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This was REALLY hard to read â please use paragraphs next time! Periods and commas, and perhaps a semicolon or two would also help.
Now then â last year you were accused of blowing leaves in your neighborâs yard by another neighbor â while neighbor #1 was down the street watching all of this. If that was what happened, why didnât you ask the neighbor why HE was getting involved in all this. Or go down the street to the person who reportedly encouraged him to do all of this and ask HER if there was a problem? When you got the notice, did you blow that off or go to the board with your side of the story? Perhaps all of this could have been squashed right then and there.
Leaves do have a tendency to go where they want and I know there have been conversations on this website as to the best way to address it. To wit, are there other trees around the area â if so, how does this neighbor know the stuff coming in her yard came from your tree? If sheâs going to accuse you, she needs to prove thatâs what happened (good luck with that).
It seems to me youâve made a lot of assumptions about what the neighbor did since then, and perhaps it is true sheâs persuaded the board president to come after you, but thatâs when YOU stand up and ask for an appeal with the board. If you had witnesses to all this, they need to come with you â and then the board president, or neighbor #2 (or whoever spoke to you that day) can explain themselves.
You may think all of this is a frivolous complaint, and elements of it certainly sound like it, but this time, you need to attend the violation hearing and give your side. You can also ask questions to put the neighbor on the spot like
⢠Why did you ask Mr. X to talk to me â weâre next-door neighbors and the first time I heard anything about this was from him. This could have been resolved a year ago and you certainly could have said something this year
⢠Please tell me which days you saw me in the yard âblowing leavesâ into your yard. Was I raking the leaves or using a leaf blower? Was it a windy day?
⢠There is X number of trees in the area â where is your proof that the leaves in your yard came from my tree?
⢠How many leaves are we talking about â one or two handfuls, a large trashbagâs worth, or more than that? Whereâs your proof?
If she doesnât have time and date-stamped photos of anything, point that out as well
Hopefully, the rest of the board will see this your way.
You also said there hasnât been an investigation, which I take to mean no one came to your home to discuss any of this, but it could be someone stopped by and took photos of your yard and your neighborâs yard or talked to other people. Listen to whatâs presented and ask them questions to see if the responses make sense or if theyâre also making up stuff and/or are simply biased against you.
I know you want to get this out of the way now, but Christmas will be here next week as I write this - do you really want to spend the last few days at a CCR violation hearing? I'm sure your neighbors don't (I wouldn't), so Iâm not surprised thereâs a delay in scheduling the hearing. That doesnât mean this is a done deal â use the time to prepare your case and good luck! And hold off on the attorney for now - you won't need one if you win. If you lose, the punishment may influence the more practical step. Maybe you can request an alternative dispute resolution hearing where you and the board would present your side to an independent arbitrator, who'd render a decision. Usually, both sides have to agree in advance to comply with the decision and the loser has to pay the winner's expenses in bringing the hearing. It can be a great way to avoid a court hearing, which would be the next step - and I don't think you or the neighbor want to take the time and expense for that (it would be easier if the lady had the leaves picked up and sent you the bill and then you can haggle over that).
As for 2023, one way to prevent this is to monitor your trees â when thereâs a good pile on the lawn, thatâs when youâll want to start picking them up. Depending on how much is shed, you may need to do this over a few weeks. You might also consider getting a leaf blower or lawn mower that can mulch the leaves into fine particles â this works as an excellent fertilizer for the grass or you can bag it for trash pickup, or even find an organization in your community that might pick it up to make compost. There are also containers you can buy to store the leaves and compost them yourself for your own garden. Imagine enraged the neighbor would get if you did this and wound up with the prettiest yard in the neighborhood (that would be fun to watch!)
If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius