of the home "on the cheap". It cost $2,000. It not only has beautified my home but has made it suitable for my brother's needs. Nowhere did I say that "reasonable" meant least expensive and the HOA doesn't care about the cost of the installation. They just want it gone. The house was built with a covered porch so I simply utilized that with a beautiful custom made safety enclosure. Calling something you haven't seen and characterizing it as "cheap" is not only judgemental but deeply insulting when you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
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And no...I definitely am not looking for a payday but punitive damages to punish the board and to prevent them from ever bullying another disabled person again. I hope they get nailed right to the wall and have to explain to everyone why our dues are going up.

You sound like a bitter vindictive little man with your snide and condescending remarks.
JayP8 (Ohio)
Posts: 12
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"Bad idea to put your home in foreclosure by not paying dues. It looks bad on you"---Where did I say that I intended to put the home into foreclosure by not paying dues? Read much? Besides...that's not the real problem. The real problemm is the HOA and their ignorance of the law and their deplorable treatment of a disabled individual. As a former HOA President, perhaps you condone discrimination against disabled people which wouldn't surprise me in the least. My experience so far with people who serve on HOA's are that they are arrogant, uncompassionate a-holes on power trips.
DeanJ
Posts: 1,786
Posted:
If it was beautiful, your HOA wouldn’t be fighting you so hard and $2000 is on the cheap.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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You get foreclosed on for NOT paying dues NOT fines. When you sue your HOA right or wrong EVERYONE pays including yourself. The HOA board is covered by liability insurance. You can't break the corporate seal. So that is going to be not successful.

You are NOT owed a fence option if the restrictions say NO FENCES. That is NOT an option in your HOA due to it's restrictions. Sorry you are NOT special or above the rules because they do not fit what you want. A fence is NOT a living condition. Installation is not necesarily falls into the HUD or whatever special claims your trying make it fit. It is NOT a civil rights violation to deny a fence nor a handicap discrimination. Your case holds no water in those areas.

Oh I and did read unlike some other people may have skipped. The FACT that you did NOT wait for fence approval BEFORE installing the fence is your ENTIRE issue. It doesn't matter if Jesus moved into your HOA installed a fence without approval. Jesus going to have to wait for approval or denial just like the rest of the humans on earth.

I have seen enough of your attitude in your posts to get enough information your just digging your own grave on this one. Misdirected and uneducated on what your HOA is or does. Good luck with all those legal bills going to be on the hook for. It's much easier to take down the fence and re-apply for permission again. Plus maybe work on changing the rules to allow fences amongst your fellow members instead of suing for it.


Former HOA President
NA1 (Massachusetts)
Posts: 190
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Posted By DeanJ on 12/12/2023 8:50 PM
If it was beautiful, your HOA wouldn’t be fighting you so hard and $2000 is on the cheap.

Of course they would, beautiful or not. Rules must be enforced. Reality be damned. /s

Unfortunately if as the poster describes, I don’t see that they have a choice about suing the hoa (and their neighbors). They have a stupid board that needs a reality check.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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Why do they need to sue the HOA exactly and what did the board do wrong? The OP HOA rules state no fences. The OP did not wait for approval to install. The board only choice is to deny and have them remove the fence per the restrictions all owners live under.

I work with and have family members with special needs. Not as heartless as going to be painted. However my HOA does not owe me the right to put up a fence for my personal situation. They enforce the rules that exist. Do not like it then work on following the rules to change it.

No I do not feel sorry for the OP and their sibling situation. They own a house in a HOA with rules and restrictions. That is life. It is not a requirement to provide handicap compensation on their property.

Former HOA President
DavidG45 (Delaware)
Posts: 994
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 5:43 AM
Why do they need to sue the HOA exactly and what did the board do wrong? The OP HOA rules state no fences. The OP did not wait for approval to install. The board only choice is to deny and have them remove the fence per the restrictions all owners live under.


That is most certainly not their only choice. Another option is to, under FHA law, allow the fence as a "reasonable accommodation" to a disability. They might also consider apologizing for ignoring the original request. Also, given that according to the OP a similar fence was allowed to a neighbor for no apparent reason, the board should also have a discussion with their attorney regarding selective enforcement and how to avoid it.

NA1 (Massachusetts)
Posts: 190
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 5:43 AM
Why do they need to sue the HOA exactly and what did the board do wrong? The OP HOA rules state no fences. The OP did not wait for approval to install. The board only choice is to deny and have them remove the fence per the restrictions all owners live under.

