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PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello, My community has a rule which is rule 1 that skateboarders are restricted to the parking areas. I sent in a violation notice about the minors skateboarding at the end of Aug.2022 and I have reported the skateboarders since. Let me say the property manager stated she sent the parents violation letters, this was at the beginning of Sept. The President of the HOA stated he spoke to the parents and they know that the minors are not to skate on the sidewalks. Well for all their efforts it did not work and the minors are skateboarding exactly where they want to. The last time I reported this to the property manager and President , the President stated it was a closed incident that the minors were in compliance. He will not investigate any further complaints about the skateboarder.
My situation is my safety when walking around this community. I am 70 yrs old. I have Parkinson's so I walk with a cane. I also wear a brace on my right leg to help my knee which was injured by one of the minor skateborders over a year ago which is another story, actually that incident applies to Rule 1 also , she was on a Segway which is not allowed either on a sidewalk.
So I am disable, handicapped . The President here will not address anymore complaints about the skateboarders as he stated the incident is closed .
All I asked him to do was to enforce Rule 1. He is telling me when I see them walk the other way. So now I can not walk where I want to. I have two dogs that I walk 4 times a day so they get exercise and I do also.
So maybe someone on here has a suggestion as to what I can do about this.
Thank you.
MichaelT21 (Arkansas)
Posts: 462
Posted:
You can file - or threaten to file - a complaint with the Fair Housing Administration for discrimination again a disabled person.

You can contact a lawyer that represents disabled people and have him/her send a letter to Association.
AugustinD
Posts: 1,027
Posted:
-- Hire an attorney. Said attorney will start writing demand letters to the Association, asking that the Association enforce any covenants or common area rules prohibiting skateboards and scooters on common area sidewalks (or wherever). If there is no such rule or covenant, please report back.

-- Respectfully, I caution you: Do not refer to minors or children ever again on this issue. Why? Because HUD has argued that, under the Fair Housing Act, kids should be able to play anywhere on common areas that adults can play. If you or your attorney singles out kids in any way, then this could be trouble.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Stand your ground and go where you want to go. Only person stopping you is yourself. The kid is going to have to move or fall off their board. Simple as that.

Most skateboarding kids are not bad. Matter of fact many are respectful young adults. Just ask them nicely to avoid you and your dogs. They most likely will listen if you nice about it.

Former HOA President
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
I think you need to show time-stamped pics of the boarder in an off-limits area. Submit it exactly as your rules state how alleged violations are supposed to be submitted. This is NOT a matter for the PM or the prez, it's an alleged violation that needs to go to the board of directors OR to a Fining Committee. (which I think they have in FL?). I have a feeling that you're possibly not following the right procedure. Is there a procedure for hearings?

