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LoriM15 (Florida)
Posts: 1,009
Posted:
We have a request from a homeowner to have a party at our main clubhouse pool. They want to invite 15 kids and their parents - so over 30 people for pizza and drinks. We cannot allow them to close down the pool for this party so they would have to share with whoever is there.

We have never had a request like this before since a majority of our residents are older with no kids in the house. However, we are getting more younger families and this might be the start of something.

We do have rules about where you can have food and drink on the pool deck, but we don't have any restrictions on the number of guests you can bring to the pool. So we can't turn it down on those grounds. My issue is that's a lot of kids with no lifeguard. We are thinking about allowing the party but making them hire a lifeguard for the party (I was at a similar kid's pool party, with an adult acting as lifeguard, and a child still drowned and had to be revived and hospitalized, so I'm overly cautious).

We don't have any kind of pool monitors or security. Any owner with a key card can get intot the pool - so I guess they didn't really even need to ask permission.

Do any of you have procedures for parties like this? Do we ask for liability waivers? Any best practice ideas?

CathyA3 (Ohio)
Posts: 6,299
Posted:
Have you talked with your insurer to see if you have adequate coverage? Is the HOA protected if this group provides their own lifeguard (how will you know if it isn't just somebody's friend who won't be paying any attention)? At what point does your private pool become a public pool that must be ADA compliant? Depending on the answers, any of these could be a reason to say "no".

LisaB21 (Texas)
Posts: 97
Posted:
We stopped allowing pool parties due to higher insurance quotes if we did allow private parties. When we did allow them, they could only be help when the pool was closed to homeowners and tenants in the neighborhood so that basically meant after 9PM. The pool is closed on Mondays but that is for cleaning and maintenance so that was a no go. We have lifeguards for our pool but once the people reach over a certain number an additional life guard has to be added and that would be part of the fee we charged. If you do approve the party do not allow them to hire an outside lifeguard, just ask your pool company to add a guard for the time of the party. That way they are trained and insured by your pool vendor, and are a part of their team. Also keep in mind that your pool is an amenity for your homeowners and residents that pay to have access to the amenity. If they arrive at the pool and find a large gathering taking up chairs, table, etc. they may not like that their pool has been overrun by outside guests.
MarkM19 (Texas)
Posts: 1,459
Posted:
Lori,
I am just remembering back to my Ca. days and we would require large groups for wedding and other larger parties to have their Insurance company write a rider for a single day event and release the HOA from any liability. This was a pain for some owners to get and costs under $200 many years ago.

This type of coverage gives the HOA a little relief but if a negative event were to happen lawyers make sure they drag all parties into a suit.
LynneV1 (South Carolina)
Posts: 211
Posted:
Our community had a pool and clubhouse, which we shared with another community. We would allow the rental of the clubhouse out for private parties, But not the pool has. As far as the pool went, we would allow people to bring up to three or four guests.
if ONE family rents the pool for say 4 hrs. it's a weekend and it's warm, then 200 of the other homeowners wouldn't be able to use it. I wonder if your bylaws or covenants say something about that issue.
We had a pool committee who posted pool rules. The clubhouse was only rented out maybe four times a year. The money ($50 -$100) went towards our dues.
Otherwise, when they have soccer games, baseball games and basketball games, everyone's going to bring their friends over for a party. And then it's not a private community pool. It's a public pool.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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It’s ok to be overly cautious regarding a lifeguard vs. a regular teenager or adult. At least the lifeguard would also know CPR. There’s also the possibility that 30 people may multiply into 60 or more because kids discuss the parties on social media, someone (or several people) repost the details someplace else, and suddenly you have a mob of people, most of whom you’ve never met.

When we had our pool, we never rented it out – you could use the clubhouse attached to it and that was all. Ours was a small pool so we didn’t require a lifeguard, but we also had off duty cops serving as pool monitors so everyone there had a pass and the homeowner had to be current with all fees.