I work with and have family members with special needs. Not as heartless as going to be painted. However my HOA does not owe me the right to put up a fence for my personal situation. They enforce the rules that exist. Do not like it then work on following the rules to change it.

No I do not feel sorry for the OP and their sibling situation. They own a house in a HOA with rules and restrictions. That is life. It is not a requirement to provide handicap compensation on their property.

HOAs are not exempt from laws requiring reasonable accommodation including rules changes.

https://www.hud.gov/program_offices/fair_housing_equal_opp/reasonable_accommodations_and_modifications/information_for_housing_providers_landlords_property_managers
DavidG45 (Delaware)
Posts: 994
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 5:43 AM

No I do not feel sorry for the OP and their sibling situation. They own a house in a HOA with rules and restrictions. That is life. It is not a requirement to provide handicap compensation on their property.


Actually, it is a federal housing required to provide reasonable accommodations for people with disabilities.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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And how does that apply to a private home the HOA does not own? The HOA common property is what the HOA owns. That is every member. The OP does not define if this is HOA common property or exclusive use area.

Again did anyone miss the part they did not wait for approval? Who says the HOA was going to deny? The HOA is now responsible for enforcement of a rule that was violated by the OP. Did not give the HOA a choice in finding out if federal accommodations are in play or not. Instead forces on them via a lawsuit.

Former HOA President
NA1 (Massachusetts)
Posts: 190
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 6:22 AM
And how does that apply to a private home the HOA does not own? The HOA common property is what the HOA owns. That is every member. The OP does not define if this is HOA common property or exclusive use area.

Again did anyone miss the part they did not wait for approval? Who says the HOA was going to deny? The HOA is now responsible for enforcement of a rule that was violated by the OP. Did not give the HOA a choice in finding out if federal accommodations are in play or not. Instead forces on them via a lawsuit.

No, didn’t miss that. We don’t know the op’s definition of timely. Timely can also depend on circumstances, which we also do not know. We do know based on the OP’s original note that the hoa was silent for four months, including after the change was made, which is I would guess is no one’s definition of timely.
DavidG45 (Delaware)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 6:22 AM
And how does that apply to a private home the HOA does not own? The HOA common property is what the HOA owns. That is every member. The OP does not define if this is HOA common property or exclusive use area.

Again did anyone miss the part they did not wait for approval? Who says the HOA was going to deny? The HOA is now responsible for enforcement of a rule that was violated by the OP. Did not give the HOA a choice in finding out if federal accommodations are in play or not. Instead forces on them via a lawsuit.


It simply does, by law.

https://www.hud.gov/program_offices/fair_housing_equal_opp/reasonable_accommodations_and_modifications#reasonable-accommodations

"Under the Fair Housing Act, a reasonable modification is a structural change made to existing premises, occupied or to be occupied by a person with a disability, in order to afford such person full enjoyment of the premises. Reasonable modifications can include structural changes to interiors and exteriors of dwellings and to common and public use areas. Examples include the installation of a ramp into a building, lowering the entry threshold of a unit, or the installation of grab bars in a bathroom. Under the Fair Housing Act, prohibited discrimination includes a refusal to permit, at the expense of the person with a disability, reasonable modifications of existing premises occupied or to be occupied by such person if such modifications may be necessary to afford such person full enjoyment of the premises."

The OP requested a reasonable accommodation. It can reasonably be argued that the Board "refused to permit" the modification by ignoring the request.

It is open for discussion as to what the homeowner's next move should have been. It is even open to discussion whether or not the fence would be considered a reasonable modification under FHA law; you never know what a judge might rule. But it is not open to discussion whether or not the law does exist, and applies to both common areas as well as individual units.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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How long did they wait for approval? Do you it was ignored?

Former HOA President
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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How long did they wait for approval? Do you it was ignored?

Former HOA President
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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Oh and they have no mortgage. Where is FHA to apply?

Sorry but their case is not going to win revenge. It will only get their accommodations at best. Suing others is just icing on the lawyers check.

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DavidG45 (Delaware)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 6:54 AM
Oh and they have no mortgage. Where is FHA to apply?

Sorry but their case is not going to win revenge. It will only get their accommodations at best. Suing others is just icing on the lawyers check.