To Augustin's point do not refer to "minors." One hopes that that language is NOT in your rules. The rules should simply say something like "skateboards, bicycles, wheeled shoes, and other wheeled devices are not permitted on the premises except in the parking lot," or similar wording.
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Thank you for your advice. I wanted to try and get the President to just enforce it but I see he won't. This President feels that I send it too many complaints and that I keep going over the same complaints and it is unnecessary. I admit I send in alot of complaints about violations that are happening and they all go on even though I complain.Because I have complained about the skateboarders the President told me I did not put in an application to have new windows installed and to get one and fill it out. Well I did get an application and fill it out , turned it in to the property manager, I followed the procedure. I received a Notice of Approval. I had my windows put in about seven weeks ago and he is just saying something to me. He said he signs off on all projects and he did not sign off on mine. Now he said he is going to discuss this with the property manager on Monday.
So now that I made those complaints he is going to pick on me.
Thank you
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Thank you for your advice. I wanted to try and get the President to just enforce it but I see he won't. This President feels that I send it too many complaints and that I keep going over the same complaints and it is unnecessary. I admit I send in alot of complaints about violations that are happening and they all go on even though I complain.Because I have complained about the skateboarders the President told me I did not put in an application to have new windows installed and to get one and fill it out. Well I did get an application and fill it out , turned it in to the property manager, I followed the procedure. I received a Notice of Approval. I had my windows put in about seven weeks ago and he is just saying something to me. He said he signs off on all projects and he did not sign off on mine. Now he said he is going to discuss this with the property manager on Monday.
So now that I made those complaints he is going to pick on me.
Thank you
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Thank you for your advice. I wanted to try and get the President to just enforce it but I see he won't. This President feels that I send it too many complaints and that I keep going over the same complaints and it is unnecessary. I admit I send in alot of complaints about violations that are happening and they all go on even though I complain.Because I have complained about the skateboarders the President told me I did not put in an application to have new windows installed and to get one and fill it out. Well I did get an application and fill it out , turned it in to the property manager, I followed the procedure. I received a Notice of Approval. I had my windows put in about seven weeks ago and he is just saying something to me. He said he signs off on all projects and he did not sign off on mine. Now he said he is going to discuss this with the property manager on Monday.
So now that I made those complaints he is going to pick on me.
Thank you
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Thank you for your advice. I wanted to try and get the President to just enforce it but I see he won't. This President feels that I send it too many complaints and that I keep going over the same complaints and it is unnecessary. I admit I send in alot of complaints about violations that are happening and they all go on even though I complain.Because I have complained about the skateboarders the President told me I did not put in an application to have new windows installed and to get one and fill it out. Well I did get an application and fill it out , turned it in to the property manager, I followed the procedure. I received a Notice of Approval. I had my windows put in about seven weeks ago and he is just saying something to me. He said he signs off on all projects and he did not sign off on mine. Now he said he is going to discuss this with the property manager on Monday.
So now that I made those complaints he is going to pick on me.
Thank you
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it. I am going to continue to collect evidence .
AugustinD
Posts: 1,027
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By PamelaC8 on 09/30/2022 3:29 PM
Thank you for your advice. I wanted to try and get the President to just enforce it but I see he won't. This President feels that I send it too many complaints and that I keep going over the same complaints and it is unnecessary. I admit I send in alot of complaints about violations that are happening and they all go on even though I complain.Because I have complained about the skateboarders the President told me I did not put in an application to have new windows installed and to get one and fill it out. Well I did get an application and fill it out , turned it in to the property manager, I followed the procedure. I received a Notice of Approval. I had my windows put in about seven weeks ago and he is just saying something to me. He said he signs off on all projects and he did not sign off on mine. Now he said he is going to discuss this with the property manager on Monday.
So now that I made those complaints he is going to pick on me.
I am sorry you have a well-above-average, incredible loser for a president.

Document everything.
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,
Thank you for your advice.

There are no hearings or fining in my community, they just send a violation letter every time you violate the rules.

I have suggested more than once that a committee be established to have hearings for violations. That fines be given out .

Most of my suggestions are thrown out.

I have been told that certain rules are being amended , they don't say which ones. I have asked more than once for a copy of the amended rules and I have been told the board is not in agreement on one rule change. So, I am assuming that the original rules are still in effect.

I asked the President for the attorney's name that they use and he will not give saying it is privileged information.

My property manager asked me to take pictures of the skateboarder, that it would be helpful, so I am going to do it.

I have a video of the skateboarders, the only problem with that was the skateboarders told the mother and I had a confrontation with her.

Thank you again .
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
The HOA lawyer is not your lawyer. It is the HOA's. So no you do not need to talk to them.

Is this just the principle of the issue or have they done you actual harm?

Former HOA President
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Pamela, please read your governing documents to make sure there is nothing about HOW rules are enforced. Read your declaration (aka covenants, CC&Rs, restrictions) and your rules and regulations. It's hard to imagine that there is zero about how to enforce rules in your assn.

I feel certain FL statutes cover this topic. I believe the state has requirements about how to enforce HOA's rules & CC&Rs, i.e., certain steps that must be taken. Florida is an open meeting state which means the Board's discussion about new rules or enforcing the rules must be in open meetings so owners can see & hear the deliberations. Do you attend them?

Can you tell us what the basic violation letter from he assn. says??

HOAs are not governed by presidents, but by boards of directors. Leave the prez alone UNLESS you have some governing document or there is a Witten policy that says the president enforces the rules. Your PM's right, the HOA attorney is not for individual Owners.

I strongly disagree with Melissa who seems to feel it's OK for boarders to break the rules. It is not. I'm also taken aback that wheeled devices are permitted in the parking lots.