We used to send out the passes automatically but then began requiring people to write in if they wanted a pass (4 per unit) and before they got the pass, they had to sign a form listing the pool rules and there was language stating they understood they and their guests would have to abide by them.

Even that didn’t entirely slow down some of the mayhem, so we ended up getting rid of the pool! To this day, none of the homeowners who remembered it are overly concerned that it’s gone.

Since you can’t close down the pool for other homeowners, you may as well say no to this – at least until the board does some research on liability issues and decides the best way to proceed if they want to go that route.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
LetA (Nevada)
Posts: 2,679
Posted:
These parties tend to monopolize and take away the enjoyment of the pool facilities from the other owners, parties that include the use of the pool should
be a BIG NO!
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
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“It is not possible to reserve the pool or BBQ area.” This heads the pool rules in our Rules & Regs. They both should be available for any resident who wants to use them. 30 ppl. In my HOA pool or BBQ area would definitely deprive others of use.

No.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Posted By LoriM15 on 04/25/2023 7:05 AM
We have a request from a homeowner to have a party at our main clubhouse pool. They want to invite 15 kids and their parents - so over 30 people for pizza and drinks. We cannot allow them to close down the pool for this party so they would have to share with whoever is there.
You noted that they perhaps did not even need to ask permission. Evidently they are not violating any rules at this time by having so many guests use the pool and patio. Good for them for thinking they should check with the board.

How I would vote if I were on this board:

-- Immediately vote to create a new pool rule: Maximum of ___ guests per owner allowed.

-- Explain to the owners that the board has never had anyone throw such a large party on the common areas before. Explain that this means others, who pay for maintenance of the pool, will not be able to enjoy the pool. Request denied.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
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Did you check your CC&Rs carefully about your ability make rules about the pool? Ours for example say that the Board may limit the number of guests in our pool & BBQ area and Socila lounges. We had an original rule of limiting each condo unit to 6 person in the pool area. But it was plain silly as so few resident had that many or more guests. And on a busy day, one wouldn’t even know who’s with what “group.”

As unenforceable and unneeded we deleted that rule.
LayaS (Nebraska)
Posts: 249
Posted:
Give them a time limit of 3-4 hours. That should allow other owners to use the pool before or after the party. Are your older owners so crabby that they would complain about a fellow owner holding a kids' party for a few hours. Since you are getting more owners with kids to the neighborhood it would be wise to discuss pool usage as an agenda item at a future board meeting. You never know, it might be raining on party day or be too cold.

I would check with your insurance company first though.
ElleN (Idaho)
Posts: 4,420
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Posted By LoriM15 on 04/25/2023 7:05 AM
My issue is that's a lot of kids with no lifeguard. We are thinking about allowing the party but making them hire a lifeguard for the party (I was at a similar kid's pool party, with an adult acting as lifeguard, and a child still drowned and had to be revived and hospitalized, so I'm overly cautious).
I have an eye on Fair Housing law and how HUD has gone after HOAs and condos for pool rules that "discriminate" against kids (and so discriminate on the basis of familial status). A gathering of adults would not require a lifeguard, but a gathering of kids would?

This is why I proposed immediately creating a rule limiting the number of guests one could bring to the pool. It's age-neutral. It goes toward safety. It keeps an eye on the very real possibility that there may be an occupancy limit for this pool. Public pools have occupancy limits. I do not know if HOA pools do. But it seems reasonable to me to suggest that overcrowding increases the chances of a drowning. If the HOA approves the party and so knows the pool is going to be particularly chock-full of people, then I do not like the liability risk.

Regarding enforcement: If an owner reports a problem with another owner's guests or an out-of-control party, then as always, require documentation. Ideally security cameras are mounted in the pool area.

My former HOA had a limit on guests and had security cameras. The cameras confirmed complaints often, and the board took disciplinary action accordingly, with the perps caught red-handed.

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