Wait. You think Fair Housing laws only apply to people who have a mortgage? I didn't realize you were this far out of your depth on the topic.

ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By DeanJ on 12/12/2023 7:34 PM
Actually HUD won’t get back with him. Complaints in Ohio are handled by state agency.
Actually some (all?) state agencies, tasked with enforcing the state's fair housing laws, coordinate to some extent with HUD.

It is flatly incorrect to say that HUD simply hands this off to the state agency.

HUD has already gotten back to the OP.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 6:22 AM
did anyone miss the part they did not wait for approval? Who says the HOA was going to deny?
Please read the entirety of the first post. You missed a lot.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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FHA is type of loan program by the government. That could require more regulation.

A fence is a convenience item not a requirement for fair housing. A fair housing would be a wheelchair ramp and wheelchair accessible areas. A fence to keep someone bound to the grounds is due to the convenience it would be to help the situation.


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SheliaH (Indiana)
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It may be selective enforcement, but you don’t know the details about your neighbor’s fence or basketball court. Both may have been installed before the CCRs were updated, possibly by whoever owned the houses before your neighbors came along. In some cases, the board may grandfather in homes that had the changes before the CCRs were updated (perhaps because the previous boards didn’t enforce them), but the neighbors may have been told the fence and the basketball court have to be removed when the house is transferred or sold. There may also be language in your documents stating failure to enforce the CCRs doesn't preclude the association from doing so in the future - you may want to sit down and read them.

If you moved into the house two years ago, you might not know any of that – and it doesn’t sound like you talked to the neighbors about the backstory. In any event, it’s best to focus on YOUR situation. I don’t know if you have a case or not, but here are some questions I have:

Your “safety structure” sounds more like a patio than a fence – what exactly is this, and does it extend to the entire front yard? If so, I can see the board’s point – If this is an enclosed patio, it should have a roof and you wouldn’t need a fence for the rest of the yard.

Speaking of yards, why couldn’t you install this structure in the back – if there’s no overhang, is there a reason you couldn’t have one built?

(By the way, I know you know this, but please don’t use the term “mentally retarded” to describe your brother – most people in the intellectually disabled community consider it a slur.)

What do you mean by not getting a response “promptly?” to your original request? I agree you shouldn’t have to wait months for it and should have been given a reason for the delay. If they needed more information, they should have asked you. That said, exterior change requests usually don’t get processed in, say, 7-10 days, unless it’s something that impacts safety (e.g. a front door that was kicked in from an attempted robbery should be processed faster) What does your policy say on when to expect a response?

If you’ve turned this over to your attorney, you need to let them work because we aren’t attorneys and what’s true in my state may not be the same in yours, or vice versa. You might want to ask them to see if the board would be willing to take this to arbitration. An arbitrator (preferably certified) would hear both sides, who have to agree in advance to comply with the decision. Each side pays half of the costs, and whoever wins is usually reimbursed by the loser. That may be faster and cheaper than going to court.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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In my experience, pursuing a Fair Housing violation is a highly difficult, stressful situation. Add to this the demands of caring for a mentally disabled adult sibling. (I too have an adult disabled sibling. By good luck I do not have to care for her. The state provides a lot of support to her.)

The stakes here are incredibly high. As if the OP does not have enough on his plate.

Consequently I respectfully request that members here consider ignoring MelissaP1's posts in this thread. She is getting too much wrong here.

So far I am watching the OP's, DavidG45's and NA1's posts here. To me, they know what they are talking about.

Also for the record: I changed my mind about mentioning the neighbor's front porch fencing system. On further thought, I am glad this went into the HUD complaint.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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I am on ignore again .. what a shame when find out I am right. They will lose most of their money over this instead of finding another solution. Which may not be a fence. Alzheimer's association have suggestions besides fencing.

Former HOA President
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Posted By SheliaH on 12/13/2023 9:25 AM
It may be selective enforcement, but you don’t know the details about your neighbor’s fence or basketball court. Both may have been installed before the CCRs were updated, possibly by whoever owned the houses before your neighbors came along. In some cases, the board may grandfather in homes that had the changes before the CCRs were updated (perhaps because the previous boards didn’t enforce them), but the neighbors may have been told the fence and the basketball court have to be removed when the house is transferred or sold. There may also be language in your documents stating failure to enforce the CCRs doesn't preclude the association from doing so in the future - you may want to sit down and read them.
The focus should be far less on selective enforcement and far more on whether the request passes the tests for a "reasonable accommodation." In other words, this is less a covenants dispute than it is a fair housing disability violation dispute.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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They still need to take down what they installed without permission period. Again they did not get approved. Anyone who puts up something not approved gets it removed.that is what the HOA is requesting.

