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SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
I don't know how many article links I've posted on this website lately, but when I find something that looks really useful, I like to pass it on (I do this a lot on my job).

Today's article discusses decision making and how organizations may want to consider how that's done in light of COVID-19. It was published in a business e-newsletter, but HOA associations are non-profit corporations (most of them) and they SHOULD be run like a business. It's not just about knowing your documents - there should be some exchanges on how to work effectively as a group, dealing with difficult people (the rest of the homeowners? That know it all who happens to be an officer???) or even the right and wrong way of writing emails (communication is everything).

We know this website exists because there's usually not much education given to new board members, and some of the old ones think they don't need it (and that kind of arrogance can lead to major mistakes). So I hope this one helps someone!

https://hbswk.hbs.edu/item/it-s-time-to-reset-decision-making-in-your-organization?cid=wk-rss


If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
JohnP47 (Washington)
Posts: 31
Posted:
Thanks Sheila. This article discounted After Action Review saying it was too difficult to do them well. Hm, I use them every chance I get, steal, or am allowed. They're easy.

Here's how I tweak it:

1. Recognize the chief value is regular times close to the event for each member to reflect on their contribution to the team's results. We do them right at the end of the meeting.

2. Begin with first attention to self. I start off with "one thing I did well that helped this meeting ... and "One thing I could do better for next time." And we go around to everyone. Not everyone "gets it" and might check out with "this was productive." Not an issue. The value is they offer their voice.

3. Deal with interactional points immediately. Around 2005 I must have first learned about what I relabeled After Meeting Review from reading the Army's Field Operations guide. Ready to try it out, I volunteered to facilitate the first meeting of a project team and included AMR. We stayed with the practice. Not much came up of note. Except twice.

Once we had not seen one another for a long time and spent about a 25% of our limited time (by mutual agreement) checking in. During AMR, T. said "we have just 90 minutes, and we spent 20 of those checking in." That's all, after that we checked in with a word or two. From 20 down to less than a minute.

The second time was much more serious. We were co-editing a document, and someone who had volunteered to take up a chunk of the drafting was having trouble finding the m-dash (—) keystroke combination on her Windows machine. It's a breeze on a Mac. During the meeting, we kidded around about it and carried on with the work. When her turn came to speak at the AMR, she said the kidding hurt her. She felt insecure about her writing and took the work as chance to grow, but the kidding left her doubting herself more. We all apologized and she accepted that. We cheered her work, how it helped, how good it was, etc. That was that, but without AMR we might never have known and she would have privately withdrawn into herself mumbling about her insensitive colleagues. That would have hurt the team because we had more challenges to address and needed everyone engaged.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
Posted:
Glad it was useful!

I think self-reflection on one's performance is always helpful. AS HOA board members we don't always get a chance to do this because we spend a lot of time putting out one fire after another. Maybe if people spent more time on interpersonal relationships and determine what they can bring to the table
and bring out the best in each other, instead of playing baby dictator, pulling stuff out of their behind and thinking it won't stink to high heaven - or just sitting there like a potted plant, waiting for it to be over so you can go back to staring at the boob tube, we'd avoid some of the drama you read about on this website.

And yes, that goes for the homeowners as well (that's where board members come from!)

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius

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