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Posted By KathyA3 on 07/15/2021 10:00 AM
I sit on a HOA board and since we have been on the board, there has been consistent harassment from a particular group of members. Harassment has consisted of attempted officer removal for no cause, petitions brought to change bylaws that are unenforceable (lawyer opinion), request for financial info without proper purpose. Accusations of secret board meetings (not happening), emails sent to board with accusations- BCC to entire membership. Refusal of committee heads (2) to communicate respectfully to members. Refusal from this group to speak to Treasurer/assistant. Spreading rumors to the membership that the board is going to sue them (not true). How do I know when enough is enough and what recourse do I have as a board member. Even with all of this, we continue to have accomplishments in the sustainabilty of the HOA. We are located in Virginia. Thank you for any info you can provide.
Our attorney refers to these folks as "vocational dissidents", most communities have them, and HOA boards are a favorite target.
Right now this group is in control, and the board needs to take back control of the interactions. Your job will be to discredit them, and fortunately they will discredit themselves if you play your cards right. Your main weapons are transparency and controlled communications.
* Make it obvious that the board and committees are doing everything by the book (and clean up your acts if you need to). A website and regularly published newsletter will be very helpful, since the rest of the community can see that the complainers are spreading wrong information. Toot your horns regularly about all of the good things that are happening. But avoid social media or interactive sites like the plague since it will give the bad actors a platform - if they want to spread their nonsense around, they can do it on their own dime and their own time. All HOA communications should be one way, informational only.
* You'll also need to change how you interact with this group. They're looking for conflict, controversy and drama - don't give it to them. Your communications with them need to be brief, factual, and the most boring communications in the history of the world. No back and forth arguing, no explaining. They want info, you provide it, done. Changing how you communicate can take some doing, but it's important. If you don't allow them to suck you into their drama nine times in a row but you slip on the tenth time, you've just shown them that they have to act up ten times to get what they want.
When we were dealing with our group, I created some short, bland and boring scripts for us to use as needed. We board members and PM often reviewed these to keep them fresh in our minds. The main trick was to never get pulled into unscripted interactions. Any association business was communicated through official channels only. If I'd bump into one of these folks in the community, it was "hey, how are you, oh is that the time, gotta run". It took us about a year and a half before the group finally gave up, but they did calm down.