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LizD3 (California)
Posts: 200
Posted:
Alrighty. Looks like it is time to lawyer up, yeeha!
1. Anyone have any tips on how to find a good lawyer (I talked to a few, but it seems like the good ones only represent HOAs)
2. Can anyone recommend a lawyer (or firm) - I appreciate this may not be the place for this, so ...
3. If anyone wants to email me privately (I’d love that), let me know and I’ll post a disposable email address (to protect us both)

4. And, while I’m at it, does anyone have any tips on how to find a good property management company (or can recommend one – see point 3 re: email address)? I interviewed a few but they were out of our tiny price range (small building) or unimpressive (sometimes knew even less than me)?

Thanks for all the fish.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,061
Posted:
Look up court cases with HOAs and see who represented those fighting the HOA.
Talk to the attorneys who won.
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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I can recommend someone but pretty sure you can do all of this in small claims court including enforcing the CC&Rs. I have done so.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
Posted:
As a first step, I advise listing everything that you both (1) want; and (2) believe the law says you are justified in having. This is so you can be as clear and concise as possible when you start emailing and calling attorneys. I also recommend writing down how much (1) money; (2) time; and (3) invasion of your life; you are willing to give up to get these things.

The reason clarity and conciseness will be important is so you do not get the brush-off from an attorney, because the attorney thinks no real case, from which he or she can make money, exists.

In many cities in the last several years, just finding an attorney to do a consult seems extraordinarily difficult. Brace yourself for leaving a lot of voicemails; sending emails; and some very short but polite exchanges with attorneys who, while they have the expertise, are too busy for something that sounds like relatively small potatoes. In California, I think anything below $8000 of billable hours is going to be small potatoes.

Many attorneys in the last several years will turn down owners (in HOAs and COAs) because they have done some work with the HOA or COA.

Consider running your list by this forum, asking for //constructive// opinions on which items should stay on the list and which should go, and why?
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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If you post the disposable email, I will send you atty info.
LizD3 (California)
Posts: 200
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Posted By TerriS6 on 07/16/2023 5:50 PM
If you post the disposable email, I will send you atty info.

Here you go, with thanks: [email protected]
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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Liz, I sent the email. Let me know if you received it.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
One person's opinion

To get some prospects, talk to your friends and neighbors (your former ones, not the current bunch!), and also check with your local bar association. In addition to Tim's suggestion on talking to folks who've fought the HOA and won, you might also check with the bar association to see if your prospects have any complaints against them and how they were handled. Getting complaints is part of life, but what you want to see are people who responded and if the problem was resolved without people running to court (and keep in mind some people complain about their attorneys because they didn't like what they were told - and the attorney turned out to be correct)

Lawyers charge (a lot) for their time, so you need to know if there will be a charge during that first meeting. If you end up hiring him/her, ask what the general approach will be and how much that will cost (e.g. drafting and sending nastygrams, phone calls to and from opposing counsel, research, addressing phone calls/emails/faxes and texts to and from you, etc.) Some attorneys will charge a specific price and roll up the services that are covered, then ask for more money as the case progresses, so you need to know how the billing will work. This is also why when you do throw down in court, be sure to ask that all legal expenses and attorneys fees are awarded to you if you win.

Since you're going after your HOA, bring your documents with you to the meeting so the attorney will know what to look at (and saves you time n photocopying and dropping it off). Hopefully, you've kept some sort of journal documenting this saga - who said what and when, any supporting documents, etc. Organize your own thoughts so you don't veer from one topic to another during the consultation (remember, you're paying for it, so going on and on about nothing can be costly).

Ask about arbitration - yes, I know you tried the IDR and the board rep told you to "sit on it and rotate" after a fashion, but in a formal arbitration, both sides should sign a legal agreement to comply with the settlement, whatever that is. If your neighbors want to continue to be contrary and defy that, it'll cost them (some people have far more money than sense, so if they want to give it to you, that's fine).

Keep an open mind - if the attorney says you don't have a case at all, make sure he/she answers all your questions as to why. You might not like what's said, but that doesn't necessarily mean it's not true. And you can always change attorneys.

Remember, attorneys charge (a lot) for their time, so make sure you have a good reason to contact him/her because you'll get charged for every phone call/fax/text, etc. During your first meeting, you should get an itemized list of services and how often you can expect an update on your case. Our HOA attorney has a client portal where you can log on and see what's going on, so you'll see when phone calls were made, summaries of phone conversations, etc.