Agree with Augustin. Document/save all of your notes, emails, pictures, etc. on this topic.
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

I only asked for the attorney's name in case I needed to tell another another attorney who the HOA has an attorney. I did not want to talk to the HOA attorney .

I am not sure what you mean by have they done me Harm.
DavidG45 (Delaware)
Posts: 994
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MelissaP1 on 09/30/2022 3:46 PM
The HOA lawyer is not your lawyer. It is the HOA's. So no you do not need to talk to them.

Is this just the principle of the issue or have they done you actual harm?

She did say she was injured in the past. But I believe the idea of safety rules is to enforce them before harm is done. I’m not sure why you suggest it is t a big deal unless someone actually gets hurt.
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

I will read the documents again but from what I read there is a procedure which is a violation letter, a hearing committee, fines.
My community only gives out violation letters, they say they give out three of them. After the third one nothing is done. We have no hearing committee set up, they talked about it one time and I volunteered to do it. I believe our President said no violation has ever been serious enough to fine the person.
As for the president being involved in all of this. The property manager forwards emails to the President and he takes an action if he feels it is necessary. He has involved himself on his own. I believe all the emails I send in are given to him or he just monitors the email account.
Only some of his replies to me he has sent to the rest of the BOD.
Even if I send in the email to the property manager the president reads it and answers it.

As for the meetings, I have gone to some of them. When it comes to open forum there are say maybe 5 owners there that have an issue that they want discussed. So you can't have a lengthy discussion on an issue as others want to speak.
As far as the rules go it is in the rules that the rules can be amended by the BOD at any time. This is not brought up in any meetings, they just change them.
I will tell you we have under " disturbances" That no owner shall make of permit any noises that will disturb or annoy the occupants of any of the units, I chopped it short. The unit above me, I have complained about the noise from there for 5 years. So they changed the wording to say that if the noise could not be heard from outside the unit that it isn't a problem.

The basic violation letter states, this comes from my letter, It was brought to our attention that you are using your balcony/lani for storage. Please have the ladder removed immediately. I had put my ladder out there so the Maintenace man could fix a vent on the ceiling in the lani and I forgot to put it away. It was my error and I removed it right away.
The letter just says that they are trying to protect property values, maintain aesthetics of our neighborhoods and insure compliance with our community covents and restrictions.
There is nothing about what will be done if you don't comply. Nothing is said about fines or hearings.

I have been saving email,pictures. I plan on getting more pictures.

Thank you for all your advice and replying.

Could you tell me what document would have in it how long a term is for an officer like the president?
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

I will read the documents again but from what I read there is a procedure which is a violation letter, a hearing committee, fines.
My community only gives out violation letters, they say they give out three of them. After the third one nothing is done. We have no hearing committee set up, they talked about it one time and I volunteered to do it. I believe our President said no violation has ever been serious enough to fine the person.
As for the president being involved in all of this. The property manager forwards emails to the President and he takes an action if he feels it is necessary. He has involved himself on his own. I believe all the emails I send in are given to him or he just monitors the email account.
Only some of his replies to me he has sent to the rest of the BOD.
Even if I send in the email to the property manager the president reads it and answers it.

As for the meetings, I have gone to some of them. When it comes to open forum there are say maybe 5 owners there that have an issue that they want discussed. So you can't have a lengthy discussion on an issue as others want to speak.
As far as the rules go it is in the rules that the rules can be amended by the BOD at any time. This is not brought up in any meetings, they just change them.
I will tell you we have under " disturbances" That no owner shall make of permit any noises that will disturb or annoy the occupants of any of the units, I chopped it short. The unit above me, I have complained about the noise from there for 5 years. So they changed the wording to say that if the noise could not be heard from outside the unit that it isn't a problem.

The basic violation letter states, this comes from my letter, It was brought to our attention that you are using your balcony/lani for storage. Please have the ladder removed immediately. I had put my ladder out there so the Maintenace man could fix a vent on the ceiling in the lani and I forgot to put it away. It was my error and I removed it right away.
The letter just says that they are trying to protect property values, maintain aesthetics of our neighborhoods and insure compliance with our community covents and restrictions.
There is nothing about what will be done if you don't comply. Nothing is said about fines or hearings.

I have been saving email,pictures. I plan on getting more pictures.

Thank you for all your advice and replying.

