AnnS12 (Wisconsin)
Posts: 67
Posts: 67
Posted:
We are a small 56 unit HOA. We have a 5 person board. Our president quit by sending an e-mail to all owners stating I quit. I'm sick of this B***S***.
He had become toxic over the past year as president. Before being president, he was member at large. He got the presidents job as our treasurer and secretary,(myself) are handicapped and didn't feel capable of checking owners concerns physically. Our other 2 members, 1 is gone 1/2 to warmer climate. The other works long hours and didn't want the responsibility.
As president his strategy is to belittle the rest of board, calling them liars, refusing to accept motions, name calling, etc. Must have an anger management problem We had reached the point of possibly removing him as president when he quit. In June our Treasurer died and he stated he didn't want to be president next year, he wanted to be treasurer and so he took over the books.
He was asked when projects came up if we had the money and his response was yes.
Since he quit we have added a new treasurer and found we are almost broke for the year. Over budget in many areas and will not be able to complete some contracted items.
We will make do until the end of the year but now he has taken to writing almost daily e-mails to all unit owners. Here is his last one.
I would like to thank my friends for the kind words, the thank you and congratulations when I resigned from the board.
I know that some of you were truly saddened to see that I had resigned but after nearly 2 years I had enough. Especially when the one person I thought was a friend turned on me for something that was none of their business. That really hurt.
Out of all of the ex-board members that I had talked to none of them left the board happy. Especially when they worked with some certain board members who's names I won't mention. But I'm sure you already know.
Again I would like to say thank you.
Believe me no one on the board was sorry to see him leave.
The one before this was questioning why some work wasn't completed.
We have ignored his e-mails.
One of the large contracts we completed this year was many tree and shrub replacements. When we were compiling the list of these items, the ex president requested new shrubs around his deck.
As we only replace dead or dying bushes his request was denied. Believe me he wasn't happy. He then proceeded to ask the contractor to replace his bushes at his own expense and bill him
today he called the contractor and stated he won't pay for them.
As a board we have decided that we will not pay this. The contract was between him and the contractor, but we are sure he will be sending more e-mails to all owners.
I feel we should discuss at our board meeting and state in the minutes that a past board member contracted to have work done is now refusing to pay, No names mentioned but it should be pretty obvious.
We have not told anyone about his behavior, but our Annual meeting is in 2 weeks and we are pretty sure he will be disruptive.
We have now added rules regarding behavior to our rules and regulations.
Board members and residents shall not engage in any abusive or harassing
behavior, either, verbal, written or physical, or any form of intimidation or aggression directed
at other members, residents, guests, or vendors.
Everyday it's some new drama.
We didn't want to disclose his behavior to owners but how do we handle all this. We do not have a private e-mail system and as president he has everyone's e-mail so we can't stop him from sending e-mails.
He had become toxic over the past year as president. Before being president, he was member at large. He got the presidents job as our treasurer and secretary,(myself) are handicapped and didn't feel capable of checking owners concerns physically. Our other 2 members, 1 is gone 1/2 to warmer climate. The other works long hours and didn't want the responsibility.
As president his strategy is to belittle the rest of board, calling them liars, refusing to accept motions, name calling, etc. Must have an anger management problem We had reached the point of possibly removing him as president when he quit. In June our Treasurer died and he stated he didn't want to be president next year, he wanted to be treasurer and so he took over the books.
He was asked when projects came up if we had the money and his response was yes.
Since he quit we have added a new treasurer and found we are almost broke for the year. Over budget in many areas and will not be able to complete some contracted items.
We will make do until the end of the year but now he has taken to writing almost daily e-mails to all unit owners. Here is his last one.
I would like to thank my friends for the kind words, the thank you and congratulations when I resigned from the board.
I know that some of you were truly saddened to see that I had resigned but after nearly 2 years I had enough. Especially when the one person I thought was a friend turned on me for something that was none of their business. That really hurt.
Out of all of the ex-board members that I had talked to none of them left the board happy. Especially when they worked with some certain board members who's names I won't mention. But I'm sure you already know.
Again I would like to say thank you.
Believe me no one on the board was sorry to see him leave.
The one before this was questioning why some work wasn't completed.
We have ignored his e-mails.
One of the large contracts we completed this year was many tree and shrub replacements. When we were compiling the list of these items, the ex president requested new shrubs around his deck.
As we only replace dead or dying bushes his request was denied. Believe me he wasn't happy. He then proceeded to ask the contractor to replace his bushes at his own expense and bill him
today he called the contractor and stated he won't pay for them.
As a board we have decided that we will not pay this. The contract was between him and the contractor, but we are sure he will be sending more e-mails to all owners.
I feel we should discuss at our board meeting and state in the minutes that a past board member contracted to have work done is now refusing to pay, No names mentioned but it should be pretty obvious.
We have not told anyone about his behavior, but our Annual meeting is in 2 weeks and we are pretty sure he will be disruptive.
We have now added rules regarding behavior to our rules and regulations.
Board members and residents shall not engage in any abusive or harassing
behavior, either, verbal, written or physical, or any form of intimidation or aggression directed
at other members, residents, guests, or vendors.
Everyday it's some new drama.
We didn't want to disclose his behavior to owners but how do we handle all this. We do not have a private e-mail system and as president he has everyone's e-mail so we can't stop him from sending e-mails.