Catch 22 in California

Our's is a 55+ condo community in California. In addition to other exceptions to the 55+ requirement for residents, California law states that spouses and registered domestic partners under age 55 may reside in 55+ communities. We have couples who have stated that they are married, even though they have different last names. Since this is not unusual, we do not require that they provide a copy of their marriage license. If we require domestic partners to provide a copy of their state registration, we could be charged with discrimination since we don't require copies of marriage licenses. Should we just not require documentation from anyone or should we require documentation from everyone? This is an issue because we're in Palm Springs, with a population that is estimated at 45% gay and lesbian.

Would it make a difference if there is only a couple(2)living in the home? What if I move in with my friend of 5 years and we had been living somewhere, together, as a couple, before, that did not consider these laws. We are not registered with the state as domestic partners. I don't think that any law will remove me from that property unless you request documentation. Then try to enforce it..

I don't think the intent of this law was for you to require documentation of either, spouse or domestic partners. Although registered does give you an out if the HOA wants to get technical. I would be careful and tread lightly on this one.