It's unfortunate, but not surprising your fight with your neighbors has come to this point - in another conversation, I suggested that you ask them to offer you a buyout so all of you can move on. I know you don't want to and perhaps lawyering up will resolve this once and for all, but if it doesn't, I really think you may want to consider this - if nothing else, it'll make THEM consider if it's worth aggravating you further because you haven't backed down, and have a good chance of winning. Again, some people aren't interested in resolving a problem, they want to be RIGHT and who cares how much it costs in drama. Good luck in whatever you choose to do.

PS: There are only four of you, so you really don't need a property manager. A bookkeeper and perhaps hiring a handyman service for routine tasks should suffice

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
LizD3 (California)
Posts: 200
Posted:
Hi Terri,

Yes, I did. Thank you, thank you. You have been (and continue to be) unfailingly kind.

I don’t know what my next steps are, but it is an enormous help to have the name of a lawyer if I wish to go that route.

I’m closing the email address I provided, above. Terri, you gave me your private email, so I’m guessing/hoping it is ok for me to email you if I have a question in future (I’ll use my real email address). If that is a step too far, let me know and I won’t (and I won’t be offended).

(And I hope you don’t mind the advice, but in future, when emailing a stranger, you might want to use a temporary email address, like I did. I’m pretty much your basic girl scout so no worries with me, but there are less scrupulous people out there.)

You are incredibly gutsy going after your HOA so many times (and winning). I don’t know if I am up to that. But now I have the help I need if I do proceed.
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
Posted:
Liz, definitely ok to contact me. When I started all this, I didn't know what to do. Now if I can help others to make the process easier, it makes all the trouble worthwhile. As you probably know, small claims cases aren't published so I went through dozens of published cases (unpublished ones are not usually quoted in court) looking for my particular legal issues. I subscribed to Casetext for a long time but a lot of the information is free by searching your subject along with "Casetext." Pay attention to the cases where "Discussion" starts - that's where the court explains the legal basis for its decision.

Just know whether you go small claims or superior court, your relationship with neighbors will never be the same. We have some who hate us and others who thank us but there are many more neighbors than you have. Bottom line is you decide what needs to be done. We won't let the opposers spoil our enjoyment of living here. If some of the neighbors can't see the elephant in the room (bad board), they can be miserable on their own.
LizD3 (California)
Posts: 200
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Posted By SheliaH on 07/17/2023 6:52 AM
One person's opinion
If you end up hiring him/her, ask what the general approach will be and how much that will cost (e.g. drafting and sending nastygrams, phone calls to and from opposing counsel, research, addressing phone calls/emails/faxes and texts to and from you, etc.)

It's unfortunate, but not surprising your fight with your neighbors has come to this point - in another conversation, I suggested that you ask them to offer you a buyout so all of you can move on.

PS: There are only four of you, so you really don't need a property manager. A bookkeeper and perhaps hiring a handyman service for routine tasks should suffice

Amazing advice (thanks for taking the time - ditto for everyone else, above). Doubt they would go for a buyout. Not sure I'd even want (or can) do that. But it's a thought.

As for a property manager, I think we need a disinterested third party who can say "no, you can't do that" or "yes, you can do that, but you have to do it this way" and so on. Because even when I provide direct quotes from our CC&Rs or show them a relevant statute, they disbelieve me. The sorrow of it is it is just one person who is trouble. He is engaged in a power struggle with me, but the funny thing is, I'm not engaged in a power struggle with him. He can have the power. All I ask is that they all abide by our CC&Rs, etc. But he wants to do whatever he wants, to heck with the CC&Rs, etc., and the other two blindly, unthinkingly do whatever he tells them to do because they haven't read the CC&Rs, etc., can't be bothered to (one complained that they are so loooong), don't believe they have to follow them, are lazy and happy to let someone else do all their thinking for them, and are thick as thieves.

It just dawned on me - this is like grade school, isn't it?!
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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Yes, a lot like grade school.

