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Posted By MarkM19 on 06/17/2023 7:09 AM
Bill,
I have 2 suggestions for you regarding your recent post.
1) I would recommend to the board that the people you mentioned have their access restricted until they meet with the board to discuss the behavior that caused this action.
2) I would request that the board member who was speaking to the owner about you possibly being a racist be tasked with doing your job for a few weeks until he gets called a racist and see how he likes it.
3) Once again is it You that is making up the Pool Rules or the board? I would fire anyone who mentions a single board members name when mentioning the board. Your board voted for the rules and are a team enforcing them. The only language that is allowed is "The Board" period.
In my Ca. HOA I had a lame guard that would call me while the owner was arguing with him because he had no idea how to handle people and always needed help. SO I became the bad guy when in fact I was just the guy that he called. This person was not the right person for the job and was let go quickly.
Thanks Mark! Fun to think about - alas, I am discovering that my Board doesn't have the spine I thought it had.
#2: that Board member "doesn't have the time" to do anything. He's an Idea Man, see? He's Big Picture - he doesn't do the small stuff, see? He's all about out-of-the-box thinking, and seeing The Big Picture. He lets other people deal with implementation and execution because, see? Big Picture. He's an Idea Man. He's also kind of an idiot.
#3 doesn't have a simple answer: we have a written, out of date set of pool rules that dates from 2014 (this is the set that I want to replace with a new, blessed by paid legal counsel version), plus we have the pool rules that are being enforced by our LGs{1}. I do not know what process birthed the 2014 rules. I'm the Treasurer acting as 'interim pool committee chair' with the blessing of the Board (because if I didn't, the pool wouldn't have opened this year). I keep the Board informed - but I rarely get any response to my updates or questions.
I met briefly with the LGs on their first day, and provided them with 'direction':
1. You're Professional Lifeguards. Give us some Professional Lifeguarding.
2. We have a lot of problems with Tailgaters. Please try to keep tailgaters out.
3. If anyone gives you grief, tell them "we're following the Board's directions". If necessary, direct them to me. We're paying you for Professional Lifeguarding, not to explain or justify your decisions.
This was, I think, well-received. I mean, I know nothing about lifeguarding. If I had handed them a set of rules that I'd written (or worse, that had been written by the Board) - it would be insane at best. At worse, someone would drown and the Board would be held responsible. And from my days in management: there are few things more beautiful than engaging a qualified subject matter expert, pointing them at a task, and just letting them execute on it.
So back to your question: my position is that yes, the Board is responsible for the pool rules. And since my Board is rather dysfunctional, I'm effectively the Board. Another thing I remember from my time in mgmt is the folly of having more than one boss. Here,
I am the boss. Or, at least, I try to be. It's not a power thing; the intent is a) to take the heat off of the LGs (don't blame the LGs; blame that bastard Bill!) and b) for me to be the Single Point Of Contact. Because having disgruntled residents calling random Board members to complain about the LGs can only make things worse. And, in fact, despite my efforts, that has already happened (ref my earlier comment about two Board members getting together over "what to do about Bill").
For all of my moaning and groaning: the situation with the pool and the LGs seems to be coming along and improving. We've even got a new LG, a young Black woman who I think will work out very well. That's really my primary objective.
While it is largely a matter of faith, I believe that most of the residents are decent people who are okay, even happy, about the current pool situation. The residents who are giving me (and, alas, the LGs) grief - I try to look on the bright side: this has proved to be a highly productive 'honeypot' and I have better awareness of the shit-stirrers in my community{2}.
The only thing I'm really unhappy about is the "what to do about Bill" thing. I considered one of the people involved to be a trusted friend, someone I treated with respect - and even after talking to them about it, I'm still at a loss as to why they stabbed me in the back like that. The kindest reason that seems to fit the facts is that they 'got high on their own supply' - but I simply don't know. Forgiving and rebuilding a trust relationship with them is going to be extremely difficult - last night I would have said it was flat-out impossible. In this morning's light I feel it's simply impossible. So - it might just be a matter of (lots of) time. But it's like that thing that Nietzsche supposedly said: “I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you”.
Bill
{1} https://highsierrapools.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/LG_PM_digital.pdf The American Red Cross Lifeguarding Manual
{2} “Idiots, Dax. Everywhere we are beset by idiots.”
HOA Board ex-President
Austin, Texas USA
“You can’t put too much water in a nuclear reactor”