Could you tell me what document would have in it how long a term is for an officer like the president?
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
My point is that so what if kids are riding skateboards outside if you aren't around them? It just makes you sound like a "Karen". There I said it.

Former HOA President
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Good Morning,

The thing is that the skateboarders have been skating around for quite some time now and when they violated the rule the parents were notified. Supposedly the parents spoke to them. The skateboarders have chosen to disregard the rule and what their parents told them. The skateboarders were told once again, but they chose not to comply with the rule or the parents.
You can't rely upon the skateboarders to do the right thing whether you are around them or not.
The skateboarders are also breaking the law. In Florida you are to wear a helmet if you are under 18 years of age and the law here states not to use skateboards on the sidewalk as well as bicycles, roller skates etc.
I could have gone to the authorities about this. You can get arrested for not using a skateboard properly. There are skateboard laws in Florida.
I decided to be nice and just report to the president here.

The reason it ended up being reported is because of injuries. I have an injury that is going to last me for life from the skateboarder, so I guess I am a Karen

My community has a variety of ages and there are alot of senior citizens here. The skateboarders have no respect for the elderly at all. A 93-year-old woman was coming out of her door, the skateboarders were skating through the hallway, scared the woman and she fell. It was reported.

So I guess we are all Karen's because we are looking out for our safety because no one else is.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
My point exactly. YOU are respsonsible for your OWN safety. Looking for someone else to do it going wait a long time and get their approach of resolution.

I always say if it wasn't for stupid people we would have no yield signs....

Former HOA President
DavidG45 (Delaware)
Posts: 994
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MelissaP1 on 10/01/2022 6:12 AM
My point exactly. YOU are respsonsible for your OWN safety. Looking for someone else to do it going wait a long time and get their approach of resolution.

I always say if it wasn't for stupid people we would have no yield signs....

So, kids are racing around on the sidewalks - against the HOA rules - and creating a dangerous situation. And your complaint is against the elderly people who fear for their safety and want the rules enforced.

I think we just found the mother of the skateboarders...
AugustinD
Posts: 1,027
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By DavidG45 on 10/01/2022 7:27 AM
Posted By MelissaP1 on 10/01/2022 6:12 AM
My point exactly. YOU are respsonsible for your OWN safety. Looking for someone else to do it going wait a long time and get their approach of resolution.

I always say if it wasn't for stupid people we would have no yield signs....


So, kids are racing around on the sidewalks - against the HOA rules - and creating a dangerous situation. And your complaint is against the elderly people who fear for their safety and want the rules enforced.

I think we just found the mother of the skateboarders...
lol and well said.

The OP is not a "Karen," whiner or anything else. The OP is doing everyone a favor by trying to ensure the rules are enforced. I applaud the OP. She's doing a great job of giving what's posted here due consideration and checking her COA's governing documents.

At this point though and based on a thread MelissaP1 started, I think many would call MelissaP1 a "Karen."
JohnT38 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,631
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By DavidG45 on 10/01/2022 7:27 AM
Posted By MelissaP1 on 10/01/2022 6:12 AM
My point exactly. YOU are respsonsible for your OWN safety. Looking for someone else to do it going wait a long time and get their approach of resolution.

I always say if it wasn't for stupid people we would have no yield signs....


So, kids are racing around on the sidewalks - against the HOA rules - and creating a dangerous situation. And your complaint is against the elderly people who fear for their safety and want the rules enforced.

I think we just found the mother of the skateboarders...

Sometimes Melissa is simply clueless. She often doesn't seem to absorb what is said in previous comments and can't see the underlying issue that is being discussed.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
Have you tried talking to the kids directly? I know this can be tricky and scary because too many kids these days behave like something out of a horror movie. But it is a start and if you start taking photos and show that to the parents, assuming you know where the kids live, that may be fix the problem. Be sure to document this, so your case is stronger should you wind up in court. As others have said however, you may have to prove actual harm, such as being knocked down and having to get stitches, but i hope it doesn't come to that that.

My front lawn used to be a magnet for kids playing on it and leaving trash and their toys and assorted junk on it until I got sick of it, and one day, I came outside and said to them " can you PLEASE not play on my lawn? The playground is that way. (Pointing to an area behind my home where the board installed a playset.)

