KennyA (Massachusetts)
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Posts: 5
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This is a small 2-unit only condo (upstairs and downstairs) with a backyard. The backyard itself is quite small, 1400sf. My neighbor (who owns the downstairs unit) wants to take 100sf at least of the common area backyard to build a deck for exclusive use. She is adamant that it be exclusive use since it's right outside her kitchen window. Her reasoning is that she's never seen us use the backyard (both units only moved in 7 months ago, mind you, and we're in New England which means we had a small window of 2 months to be outdoors amidst all the moving), and that it wouldn't be a big deal if she took 100sf of the 1400sf because we can just pay more into the HOA. The current split is 45% (her)/55% (us) and wants to amend the documents so that it becomes 50%/50%.
I'm pissed for several reasons, but want to know if there are any legal ways to prevent this from happening because our reasoning so far has just resulted in her saying:
1) She's not taking away anything from us, she's paying more into the HOA! And she's paying for the deck herself! The 5% HOA increase is basically $10/month for taking away 14% of the backyard. How in good conscience can someone think that is fair?
2) The assessed land value itself of both units and the backyard is $1.2million. The plot size is approx 4,500sf only. $10/month is peanuts. She thinks it is fair because she's "paying more to the HOA" since it's HOA land.
3) No encroachments allowed in common area unless both units say yes. This is not working because she keeps insisting on a compromise, our compromise is a shared deck that is lower, but she is unwilling to consider anything less than exclusive use, at all, because it's fair since she's paying more into the HOA.
4) We love this nook, it's sheltered, and a large permanent exclusive use structure will ruin the exterior look of the building. I have dreams and plans for this place, but none of it compares to her "dream of owning her own deck because there was one at her old place for 5 years".
How have people resolved such issues within the HOA? Not only is a deck going to be ugly (see attached screenshot of 3D model I sketched), her trying to claim common area for herself under the reasoning she "didn't think 100sf was going to be a big deal for an area right by her window" for peanuts makes me want to tell her to pound sand.
Any suggestions on how I can shut this down or suggestions on compromising? Amending the HOA percentages is not fair at all, in my opinion, but I'm not sure monetarily if anything else would be fair. Value of land perhaps?
I'm pissed for several reasons, but want to know if there are any legal ways to prevent this from happening because our reasoning so far has just resulted in her saying:
1) She's not taking away anything from us, she's paying more into the HOA! And she's paying for the deck herself! The 5% HOA increase is basically $10/month for taking away 14% of the backyard. How in good conscience can someone think that is fair?
2) The assessed land value itself of both units and the backyard is $1.2million. The plot size is approx 4,500sf only. $10/month is peanuts. She thinks it is fair because she's "paying more to the HOA" since it's HOA land.
3) No encroachments allowed in common area unless both units say yes. This is not working because she keeps insisting on a compromise, our compromise is a shared deck that is lower, but she is unwilling to consider anything less than exclusive use, at all, because it's fair since she's paying more into the HOA.
4) We love this nook, it's sheltered, and a large permanent exclusive use structure will ruin the exterior look of the building. I have dreams and plans for this place, but none of it compares to her "dream of owning her own deck because there was one at her old place for 5 years".
How have people resolved such issues within the HOA? Not only is a deck going to be ugly (see attached screenshot of 3D model I sketched), her trying to claim common area for herself under the reasoning she "didn't think 100sf was going to be a big deal for an area right by her window" for peanuts makes me want to tell her to pound sand.
Any suggestions on how I can shut this down or suggestions on compromising? Amending the HOA percentages is not fair at all, in my opinion, but I'm not sure monetarily if anything else would be fair. Value of land perhaps?