They can remove it and send them the bill.that bill is what they could be lined for if not paid.

The OP posting things that do not happen as described. You do not get lien but for unpaid dues or bills for correction. Foreclosure for unpaid dues. Why all the drama and threats of lawsuits against the board and HOA?

Former HOA President
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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They still need to take down what they installed without permission period. Again they did not get approved. Anyone who puts up something not approved gets it removed.that is what the HOA is requesting.

They can remove it and send them the bill.that bill is what they could be lined for if not paid.

The OP posting things that do not happen as described. You do not get lien but for unpaid dues or bills for correction. Foreclosure for unpaid dues. Why all the drama and threats of lawsuits against the board and HOA?

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LetA (Nevada)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 12/13/2023 9:07 AM
FHA is type of loan program by the government. That could require more regulation.

A fence is a convenience item not a requirement for fair housing. A fair housing would be a wheelchair ramp and wheelchair accessible areas. A fence to keep someone bound to the grounds is due to the convenience it would be to help the situation.


The fence per se is not a convenience item, but a medically necessary structure to prevent accidental falls or escape.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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So is my shower door... Is it unfair if I use a curtain?

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LetA (Nevada)
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Stay the course Jay I wish you all the best. Sounds like your BOD is playing a losing hand. In the meantime
I would reach out to your local news consumer advocate. I could name drop two names in the Cleveland area.
One thing that would make your HOA run for cover is one of the names.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By LetA on 12/13/2023 12:05 PM
In the meantime I would reach out to your local news consumer advocate. I could name drop two names in the Cleveland area. One thing that would make your HOA run for cover is one of the names.
FWIW I support this.

"By any means necessary."
JayP8 (Ohio)
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Dear LetA,

I would be very grateful if you could drop any names at your disposal to the following email account:

[email protected]

In the meantime, since I used to work for the NBC and FOX affiliates in Cleveland back in the mid to late 90's, I still have some connections there which I won't use until the case is taken up by the Ohio Civil Rights Commission. I'm hoping to spare the HOA the bad publicity and give them a chance to educate themselves on how federal and state laws supercede their precious CC'R's.
JayP8 (Ohio)
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Dear LetA,

I would be very grateful if you could drop any names at your disposal to the following email account:

[email protected]

In the meantime, since I used to work for the NBC and FOX affiliates in Cleveland back in the mid to late 90's, I still have some connections there which I won't use until the case is taken up by the Ohio Civil Rights Commission. I'm hoping to spare the HOA the bad publicity and give them a chance to educate themselves on how federal and state laws supercede their precious CC'R's.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Great idea! Nothing hurts home values and sales for everyone than seeing a bad news story of their HOA on the news. People will really want to buy them! It was on the news!

Slow your roll people you have one view here and not looking at all the facts. This person was NOT denied the building of what they wanted. They were told to remove what they did that was not approved. The OP reaction is to sue everyone and report their HOA so it is punished. Great logic and news story huh?

Look and get all the facts first before going and jumping on the disability train discrimination. Big words if it was accurate. Which still that part of the story alone has not been approved

Which one waiting longer for? The HOA approval or the chance to stick it to people by waiting on injustice from fair housing. Funny how people will wait on HUD or a fair housing ruling than their HOA approval.

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SheliaH (Indiana)
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Well, let’s see – I went to the HUD website, which defines reasonable accommodation as “a change, exception, or adjustment to a rule, policy, practice, or service that may be necessary for a person with disabilities to have an equal opportunity to use and enjoy a dwelling, including public and common use spaces, or to fulfill their program obligations. Please note that the ADA often refers to these types of accommodations as “modifications.”

It goes on to say “Under the Fair Housing Act, a reasonable modification is a structural change made to existing premises, occupied or to be occupied by a person with a disability, in order to afford such person full enjoyment of the premises. Reasonable modifications can include structural changes to the interiors and exteriors of dwellings and to common and public use areas. Examples include the installation of a ramp into a building, lowering the entry threshold of a unit, or the installation of grab bars in a bathroom. Under the Fair Housing Act, prohibited discrimination includes a refusal to permit, at the expense of the person with a disability, reasonable modifications of existing premises occupied or to be occupied by such person if such modifications may be necessary to afford such person full enjoyment of the premises.”

