LmT (California)
Posts: 237
Posts: 237
Posted:
I just left the monthly meeting of our HOA. I live in a 40 unit townhome development in California. At one time I was president of the HOA and I studied our governing documents and the Davis-Stirling Act carefully; if questions arose, I consulted these documents and consulted with our Manager to be sure the response was correct. Fast forward three years and we have a new board of directors and a new manager.
Today I raised a subject in open forum that was on the Agenda. I was quickly interrupted by the president who told me the subject was being handled etc., etc. I tried to continue and was interrupted again by another director who tried to explain what was happening with that topic. I tried to continue and was told again to introduce another topic or 'move on'. I asked if he was shutting me down and was told again the subject was being handled. I reminded him that this was HO forum but he just asked again if I had any other topics I simply said, 'no'. As it was a zoom meeting I left the meeting.
I am furious being treated this way. I know the rules and I should not be interrupted and responses from directors are not required. This is the second time he has treated me this way and not the first time he has trampled other home owners' concerns. It appears he takes any complaints from Home Owners personally. Before I speak I carefully rehearse what I will say so as not to come over in the wrong light. For goodness sake, it's only three minutes they have to listen to!
It would seem our current board of directors, and new manager, have not put the same amount of study into this subject as previous directors have.
If anyone has advice on how to handle tis type of situation in a calm and diplomatic manner, I would be appreciative. I do not intend to let it go - I felt it was rude and disrespectful.
Today I raised a subject in open forum that was on the Agenda. I was quickly interrupted by the president who told me the subject was being handled etc., etc. I tried to continue and was interrupted again by another director who tried to explain what was happening with that topic. I tried to continue and was told again to introduce another topic or 'move on'. I asked if he was shutting me down and was told again the subject was being handled. I reminded him that this was HO forum but he just asked again if I had any other topics I simply said, 'no'. As it was a zoom meeting I left the meeting.
I am furious being treated this way. I know the rules and I should not be interrupted and responses from directors are not required. This is the second time he has treated me this way and not the first time he has trampled other home owners' concerns. It appears he takes any complaints from Home Owners personally. Before I speak I carefully rehearse what I will say so as not to come over in the wrong light. For goodness sake, it's only three minutes they have to listen to!
It would seem our current board of directors, and new manager, have not put the same amount of study into this subject as previous directors have.
If anyone has advice on how to handle tis type of situation in a calm and diplomatic manner, I would be appreciative. I do not intend to let it go - I felt it was rude and disrespectful.