The "one person" sounds just like our chairman. They actually believe it is not necessary to follow the law. They think they can impose their personal choices onto their neighbors. But you have all the power because you have the law on your side. There's no way he can overcome that. You are a threat to him and his ego and his "plan" for your community. Our board never listened to me personally or in correspondence. Even after court rulings, they defied the court rulings. Don't listen to anyone who suggests that YOU should move. Remember you can have bad neighbors anywhere. This is another example of why HOAs are awful, unnatural and anti-social. People were never meant to have such control over their neighbors.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Posted By TerriS6 on 07/17/2023 7:37 AM
But you have all the power because you have the law on your side. There's no way [the one neighbor] can overcome that.
I disagree with both these statements. In the typical HOA dispute, in my experience the bulk of the power lies with who has more money and is willing to give up that money in attorney fees. In this respect, LizD3 has a lot going for her, because the attorney fees for a fight are going to be split among a mere four owners, and the time expended on this fight will likely be a burden on all. Of possible note: So far the indications are that LizD3 will pay (1) for her own attorney and (2) one-quarter of the fees for the attorney the other three hire to represent the association.)

Any California attorney hired should be HOA/COA specialized. In California, if at an initial interview the attorney does not know what the Davis-Stirling Act is, I would not hire him/her.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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Posted By LizD3 on 07/16/2023 4:53 PM
Alrighty. Looks like it is time to lawyer up, yeeha!
1. Anyone have any tips on how to find a good lawyer (I talked to a few, but it seems like the good ones only represent HOAs)
2. Can anyone recommend a lawyer (or firm) - I appreciate this may not be the place for this, so ...
3. If anyone wants to email me privately (I’d love that), let me know and I’ll post a disposable email address (to protect us both)

4. And, while I’m at it, does anyone have any tips on how to find a good property management company (or can recommend one – see point 3 re: email address)? I interviewed a few but they were out of our tiny price range (small building) or unimpressive (sometimes knew even less than me)?

Thanks for all the fish.

Liz

Are you assuming if you find a PM the other owners will vote to hire them?
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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ElleN, of course you disagree. You are a contrarian.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Posted By LizD3 on 07/17/2023 7:19 AM


Amazing advice (thanks for taking the time - ditto for everyone else, above). Doubt they would go for a buyout. Not sure I'd even want (or can) do that. But it's a thought.

As for a property manager, I think we need a disinterested third party who can say "no, you can't do that" or "yes, you can do that, but you have to do it this way" and so on. Because even when I provide direct quotes from our CC&Rs or show them a relevant statute, they disbelieve me. The sorrow of it is it is just one person who is trouble. He is engaged in a power struggle with me, but the funny thing is, I'm not engaged in a power struggle with him. He can have the power. All I ask is that they all abide by our CC&Rs, etc. But he wants to do whatever he wants, to heck with the CC&Rs, etc., and the other two blindly, unthinkingly do whatever he tells them to do because they haven't read the CC&Rs, etc., can't be bothered to (one complained that they are so loooong), don't believe they have to follow them, are lazy and happy to let someone else do all their thinking for them, and are thick as thieves.

It just dawned on me - this is like grade school, isn't it?!

Sorry, but that’s really not what a property manager is supposed to do. It’s one thing to make suggestions or say something like ā€œit doesn’t appear your documents allow you to do that becauseā€¦ā€, but after that, it’s really up to the board to decide what to do – and the board ought to know its own documents anyway. If they want the property manager to do something downright illegal or completely opposite what the documents say, the manager should let the board know of his/her concerns and will consult with the property manager’s attorney before doing anything because he/she cannot put his employer at risk and the board shouldn’t want to put the association at risk.

At this point, it’s up to the remaining two to put a stop to whatever’s going on between you and the president – they’re probably afraid of him and so they sit and watch you two go at it. Unfortunately, this back-and-forth resolves nothing and I guess the president figures he can do what the hell he wants and then leave someone else to clean up the mess. There are only four owners so everyone has a stake in this.

Once again, I suggest bringing up the buyout – you’re probably right that they won’t go along with it, but maybe it’ll force the other two to man up and relieve this guy of the position. He may scream and squawk, but it’ll be two against one (three if they apologize to you for letting this go on and invite you to join the board). If all of you band together against him, you may find they have other tales of woe that would make things go very badly for him if they came out, and that may be enough to get him to quiet down (for a while, anyway).

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
LizD3 (California)
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Posted By JohnC46 on 07/17/2023 8:55 AM
Posted By LizD3 on 07/16/2023 4:53 PM Are you assuming if you find a PM the other owners will vote to hire them?