I had to do this a few times, and some kids did roll their eyes and mumble under their breathes, but it worked. These days I'm sure I'm known as the crabby lady on the corner because of that- and confronting people who tried to stand around while their dogs tried to crap on my lawn. That doesn't happen as much anymore either.

I tried to approach them in a calm, firm but professional manner and I suspect the word got around. It also helped that some kids moved away or got older and began hanging out with friends!

Kids being kids, some don't know or were taught they have to share the environment with others, nor have they been called out on their behavior. Parents may think their kids aren't the problem until a neighbor says otherwise and shows them what the problem is. And no kid wants to be the only one punished- they may spill the tea on the other kids.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
AugustinD
Posts: 1,027
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By SheliaH on 10/01/2022 9:25 AM
Have you tried talking to the kids directly?
If this keeps kids from playing on my personally cared for lawn where yours truly actually does sit out and read in the peace and quiet now and then, then I have no problem with being assigned the descriptor "the crabby lady on the corner." Besides, I am going to be the one out there in a flash anytime a kiddo say falls and cuts open her or his head in a bike accident and is bleeding profusely or I see some adult stranger looking strangely at kids on my block.

But I would be a tad concerned about addressing kids directly from the perspective that the parents might file a Fair Housing complaint that I was harassing their kids; making the neighborhood hostile to kids; and so discriminating on the basis of familial status.

Just saying.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Perhaps Shelia didn't notice that wheeled devices are against the rules. There is no reason Pamela should "speak to the kids" given they already have injured her. The board prez also has spoken to the parents. Perhaps Shelia didn't notice the boards even skate in interior hallways!

But it's the BOARD that's at fault for not carrying out their duty to enforce the governing documents. Sadly, in Pamela's assn. the Board seems to have permitted the prez a lot of authority and the prez has been ineffective in enforcing the covenants & rules..

Read your bylaws, Pamela, about how to get rid of the president. Usually the Board can vote the president out of that office tho' he'd still be a director.

Meanwhile do not respond to or pay attention to Melissa. She seems to just want attention. And, as usual, she is wrong.

PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

I tried talking to the skateboarders which turned out badly. The two skateboarders went to the house of one of them and told mother what was going on. Needless to say the mother came and confronted me, just screamed at me. She threatened me also. She said for me not to speak to her child again and if I did she would take action to protect her child. This particular child I did not speak to.
We have a trash compactor that the sidewalk has a slight incline so the skateboarders would skate up to the wall then sit on the skateboard and push it down the sidewalk into the street.
This is the area that one of them came zooming by right in front of me causing me to lose my balance and fall. I got up , all I did was fall and that is when I told them it was not a proper place to play. Stinks something awful there, sidewalk is dirty from garbage.
I was in that area because I was walking my dogs and i had stopped to video my dog sniffing the flowers there. So when I spoke with the one skateboarder my camera was still on and recording them. The one that i spoke to told me I could not record her without her permission and I told her she was wrong that if you are outside in public anything or anyone can be recorded. That is the way I have to walk to take my dogs to the dog run. I don't know if you read this in another post but I walk with a cane and have a brace on my right leg to help my knee.
Talking to any offender does not work out, I have tried it more than once at the suggestion of others.
I want to thank you for offering your advice .
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

You have hit the nail on the head. I think I will read those again. I just read them last night. Our elections are coming up and I talked three residents into running for president, vice president or treasurer. Well the current president said he still has a year on his term left and so does the vice president. I did not find that in writing in any of our documents that their term is 2 years. I sent a email to the property manager asking her about this. I also asked exactly what the procedure is for enforcing the rules and for violations. Knowing her she will forward it to the president. I must read about the elections also.
If there is no document associated with this community that says the term is 2 years I want to make him run for his position again. If that happens I pray he doesn't elected again.

