LouH1 (Michigan)
Posts: 214
Posts: 214
Posted:
We have an entrenched board, does nothing, secretive, non transparent people have been there 14-22 years. I am new and want to change things a bit, but can see it will not be easy, if not impossible. I call homeowners to hear what they think of the community and board and what suggestions they might have etc. I get people who are thrilled I have taken the time to call and don't even know who the board members are and are happy and interesting to hear what is happening. I am talking to the community and the board very much dislikes me doing this. I have emailed many members and told them what is, basically NOT happening, with discretion and not use of names. Because the board has been doing things the way they want to for so long, that is, not listening to anyone, calling members names, ignoring complaints, with questionable conflicts of interest, stopped newsletters, let the website lapse for years, ignored landscaping etc. I have been told that I cannot email the community as a whole about anything anymore. They all agreed with this action and said at one point, I could not even call and talk with members of the community and I said I might have to speak with an attorney about that and they backed down slightly. I am not telling untruths, but saying what I, as a board member think (using the disclaimer that I am not representing the board with my views, that they can speak with other members about how they fell about the issues. I want to hear what the members of the community think and want in their neighborhood, after all I was elected by the community to make decisions and work for the good of the members. Yeah right.....looks impossible.
I fell like my hands have been tied and I cannot do much of anything. There are two bullies on the board and one wimp who always vote together again me and usually another woman who isn't dependable or consistent in her views). I am trying to change the dynamics of the board, but wonder what you would suggest I do. I have a survey I would like to present to the community asking how they feel about bylaws and what they think we as a board should do. I know at least 2 board members would absolutely have a fit if I sent this survey around as it addresses bylaws they themselves have violated. I wonder about my freedom of speech, but am not sure what I should do and need someone with some experience to either tell me it's a lost cause, or give me some encouragement and support and say what I am doing is ok and right. What suggestions do you have for me? I am alone......but have probably 20 community members who are supportive of my efforts. No where in the bylaws does it say I cannot speak by email to the community in a factual, honest way about what is happening. The board is afraid of the truth coming out and then they won't be able to continue their years of control with self benefit. But with no one knowing what is going on to even think about caring about it.....it seems hopeless.
thank you for your kind help in this matter.
I fell like my hands have been tied and I cannot do much of anything. There are two bullies on the board and one wimp who always vote together again me and usually another woman who isn't dependable or consistent in her views). I am trying to change the dynamics of the board, but wonder what you would suggest I do. I have a survey I would like to present to the community asking how they feel about bylaws and what they think we as a board should do. I know at least 2 board members would absolutely have a fit if I sent this survey around as it addresses bylaws they themselves have violated. I wonder about my freedom of speech, but am not sure what I should do and need someone with some experience to either tell me it's a lost cause, or give me some encouragement and support and say what I am doing is ok and right. What suggestions do you have for me? I am alone......but have probably 20 community members who are supportive of my efforts. No where in the bylaws does it say I cannot speak by email to the community in a factual, honest way about what is happening. The board is afraid of the truth coming out and then they won't be able to continue their years of control with self benefit. But with no one knowing what is going on to even think about caring about it.....it seems hopeless.
thank you for your kind help in this matter.