Good point. I thought a disinterested third party would help, but you’re right, they’ll never go for it. Right now, they have everything just as they want it, so why would they?

I keep thinking if I cold just make them see, why of course, they would step up and do the right thing. Clearly not.
LizD3 (California)
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Posted By SheliaH on 07/17/2023 12:58 PM
Posted By LizD3 on 07/17/2023 7:19 AM
Sorry, but that’s really not what a property manager is supposed to do.

I though the property manager, as a disinterested third party, would have better credibility than me (they don’t believe me, maybe they would believe them). But John (comment above) is right, they will never go for it. They have no incentive to do so.

There isn’t anything going on with me and the president. It is just the president doing whatever (including videotaping me outside of my home which made me very uncomfortable) with me reading passages from the CC&Rs and D-S and pointing out what we are required to do and are forbidden from doing. And being completely ignored.

The other two will do nothing, they blindly follow the president because they are all best friends and they, too, want to do whatever they want. So the idea of a buyout will achieve nothing. But appreciated the suggestion.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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Say it with me.... Suing your HOA is suing yourself and your neighbors. If you hire a lawyer and they do NOT point that out to you, then I question their integrity. They should discuss with you the consequences of your actions. There are always consequences known and unknown.

You also do not need to necessarily hire a lawyer on retainer. That is often a romanticized concept people get from TV and movies. Real life you hire a lawyer for a specific purpose. Example: The HOA writes you up for leaving your garbage out till Monday after scheduled pick up is Friday. You have proof that was NOT your garbage can. They refuse to lift the fine. That then may bring you to a court situation. You hire the lawyer to fight the fine. You don't hire the lawyer to fight every "law/Restriction" the HOA is failing to enforce.

A lawyer will potentially charge you for every email, text message, returned phone call, or phone call discussion. That is upon any court appearances. They rarely take the case on contingency.

At this point, I feel like we are just giving advice to a person who just wants rules enforced but there isn't a need to do it. Is someone in violation of the rules? If so, then the HOA can take action at their discretion not necessarily forced because the rules exist. We have rules about no basketball goals. However, we had a basketball goal in our common area. Kids like to play on it. Were we to remove the basketball goal just based on there is a rule there isn't to be one?

Hiring a lawyer forces your HOA to hire a lawyer or seek legal advice. Don't be surprised if they send you the bill. That does happen. A lawyer may advise the HOA that would be considered "damages" for them to have to incur legal advice. Especially if the reason could be considered "frivolous" and lose in court. The HOA can send you their bill for that in some cases just so your aware.

Former HOA President
JamesB37 (California)
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In my area, the local BAR association has a referral service. You call and speak with one of their 'counselors' and tell them what is going on and then they will try to match you up with an attorney who practices law in that field. The cost was $45, and they would then set up time for you to call the attorney to discuss your situation.

Another alternative, the local BAR also offers arbitration or dispute resolution for a fixed fee for a certain number of hours.
LizD3 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 07/17/2023 4:07 PM
then the HOA can take action

That is the point: the HOA is NOT taking action. Not sure how you missed that, but c'est la vie. And if you do not feel like you are adding value to the conversation, please do not force yourself to contribute. I won't mind. Truly.
LizD3 (California)
Posts: 200
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Posted By JamesB37 on 07/17/2023 4:14 PM
In my area, the local BAR association has a referral service.

Good ideas. Thanks for posting them.
MarkS42 (North Carolina)
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Posted By LizD3 on 07/16/2023 4:53 PM
Alrighty. Looks like it is time to lawyer up, yeeha!
1. Anyone have any tips on how to find a good lawyer (I talked to a few, but it seems like the good ones only represent HOAs)
2. Can anyone recommend a lawyer (or firm) - I appreciate this may not be the place for this, so ...
3. If anyone wants to email me privately (I’d love that), let me know and I’ll post a disposable email address (to protect us both)

4. And, while I’m at it, does anyone have any tips on how to find a good property management company (or can recommend one – see point 3 re: email address)? I interviewed a few but they were out of our tiny price range (small building) or unimpressive (sometimes knew even less than me)?

Thanks for all the fish.

