I never attended a conference.
Our attorney used to have yearly workshops with their HOA/COA clients to go over the new legislation.
I found those very informative.
I offer the following to aid you in learning more:
Best Practices Reports from the Foundation for Community Association Research
The Educational Community for Homeowners (Echo) Mainly CA but good info
Community Association Guide Virginia based, but good general info
Subject: New Board Member Training or resources? Thread on this forum. Scroll down and look at the attachments provided by Barbara.
Some words of advice for any board member:
To me, the key issue is to try not to take things personally, it may simply be the way the other person knows how to express their frustration. Try to look at things from the other person's perspective (heck we have all been there). It might not change your way of thinking but it may help you better explain your thinking to others. Do research. It's better to say, let me look into this, then to respond with an off the cuff answer that you may have to retract or try to defend.
Also, one thing I learned in the military, there may be many ways to achieve the same goal and if your willing to listen someone may have a better way.
Hope this helps,
Tim