Well thank you for your advice, very appreciatd.
LetA (Nevada)
Posts: 2,679
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Quote:
Posted By PamelaC8 on 10/01/2022 11:40 AM
Hello,

I tried talking to the skateboarders which turned out badly. The two skateboarders went to the house of one of them and told mother what was going on. Needless to say the mother came and confronted me, just screamed at me. She threatened me also. She said for me not to speak to her child again and if I did she would take action to protect her child. This particular child I did not speak to.
We have a trash compactor that the sidewalk has a slight incline so the skateboarders would skate up to the wall then sit on the skateboard and push it down the sidewalk into the street.
This is the area that one of them came zooming by right in front of me causing me to lose my balance and fall. I got up , all I did was fall and that is when I told them it was not a proper place to play. Stinks something awful there, sidewalk is dirty from garbage.
I was in that area because I was walking my dogs and i had stopped to video my dog sniffing the flowers there. So when I spoke with the one skateboarder my camera was still on and recording them. The one that i spoke to told me I could not record her without her permission and I told her she was wrong that if you are outside in public anything or anyone can be recorded. That is the way I have to walk to take my dogs to the dog run. I don't know if you read this in another post but I walk with a cane and have a brace on my right leg to help my knee.
Talking to any offender does not work out, I have tried it more than once at the suggestion of others.
I want to thank you for offering your advice .

Pamela, you may have to fight fire with a blowtorch. If your board is making s dangerous situation in your community, look to the lamplighter HOA lawsuit in Las Vegas.
Dangle that over the Boards head at a meeting see if they flinch.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Posted By AugustinD on 10/01/2022 9:36 AM
Posted By SheliaH on 10/01/2022 9:25 AM
Have you tried talking to the kids directly?
If this keeps kids from playing on my personally cared for lawn where yours truly actually does sit out and read in the peace and quiet now and then, then I have no problem with being assigned the descriptor "the crabby lady on the corner." Besides, I am going to be the one out there in a flash anytime a kiddo say falls and cuts open her or his head in a bike accident and is bleeding profusely or I see some adult stranger looking strangely at kids on my block.

But I would be a tad concerned about addressing kids directly from the perspective that the parents might file a Fair Housing complaint that I was harassing their kids; making the neighborhood hostile to kids; and so discriminating on the basis of familial status.

Just saying.

Well, I don't think most of the folks around here think that far ahead...and I know other folks had issues with kids running on their lawns or popping firecrackers in the middle of the night, although our community has rules prohibiting that AND the county has an ordinance saying the firecracker popping must cease around 10 pm. So I'd be inclined to tell Mom and Dad to "bring it" if they want to take that route.

Besides If I was really crabby, I would have called our security officer ( off duty cop) about this. I never did, but others djd on the kids that used to raise all the hell before they moved away. Our former president was also known to visit a few homes to chat with the parents. Usually they were happy for the heads up and peeved at the kids for being do rowdy, tge HOA president came calling. It was effective, so whatever works...

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Posted By KerryL1 on 10/01/2022 10:14 AM
Perhaps Shelia didn't notice that wheeled devices are against the rules. There is no reason Pamela should "speak to the kids" given they already have injured her. The board prez also has spoken to the parents. Perhaps Shelia didn't notice the boards even skate in interior hallways!

But it's the BOARD that's at fault for not carrying out their duty to enforce the governing documents. Sadly, in Pamela's assn. the Board seems to have permitted the prez a lot of authority and the prez has been ineffective in enforcing the covenants & rules..

Read your bylaws, Pamela, about how to get rid of the president. Usually the Board can vote the president out of that office tho' he'd still be a director.

Meanwhile do not respond to or pay attention to Melissa. She seems to just want attention. And, as usual, she is wrong.


Oh, I'm well aware there are rules, just like in my neighborhood. Frankly, if I'd gotten injured and knew where the kids lived, I would have already sued the association and the parents. I would have also talked to a few neighbors to see if they'd also come thisclose to being run over by some kid wanting to be in the next X Games on ESPN.

Chalk up my direct contact to my parents and where I grew up. Those were the days where if you did something and your neighbors saw it, your parents were prepared to great you with an ass whooping when you hit the door. Eventually we kids figured not to do stuff around certain homes because we knew the residents wouldn't keep their mouth shut. Whatever works.

My mother is in her late 90s and before she got sick, she still would come outside and tell people about themselves. It's truly a miracle neither she nor I have been cussed out or worse (because you don't know who's packing these days or what they've been ingesting).

All of that said, I agree with you about the president. It may be she's tried talking to the parents and it didn't go well. What she should have done after that is talk to a board and they should have. called in all the parents for a come to Jesus meeting. After that, tell the neighbors of the importance of documenting and reporting rule violations by anyone regardless of age, establish a fining schedule if the law allows, and go from there.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Appreciate you supporting Pamela, Shelia. She reported that the prez did talk to the parents, but I so agree with you that the board needed to call the parents (if they're owners) to a board meeting for disciplinary action as allowed by the documents & state law.