LizD3,

The tip to finding a good lawyer is having a clear cut case you can win. I am not sure that you have presented enough evidence or what relief you are seeking from the courts. Your HOA is a bit unique in its size 4 members and its formation was mainly to collect for common expenses. I would think you need evidence where they are not performing their fiduciary duties. I would start by requesting in writing return receipt to inspect the HOA records. See link below. Make sure you follow all the steps. You definitely want to make sure the Master insurance is paid up to date. He very well could ignore your request but that is something that is easy to prove.

https://www.davis-stirling.com/HOME/H/HOA-Records-Subject-to-Inspection
CathyA3 (Ohio)
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Posted By SheliaH on 07/17/2023 12:58 PM
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Sorry, but that’s really not what a property manager is supposed to do. It’s one thing to make suggestions or say something like ā€œit doesn’t appear your documents allow you to do that becauseā€¦ā€, but after that, it’s really up to the board to decide what to do – and the board ought to know its own documents anyway. If they want the property manager to do something downright illegal or completely opposite what the documents say, the manager should let the board know of his/her concerns and will consult with the property manager’s attorney before doing anything because he/she cannot put his employer at risk and the board shouldn’t want to put the association at risk.
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Not to mention that a manager makes no economic sense for a tiny HOA.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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I am still not getting the whole "The HOA isn't following the rules" thing. Is someone actually getting written up or NOT written up for a violation? Seems more like a case of not seeing the Forrest for the trees. My HOA isn't enforcing the rules correctly in my HOA or equally every day. I know of no HOA that is. Someone is always in violation for something. Which the reaction to the HOA violation is what you see. Some will decide to ignore the issue. Some will decide paying the fine is no big deal. Of course you have those that get pissed off and continue the violation to be a pain. You have people whom will keep the violation till dragged to court...etc... That doesn't mean the HOA isn't enforcing the rules.

Plus a HOA doesn't have to enforce a rule just because it is written. If the rule is antiquated and will cost several thousands of dollars to modify the documents, simply changing the by-laws or putting it in the HOA notes may do. Example: Many HOA's still have no satellite dishes. Well the federal laws say the HOA can't restrict them. Plus they are smaller and can be placed in non-viewable areas. Are you going to go to court because a neighbor has a satellite dish and the rules say not allowed?

Give us an actual example of an actual violation your seeing in your HOA that is beyond living with. If a majority of neighbors don't have a problem with a "garden flag", then the garden flag will stay. It's you that keeps pushing the issue no one wants pushed or cares about. Doesn't make it their problem. It makes it yours.

Former HOA President
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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This thread is a good example of how association members who just want to mind their own business and live in a community they expected would act according to the governing documents they signed at purchase try every conceivable thing to AVOID going to court.
LizD3 (California)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 07/18/2023 8:51 AM
This thread is a good example of how association members who just want to mind their own business and live in a community they expected would act according to the governing documents they signed at purchase try every conceivable thing to AVOID going to court.

Exactly.

I had been struggling on my own for so long, I was thrilled when I found this site. But between the many wonderful people who have generously offered insight, there have been a few (very few) who feel the need to scold, insult, and generally try to prove their superiority.

Yep. You know more than me. That’s precisely why I’m here.

What would have been nicer and more productive would have been to help those of us that timidly put ourselves out there by posting. Most of you do. And I am so thankful. But the few that do not have soured what could have been a wonderful resource with neighbors helping neighbors.

So sad.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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So you think some of us are superior? Funny. I find people who label other people are the very things that person is. We assign other attributes to people of which we are. If you say someone comes across "superior" then it is what you feel. Otherwise I feel someone maybe experienced and trying to help you see what others see you as...

It is no wonder no one gets along with you in your HOA. Have to say the word Superior sums it up.

Former HOA President
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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Melissa, according to your logic, we would have to conclude that no-one gets along with YOU. But I doubt that is true.