Then it provided general examples (obviously, this isn’t an inclusive list) –https://www.hud.gov/sites/dfiles/FHEO/documents/RA-RM_Website_Examples.pdf

One example read: “Your child has an autism-related disability or a developmental/intellectual disability. As a result, your child tends to wander out of your home because they can easily open the locks on your doors. You may request additional or different locks or an alarm for when the door opens.”

Jay said this is a “safety structure with a latched door on the front porch” – still don’t know exactly what that is (if it’s a fence, just say so). Instead, he talked mostly about the porch. I understand him wanting to prevent his brother from falling off the porch, although I’m thinking railings around it would do the same thing. I also understand the concern about wandering, but Jay talked mostly about his brother sitting on the porch. That doesn’t mean a fence wouldn’t be helpful, but there are also emergency pendants with a GPS one can buy that work with an app so you can find out pretty quickly which way the person went. Some companies sell alarm systems for people with dementia – they will sound an alarm if the person opens the door (maybe that could have been installed on the gate?)

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By SheliaH on 12/13/2023 1:51 PM
Jay said this is a “safety structure with a latched door on the front porch” – still don’t know exactly what that is (if it’s a fence, just say so). Instead, he talked mostly about the porch. I understand him wanting to prevent his brother from falling off the porch, although I’m thinking railings around it would do the same thing. I also understand the concern about wandering, but Jay talked mostly about his brother sitting on the porch. That doesn’t mean a fence wouldn’t be helpful, but there are also emergency pendants with a GPS one can buy that work with an app so you can find out pretty quickly which way the person went. Some companies sell alarm systems for people with dementia – they will sound an alarm if the person opens the door (maybe that could have been installed on the gate?)
Well let's see.

If I were on this board, I would never second-guess how an owner legally responsible for a disabled sibling chooses to care for the sibling. I think your response might in fact hold the HOA out to further liability for FHA violations.

I would also not support the above (as either the owner or if I were on the board) is because of what the neighbor has. You are completely ignoring this.
NA1 (Massachusetts)
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Posted By ElleN on 12/13/2023 2:48 PM
Posted By SheliaH on 12/13/2023 1:51 PM
Jay said this is a “safety structure with a latched door on the front porch” – still don’t know exactly what that is (if it’s a fence, just say so). Instead, he talked mostly about the porch. I understand him wanting to prevent his brother from falling off the porch, although I’m thinking railings around it would do the same thing. I also understand the concern about wandering, but Jay talked mostly about his brother sitting on the porch. That doesn’t mean a fence wouldn’t be helpful, but there are also emergency pendants with a GPS one can buy that work with an app so you can find out pretty quickly which way the person went. Some companies sell alarm systems for people with dementia – they will sound an alarm if the person opens the door (maybe that could have been installed on the gate?)
Well let's see.

If I were on this board, I would never second-guess how an owner legally responsible for a disabled sibling chooses to care for the sibling. I think your response might in fact hold the HOA out to further liability for FHA violations.

I would also not support the above (as either the owner or if I were on the board) is because of what the neighbor has. You are completely ignoring this.

I second what ElleN just said about second guessing. I would add that the owner knows their brother, what his issues are, and how he will respond. Hopefully his providers do too. The board of this HOA is unlikely to be positioned to make such a judgment. The denizens of HOAtalk certainly are not. The board’s unwillingness to address this issue promptly or appropriately is to the detriment of all.

I hope the owner and their family are able to drive this to an appropriate solution. They certainly seem to need a disability housing lawyer.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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I am behind Sheila on this. If there was no special needs person in this story and it was not for their safety. How would you handle it then? Did the special needs angle cloud your view?

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ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By NA1 on 12/13/2023 3:12 PM
I second what ElleN just said about second guessing. I would add that the owner knows their brother, what his issues are, and how he will respond. Hopefully his providers do too. The board of this HOA is unlikely to be positioned to make such a judgment. The denizens of HOAtalk certainly are not. The board’s unwillingness to address this issue promptly or appropriately is to the detriment of all.

I hope the owner and their family are able to drive this to an appropriate solution. They certainly seem to need a disability housing lawyer.
You NA1 are an amazing writer.

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