SC (Georgia)
Posts: 38
Posts: 38
Posted:
The Board which I serve on recently passed a rule stating that "no one who incontinent or not toilet trained may use the pool; "diapers and swim diapers are not permitted." One of our Board members, who introduced the motion, provided a written synopsis from our HOA atty stating that the rule would not violate the Fair Housing Act because it banned every age group that was incontinent, not just children. He shared this with the Board and individual pool committee members. The Board member then spoke to this at our Annual Meeting.
I brought up to the Board/pool committee that extensive research of case law and written opinions by various law firms suggested otherwise. The Board President wrote me a stern letter which personally chastised me, then stated that the atty had thoroughly reviewed the rule and it was her opinion that the rule is in full compliance with all Fair Housing Act rules. He asked me to forward the letter to all pool committee members and anyone else that I may have discussed the subject with.
As the board member in charge of the pool committee, I contacted our HOA atty to confirm her opinion. She told me that at NO time had she stated that such a rule was in compliance with all Fair Housing Act Rules and Regulations, that she had consistently cautioned this board member against such a rule, her recommendation has always been to allow children and/or adults to swim so long as anyone not toilet trained or who was incontinent is required to use swim diapers or swim pants, and that this Board member was fully aware of her opinion. She confirmed all of this in writing to the entire Board.
The response from the Board President was to scream at me in the Board meeting (which is closed to residents), tell me that I had no authority to speak to the atty and was never to contact her again without permission from him(we have a retainer which allows any Board member to contact the atty and there is no written policy on contacting the atty), that I was to state unequivocally to the pool committee members that I have no knowledge of any discrimination by any member of the Association, and if I didn't, he would ask for my resignation. I was not a team player.
Help! Since other Board members have been misrepresenting the atty to the pool committee, is it OK for me to share with them what the atty's real written opinion is? And how is the most professional way to do this? I want to be a responsible Board member!
I brought up to the Board/pool committee that extensive research of case law and written opinions by various law firms suggested otherwise. The Board President wrote me a stern letter which personally chastised me, then stated that the atty had thoroughly reviewed the rule and it was her opinion that the rule is in full compliance with all Fair Housing Act rules. He asked me to forward the letter to all pool committee members and anyone else that I may have discussed the subject with.
As the board member in charge of the pool committee, I contacted our HOA atty to confirm her opinion. She told me that at NO time had she stated that such a rule was in compliance with all Fair Housing Act Rules and Regulations, that she had consistently cautioned this board member against such a rule, her recommendation has always been to allow children and/or adults to swim so long as anyone not toilet trained or who was incontinent is required to use swim diapers or swim pants, and that this Board member was fully aware of her opinion. She confirmed all of this in writing to the entire Board.
The response from the Board President was to scream at me in the Board meeting (which is closed to residents), tell me that I had no authority to speak to the atty and was never to contact her again without permission from him(we have a retainer which allows any Board member to contact the atty and there is no written policy on contacting the atty), that I was to state unequivocally to the pool committee members that I have no knowledge of any discrimination by any member of the Association, and if I didn't, he would ask for my resignation. I was not a team player.
Help! Since other Board members have been misrepresenting the atty to the pool committee, is it OK for me to share with them what the atty's real written opinion is? And how is the most professional way to do this? I want to be a responsible Board member!