Here is a quote this is not from an HOA case but it is appropriate very often: "To punish a person because he has done what the law plainly allows him to do is a due process violation of the most basic sort, and for any agent of the state to pursue a course of action where the objective is to penalize a person's reliance on his legal rights is patently unconstitutional." Bordenkircher v. Hayes, 1978, a federal court.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By TerriS6 on 07/18/2023 10:17 AM
"To punish a person because he has done what the law plainly allows him to do is a due process violation of the most basic sort, and for any agent of the state to pursue a course of action where the objective is to penalize a person's reliance on his legal rights is patently unconstitutional." Bordenkircher v. Hayes, 1978, a federal court.
It cuts both ways. E.g. some owners are known to harass boards with false claims of violations of statutes or covenants.
TerriS6 (California)
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Quote from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler: "Recently, I had…or, tried to have, a conversation with a contrarian: a person who says white if you say black, no matter how they really feel.
It’s a power move. It’s a control move. It’s a way, they think, of keeping you off guard enough so that they feel superior in the conversation. No matter what, you will never be in agreement because that would be too scary for them. A level playing field must be tipped in their favor, in their own minds–at all costs."
LizD3 (California)
Posts: 200
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Thank heaven for you, Terri, you make me laugh
LizD3 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 07/18/2023 9:47 AM
So you think some of us are superior?

o. Actually, what I said is some of you are trying to "prove their superiority."

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Posted By MelissaP1 on 07/18/2023 9:47 AM
It is no wonder no one gets along with you in your HOA.

And this proves my comment about people who "feel the need to scold, insult."

ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Yeah yeah Terri. I get it that your brain is presently wired to resist any statement that goes against whatever thinking you formulated some time ago.

But at least you are here, asking decent questions at least some of the time, possibly re-thinking some of your thinking.
TerriS6 (California)
Posts: 3,284
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My, my, we do have a God complex.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Getting back on topic:

LizD3, ask any California attorney you interview if she thinks the purpose of the corporation as stated in the Articles of Incorporation can be overriden by purposes stated in the Declaration. If the attorney says yes, do not hire this attorney.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By ElleN on 07/18/2023 11:04 AM
ask any California attorney you interview if she thinks the purpose of the corporation as stated in the Articles of Incorporation can be overriden by purposes stated in the Declaration. If the attorney says yes, do not hire this attorney.
Gross post-o. If the attorney says no, the Declaration cannot override the Articles of Incorporation, do not hire this attorney. In conflicts between the Articles of Inc and Declaration, the Declaration controls/prevails.
CathyA3 (Ohio)
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Regardless of who is "right" and who is "wrong", any HOA conflict that results in legal action will probably hit every owner in the pocketbook, and many of those owners will be "innocent bystanders" (as much as anyone in an HOA can be viewed as innocent).

When an owner lawyers up, they're stating outright that they're OK with this, and that their issue - whatever it is - is more important than others' finances. Said owner needs to be prepared for others to disagree with this viewpoint.
TerriS6 (California)
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Posted By ElleN on 07/18/2023 11:06 AM
Posted By ElleN on 07/18/2023 11:04 AM
ask any California attorney you interview if she thinks the purpose of the corporation as stated in the Articles of Incorporation can be overriden by purposes stated in the Declaration. If the attorney says yes, do not hire this attorney.
Gross post-o. If the attorney says no, the Declaration cannot override the Articles of Incorporation, do not hire this attorney. In conflicts between the Articles of Inc and Declaration, the Declaration controls/prevails.

Not my assertion if that is what you are implying.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Mother Superior Cathy you are correct. Once one lawyers up or threatens to, it becomes their issue is more important than anyone else. It is a passive aggressive move to threaten to sue. It is an aggressive move to actually sue on your own. If a group has same issues then you may have a point and a way. If it is just you then it is you...

Former HOA President
LizD3 (California)
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Melissa, Melissa, Bless your heart.
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 07/18/2023 11:57 AM
It is a passive aggressive move to threaten to sue. It is an aggressive move to actually sue on your own. If a group has same issues then you may have a point and a way. If it is just you then it is you...
Come on; ease up. For one, HOA/COA fair housing disputes are often just one person or one family. When such a person or family prevails, characterizing this person or family as "passive aggressive" does not make sense, AFAIC.

If at the OP's condo someone say has monopolized common area parking spaces, without approval of the owners as required in the governing documents, this is an instance for which I can understand lawyering up makes sense. And yes, the plaintiff in such an instance is saying this issue is more important than others' finances. So what? A board (or in the OP's case, three other owners) refusing to comply with the covenants may also be saying their position is more important than others' finances.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Ellen I have yet to hear from the OP one single example of what the actual issue is that the HOA is not following a rule on. Is it a parking issue? Is it a display? Is it because the sky is blue? What is the exact issue or issues? Otherwise she comes off as a minority vote in her HOA and somewhat of a "Karen".