(I grew up in a west-central lower income LA neighbor and parents did speak out to poor-behaving kids & report to the kids' parents, too.)

Pamela, wonks elect directors on the board or board members. Often the term for board members is two years. Your Bylaws will tell you.Then, the "new" board elects officers, i.e., prez, V.P etc. Owners do NOT elect officers. Often the Bylaws say these officers serve for 1 year.

You're in a difficult situation where the Board of Directors apparently refuses to take action against the owners of the property where these violating kids live. And, you also do not seem to have read much of the documents you signed when you bought your home. Perhaps you have a friend in the assn who can help you under stand the correct way to enforce rules and to hold elections.

Otherwise, as others have suggested, you might have to take legal action, which will be very expensive.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Wait, wait. You say, Pamela, a that open forum at board meetings have too many who talk too much or something like that. All you need to do at open forum is to ask the Board the Following: "When will you start enforcing the rule against no skateboarding, etc., except in the parking lot?" No details, but pass around your dated pictures of the violators if possible.

Do not ask the prez, the PM or any individual director. Question the entire board. Do not refer to the age of the violators.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Me & my typos. Pamela: Owners elect directors (but not officers).
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Are your streets/sidewalks public? If so, then this is a police matter not an HOA one necessarily. It may be that they don't need to put in a restriction for not doing it on sidewalks/roads if it is already a city/county law that exists. The HOA could have made an exception to allow the kids to use the parking lot instead. That would make more sense on why they are allowed to use the parking lot. It also make sense the parking lot isn't a great venue for skateboarding. So the kids take to the streets.

Also if the kid injures you while on a skateboard then you sue the kid/parents for the damages. It could be covered in your homeowners insurance policy. I would not assume it's the HOA fault. They allow for skateboarding in a parking lot. So if your in the parking lot and this happens then it's even more not the HOA fault. Your in the area of which it is allowed.

Former HOA President
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Good Morning,

I read all the documents and there is nothing in the by-laws about a two-year term, it says elected annually which I take is every year. The president said that he and the vice president still had a year to go on their term. I find nothing in any document.
I searched through the documents for this information because I have asked people to run for office on the board and I was hoping to find out if this was actually true. I would think that how long their term was would be in one of the documents?
I sent the property manager asking her about this and was I missing a document. Of course, being the weekend, I would not get an answer and I may not get an answer anyway. She has been called on the carpet a few times for not answering emails or phone messages. The president plans on having a discussion with her today about my new windows so she may not answer me for awhile.
I do not know if the president informed the rest of the board as to what is going on with the skateboarders either.

Thank you for your help and advice.
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Good Morning,

The president has stated that he has enforced the rule. The parents were sent letters and he said he spoke with the parents.
He told me the incident was closed as far as the skateboarders are concerned. They are in compliance with the rule.
After those actions were taken I reported the skateboarders again. The president then said I was sending in emails about old issues, rehashing it and this was unproductive.
So I am taking it as he will not do anything further about the skateboarders. I told him if you are compliant with the rule that means all the time, to reoffend means that the skateboarders are not in compliance, so it is another violation to which another letter should be sent.

The president has also told me that the procedure is three letters after that it is a fine which he states he has never fined anyone and hopes not to for violations.

Thats a great idea and I tried yesterday to get some pictures but the skateboarders are aware of where they should be using the skateboards and the oldest one, the instigator, kept watching me to see where I was. I realized she knew so I left the area. The father of the oldest one told me she is gifted so that skateboarder is very very smart. It is going to take awhile before I can get pictures.

Now because I have reported these skateboarders I feel the president is picking on me. I guess he was going thru my file and he told me that I needed to fill out an application for my new windows.
My windows were installed 7 weeks ago.
I made sure I followed procedure and I got an application from property manager, filled it out and gave it to her. I got a notice of approval in the regular mail stating I could put in the new windows. I have that notice.
I think she lost my application because the day the window company came I had an issue with the parking. I had told the guys where to park, in my assigned spot. One guy parked in the spot next to me to get equipment off of his truck and then move it. The maintenance man came by and told them to move. I emailed the property manager telling her all about it and she asked if I had filled out an application.
So I think she may have lost it, I guess it never got into my file. The president is going to discuss this with her today.

