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MicheleT3 (Ohio)
Posts: 2
Posted:
Hi all - we took over our HOA from the builder a few months back and since we decided on board roles the same night of our one and only annual meeting, I put up my hand and volunteered to be President. In my mind, I have managed projects for 25 years so this would be a great new project, but what I didn't consider was home immersed I am in a paying full-time job vs a full-time job that never yields any monetary reward. I also expected the other 4 board members to be as eager as myself and take ownership, dig in their heels and be go-getters. What I have found is that 2 are basically silent non-doers and one is as eager as myself, and the Treasurer is finally stepping up, still, 2 are non-participating.

All this said, no one else on the board wants to hire a management company to help us get everything officially setup, operating, reporting, sharing information, etc and I cannot carry the burden to be responsible for all of it SO as the President, I do not want to resign, however I do not want to remain as President, but would like to serve in another capacity. Has anyone successfully made a move such as this? Please share insight! I was thinking about dropping a hint about this tomorrow in our HOA meeting but not an official resignation.

Thank you in advance!
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MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Been there and done that. Was working a full time job (4 10's), Part-Time job (A few hours a day), and going to college on the weekends. Not counting a few volunteer projects. Was also our President of the HOA. Pretty much the only POC most of the time. Had one or two "active" board members come and go.

I think what needs to happen here is a change of perspective on your part. It's going to sound awful to some but those whom have gone through this understand. You basically have to "live and breath" President if your going to be President. You can't just think "someone else" will do the job etc... Your job is to make that "bigger fish" to want your job.

If your not in the mind space that is going to be a "life style", then need to step away altogether. This isn't the volunteer job for you. You need to be in it to win it. Your never going to be satisfied as a "player" if your mindset is the "coach".

So you want a management company? Do the work to get one. Find 3 bids and the costs. Find a way to get it in the budget. Yes, it may raise dues but is it worth it? I ran our HOA without one. All we had was an Accountant. (Who was our Treasurer). They collected the checks and wrote them. Also sometimes ran "middleman" on some situations.

Exam truly why you want or need an MC. If it is really a need, then should be able to convince others to follow. If it's just a want so not bothered with doing the job, then it's never going to go through.

Accept the responsibility. Just like "Spiderman", With great power comes great responsibility. Are you responsible person or not?

Former HOA President
MicheleT3 (Ohio)
Posts: 2
Posted:
Thank you for the insight MelissaP1. In my case it was a matter of expectations vs reality, I believe that if you 'volunteer' for a position, no matter what it is, you will actually "do" something, be of value, be a contributor. In one of our early meetings when I delegated a task to our MAL, she stated "I don't want to do anything, I said that when I signed up", it really threw me off. CEOs get paid for their time, ambition, energy, and leadership. I am expected to be the deliverer of all things, and have people like our MAL never offer her time, but always offer up suggestions on how I can do better or why we shouldn't do something (like hire a mgmt company). I did get bids for a management company and presented them, but the board doesn't want to spend the money.

The reality in my case is my own issue, I don't set myself up for failure and I see it coming in the future due to lack of planning, ability, knowledge, team cohesion, culturally diverse thinking and so I want to lower my contribution, or expectation thereof, to better align with what is now in my lap. I want to contribute, but I am one person and I can't do it all. We are a new HOA and I don't have the knowledge on proper protocols to ensure everything is done correctly, timely, and legally. That is where I thought the other 4 members would step up.

I appreciate the reply as I have been thinking on this subject for weeks. Knowing all of the things we are trying to implement and crack down on and thinking to myself, just exactly who will be responsible for ensuring the follow-through occurs, let alone "who" will own each of the items that must be tracked.

If we were a HOA of 5-10 units, I would not have the issues I am facing. Rather, we are 67 units, and 2 of the volunteers don't even live in the neighborhood (which we didn't know at the time of role assignment) so those 2 people are not present to actively contribute, and the 3 of us that do live here are 2 doers and 1 do-less. Am I venting? Maybe but I genuinely want to remain a part of the board, but with lesser responsibility. I will respect someone all day that can say that, as opposed to taking on the responsibility and underdelivering on their promises and expectations.

I am still looking for a way to stay in the game and be a contributor. I am happy to SUPPORT the Spiderman that steps up!
BenA2 (Texas)
Posts: 1,273
Posted:
I am in a similar position in that I don't want to be president but no one is willing to take it over. A consolation in our HOA is that we have five committees that are chaired by board members and the president cannot chair a committee. The result is that I do a lot less work than the board members who chair committees.

It might help you to realize that the president is not the manager and not the boss. You run the meetings, not the HOA, and are the spokesperson for the board. You have the same authority as every other board member.
KellyM3 (North Carolina)
Posts: 2,239
Posted:
Yes, Michele, you can certainly resign as a board officer and stay on the board based on the circumstances you describe. Your remaining officers can, and should, step forward to embrace the self-management philosophy that you can no longer manage directly OR be willing to split the responsibilities across the board of directors (as it's the board that wants to self-manage).

I would not not drop any hints. I would address the concerns as a business matter because it is a business operations discussion from the perspective of the HOA organization. You can't worry about the HOA and you certainly are under no requirement to allow HOA volunteerism to consume a large part of your days and identity. My opinion on this separates me from others offering advice on this forum so this is subjective.

Election to the board of directors is different than being selected as the President once the election is completed.
MichaelS56 (Minnesota)
Posts: 858
Posted:
As a Board President, I have delegated tasks to the different Board members to be responsible for and to report on. None of our Boar members are chairs of committees but instead our Board members are liaison to committees. They do not have a voting power but are expected to report back what is happening in the committees.

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