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ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 07/18/2023 12:23 PM
Ellen I have yet to hear from the OP one single example of what the actual issue is that the HOA is not following a rule on.
I know. It's common for people to come here and be vague, no? In my opinion often this is understandable. The person maybe does not want others at her/his condo to figure out that she/he is posting at hoatalk. This forum's members regularly urge conciseness. Then many of us end up asking for more details anyway. Because without the details, the responses end up having all manner of conditionals attached to them and are long and complicated. (I am trying to cut back on my own verbosity and am not really succeeding.)

Some new folks may not understand some HOA principles, that the long-time regular posters know like the back of their hand. The new folks may be overwhelmed with how much vocabulary they have to master to make themselves understood. E.g. "officers" vs. "directors." The difference is significant. Yet many newbies think they are one-in-the-same. Changing neural thought patterns is not always an instantaneous process.

Also, I think it is important to respect people's privacy, especially if it seems the likelihood is high they are going to court and so they need anonymity here. I profane any of the regulars here who try to finger any newbie who shows signs of having posted here under a different screen name. For goodness sake, a lot of folks do end up in court and do want some objective advice, and completely understandably in anonymity.

Such are my thoughts.

The OP wisely IMO asked for tips for seeking a competent attorney. Hopefully the search is underway.

TerriS6 (California)
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Melissa, if you haven't seen the examples, you missed reading all the posts. Some of them are on prior threads. They are there.
TerriS6 (California)
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If boards don't want to get sued they should behave themselves.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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Ellen the only thing the OP says is the HOA does not follow the rules. Okay then give an example. Simple as that. Like they complain sound after 10 pm. How personal is that?

At some point these people are just living with a Karen who has no point but to complain. It is no wonder they change meetings or ignore them. Does not mean they are not following the rules to ignore a person not on the board or does nothing but complain...

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CathyA3 (Ohio)
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I'm going to remind everyone of something I've observed: the number of times that owners who've sued their association ended up moving out afterwards because their neighbors hated their guts and life got unpleasant for them.

Too many people seem to have a simplistic notion about this stuff: they'll file their lawsuit, the board will clean up their act, and it will be sunshine, daisies and little tweeting birds thereafter. And the financial hit will magically disappear.

In my view, that's naive. If I'm going to file a lawsuit, it will be because the problems are so serious that they justify *all* of the crap that's coming down the highway as a result and - importantly - they can't be solved any other way. Problems such as criminal behavior (eg. embezzlement). There are few things that rise to this standard in my book, mainly because I'm willing to tolerate or walk away from a problem if that's overall the best of the achievable options.

Others' mileage obviously varies, and I wish them joy of it.
KerryL1 (California)
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HOA language does matter and it seems to be a factor right here. I wouldn't expect Melissa to remember Liz's previous posts, but she has written repeatedly that the Board ignores their HOA's covenants, bylaws and also the state statutes. "Rules" may have come up too, but in more minor ways, I think. Rules & Regulations are different than CC&Rs (covenants, the declaration, deed restrictions). The, for one thing are generally pretty easy to change and typically don't require owners' vote

But Melissa generally uses the language of "rules" when she means CC&Rs. Or maybe when she means bylaws. She, for example, claims to have always brought here old HOA's "rules" with her to HOA board meetings. But, why? I think she meant bylaws which are all about how Board and member meetings are to be organized and run not about putting your trash cans away
ElleN (Idaho)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 07/17/2023 4:07 PM
Say it with me.... Suing your HOA is suing yourself and your neighbors.
In the OP's case, where the membership consists of a mere four owners, I did almost say this aloud. This is because I agree that this and CathyA3's remarks about the financial costs with a four-owner COA are critical to remember.

If I were an owner in a COA of a mere four owners, it would take some pretty egregious behavior to justify lawyering up against the COA. This is because the chances are pretty good (though not guaranteed) that statutes, covenants and case law would require me to pay for 1/4 of the association's attorney fees, along with my own attorney's fees.

On the other hand, one good letter from an owner's attorney to the COA might knock some sense into the other owners. It just depends on whether there is room for debate about covenant violations and how much people want to pay attorneys. (Sadly if the other three owners, representing the board majority, consult an attorney, it seems to me guaranteed that pre-litigation, I would be stuck paying for 1/4 of the association's attorney fees.)

I also think about how covenant disputes have been landing in court for over 150 years. The lawsuits can go on for years.

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