As I said I feel he is picking on me now. Looking for things to pick at.
I have to tell you all the president monitors my email to the property manager, he has stated I send in too many emails. That be so but if he enforced the rules I wouldn't send them in.
At one meeting the vice president said the owners should report people, so I do. This year I have sent in over 100 emails. They have all been about violations.
Some of these violations I report to the city after I reported them to property manager because nothing was done. There are quite a few military that live here and they get preferential treatment.

Well thank you for your advice and help.

JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Pam

If you have sent over 100 violation notices so far this year, might I suggest you have to much time on your hands.
JohnT38 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,631
Posted:
A 100 violation reports in 10 Months? Are you walking around looking for violations? If so, why?
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
The truth is in the details of the lack there of ...

Former HOA President
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

I just happen on those violations, I am out walking my dogs when I see them.

Thanks.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By PamelaC8 on 10/03/2022 8:53 AM
Hello,

I just happen on those violations, I am out walking my dogs when I see them.

Thanks.

So out walking your dogs and you keep playing the I am handicapped card. Are they tied to your walker/wheelchair?
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

I am out walking my dogs when I see the violations. Let me say that I may send in maybe 6 emails about the same violation. I know it doesn't sound too good they are not all different violations.
We have a lani here that is loaded with things that are not supposed to be there. Our rule states patio furniture and plants, you can not use it as storage.
Well this lani has a big sofa , kayak, two vacumn cleaners, two tents, trampoline, fishing pole to name a few there are more items. I reported it 7 months ago and another two residents also reported it.
I was told they were sent a letter. Okay two months go by and the lani looks worse. So another email is sent in for violation. I have sent a total of four emails about this including pictures, so have the other residents and the lani is stil with all those items and more on it.
This is why I sent in so many emails for all the violations.
I was kind of working for the property manager on a few violations, she asked me to take pictures of what the residents were doing and send them in with an email, so I did.
Little people swimming in the pool, no adults in sight.
There is a resident here that uses his grill right in his garage doorway, which is a violation. He has oxgen tanks in his garage doorway also. To me that is kind of dangerous.

I don't want you all to think I walk around looking for violations, I don't.

I said earlier the vice president wants residents to report violations but then when you do all you get his complaints.

Thanks
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

Handicapped people can do alot of things and walking is one. I am not using my walker right now I walk with a cane and I have a brace on my right leg. The cane is in my right hand and the dogs leashes are in the other hand.

I am not playing at being handicapped, I am and I also have Parkinson's.

thanks
AugustinD
Posts: 1,027
Posted:
PamelaC8, just saying: I think a huge faction here agrees that you have the right to have the covenants and rules enforced.

Had the disparaging remarks being made here about your handicaps been made by a director or manager at your HOA, they would be the stuff of a very viable fair housing complaint, IMO. I am sorry these remarks are appearing here. Being seventy years old should have been enough to tell these posters to lay off any assertion that you are getting around the grounds like a competitive marathoner or sprinter instead of the senior citizen you are.

I appreciate your trying to enforce the rules and covenants. I would welcome you as my neighbor.
KerryL1 (California)
Posts: 14,550
Posted:
Pamela wrote: "The president has stated that he has enforced the rule. The parents were sent letters and he said he spoke with the parents.
He told me the incident was closed as far as the skateboarders are concerned. They are in compliance with the rule. After those actions were taken I reported the skateboarders again. The president then said I was sending in emails about old issues, rehashing it and this was unproductive."

"Enforcing the rule" would involve the Board or a committee fining the owners of the units (In this case) where the boarders live. So the prez doesn't seem to know what he's talking about.

If your HOA is a corporation--most are--it's also required that there be an "articles of incorporation," which also is a governing document. Find it and it might state how many directors there should be and how long this terms are.
PamelaC8 (Florida)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Hello,

Thank you. It is very hard to try and help everyone stay safe. I want everyone to enjoy themselves but you cannot do it at someone elses expense.

Thanks again, you should be one of my neighbors. I thank everyone on here for their advice. It has been very helpful.

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