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Posted By KerryL1 on 01/29/2022 7:34 PM
Mike, so that other readers and I do not misunderstand, what "emergency" are you talking about with reference to amending your CC&Rs?
In CA, assn. boards may make emergency "rules" (not CC&r amendments) online if all directors consent and avoid the usual 4-days posted notice. thus our board closed our gym quite some time ago with an emergency rule. And we reopened it also with an emergency rule. That way, we did not have to wait 4 days to provide a posted agenda to re-open the gym
Your already wrote that "I'm not going to debate politics here. In my experience that does not change anyone's mind." But you did not tell the truth, Mike. You did later express your opinions about politics & policies, which are, in fact debatable. You lied to us. In my very long experience with humans, people lie when their persuasive truthful tool box is nearly empty.
KerryL1: You are correct. I misspoke. The āemergencyā I was referencing in regards to rules changes is in our Association Bylaws, not the CCRs. Please excuse my error in referring to the CCRs. And Iāll concede I could have explained my use of the word emergency better. Our Bylaws state, āThe Board shall provide written notice of a proposed rule change to the Members at least thirty (30) days before making the rule change. . . . Notice is not required under this Article if the Board determines that an immediate rule change is necessary to address an imminent threat to public health or safety or imminent risk of substantial economic loss to the Master Association; and in such event, the Board may make an emergency rule change.ā It goes on to say an emergency rule can only be effective for 120 days unless the Board chooses a shorter effective period. Iām told by others in our community that this is a fairly standard provision for HOAs, although the wording may vary.
This is the emergency I was referring to. I also provided some health department data on hospitalizations in our county to provide context for our situation here and the proposed rule change. The data indicates that hospitalizations and deaths in our county are extremely low and deaths are essentially zero. And before you jump on me again, thatās not to minimize the tragedy of any personās death. So the statement I made, āThis doesnāt sound like an emergency to me,ā was an opinion based on the government data and not a political statement.
Now letās talk about your inflammatory statement accusing me of lying to everyone. All I can say is, Wow! I was hoping for more civility and intelligence in this forum. I hope I wasnāt wrong. You tried to bait me earlier in this discussion and I stated, āIām not going to debate politics here.ā That is a 100% truthful statement. I think you need to examine and study the definitions of ādebateā and ālieā or ālying.ā The word debate refers to a process of discourse on a particular topic in which arguments are put forth, usually in support (or opposition) of opposing viewpoints. I said I didnāt want to debate politics, i.e., mandatory vaccines or Democrat/Republican policies. The purpose of the post was to explore how other HOAs are dealing with the issue of āvaccine passportsā to use the common facilities. That doesnāt mean that Iām barred from voicing an opinion or mentioning a politician when it adds context to the discussion of HOA issues. You certainly have the right to disagree with me, but you donāt object to a particular thing I said or explain exactly why you think I lied. You simply threw your spears at me. I can only guess what triggered you. Itās fine to disagree with me. Just provide your comment and explain why you think differently. I never said you couldnāt do that.
You seem to be looking for a boogie man under every bed. You should be more careful with your rhetoric. Accusing someone of lying or being a liar are fighting words. I wonder if youāre so comfortable condemning someone because weāre on a social media platform. I wonder if youād have the courage to accuse me of lying face-to-face. You don't know me or know my intent. Do you even know what a lie is? Perhaps the article in the following link will enlighten you.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-nature-deception/201905/what-is-lie
As far as lying goes, I was not trying to deceive you or manipulate you, therefore itās not a lie. I was merely trying to focus the discussion on HOA rules and regulations when you seemed to want to argue about politics.
You strike me as one of those people who thinks they are right all the time, and therefore youāve earned the right to castigate anyone else who says something you donāt like. Thatās trying to intimidate or bully people and itās just sad. Iād like to think youāre a better person than that. Maybe what we need is a beer summit. Iām quite sure we could find some common ground.