PaulM30 (B)
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I am the HOA President of a small 15 unit condo building. The board is comprised of myself, and 2 other board members, both of whom rent out their units and don't live in the building. To be clear, none of us wish to be on the board, but we have an extremely disinterested group of owners, and nearly 1/3rd of our units are rented out. I am solely president because nobody else would do it, and I want to protect my investment. I mention that detail just to set context.
We have one owner who has been a huge problem since the building was first constructed 10 years ago. He was the first owner, and has basically been in a state of constant dispute with everyone since Day 1. He has had literally dozens of run ins with various board members over the years, and is universally loathed by everyone in the building. Recently his behavior has escalated to leaving abusive notes on cars parked outside our building (it's a public street with no restrictions), and yelling and being generally abusive to anyone who talks in the hallway (he has a ground floor unit by the front door and mailboxes) regardless of time of day. I have explained to him multiple times that despite being on the board, I have no day to day responsibility for building maintenance, yet he persists on reporting problems with me and the other board members directly, which are ignored. Recently he has some water leaking into his unit from outside, so he sent 5 abusive emails to me, and then actually knocked on my door to complain that the management company were not responding quickly enough. He is openly racist, recently complaining in an email to all owners of 'a Mexican' he 'caught' walking in the alleyway behind our building, and told another owner (whose wife is from overseas) that we need to build a wall to keep all immigrants out (not to get political, but he is constantly referring to immigration, liberals, conspiracy theories etc). Numerous women, (including residents, visitors, dog walkers, mail deliverers) have complained of inappropriate comments, obvious leering, feeling unsafe around him, and constant references of a sexual nature. The most recent episode involved him yelling at a new renting couple (the women is 7 months pregnant) for making noise when moving in during the afternoon.
Basically, he exists in that gray area where he isn't openly breaking the law (I don't think) or making threats, but is making life a misery for everyone in the building. One former owner moved out because she didn't want to have to deal with him anymore, and other owners have spoken of entering and leaving via the garage rather than walk past his front door. He has never physically struck anyone, but gets very close when talking, particularly when he is yelling at someone. He is a truly awful human being, and I'm genuinely concerned that he is going to harm someone, or at the very least, a physical altercation could develop.
As an HOA, this is difficult to account for in regulations. Does anyone have suggestions of what we can do? Can we take out a restraining order? A lot of his behaviour is difficult to document or to fully describe on paper, and I doubt the police would be interested, so I'm at a loss on how we deal with him, but I want to figure out if we can do something formally to attempt to regulate his behavior.
We have one owner who has been a huge problem since the building was first constructed 10 years ago. He was the first owner, and has basically been in a state of constant dispute with everyone since Day 1. He has had literally dozens of run ins with various board members over the years, and is universally loathed by everyone in the building. Recently his behavior has escalated to leaving abusive notes on cars parked outside our building (it's a public street with no restrictions), and yelling and being generally abusive to anyone who talks in the hallway (he has a ground floor unit by the front door and mailboxes) regardless of time of day. I have explained to him multiple times that despite being on the board, I have no day to day responsibility for building maintenance, yet he persists on reporting problems with me and the other board members directly, which are ignored. Recently he has some water leaking into his unit from outside, so he sent 5 abusive emails to me, and then actually knocked on my door to complain that the management company were not responding quickly enough. He is openly racist, recently complaining in an email to all owners of 'a Mexican' he 'caught' walking in the alleyway behind our building, and told another owner (whose wife is from overseas) that we need to build a wall to keep all immigrants out (not to get political, but he is constantly referring to immigration, liberals, conspiracy theories etc). Numerous women, (including residents, visitors, dog walkers, mail deliverers) have complained of inappropriate comments, obvious leering, feeling unsafe around him, and constant references of a sexual nature. The most recent episode involved him yelling at a new renting couple (the women is 7 months pregnant) for making noise when moving in during the afternoon.
Basically, he exists in that gray area where he isn't openly breaking the law (I don't think) or making threats, but is making life a misery for everyone in the building. One former owner moved out because she didn't want to have to deal with him anymore, and other owners have spoken of entering and leaving via the garage rather than walk past his front door. He has never physically struck anyone, but gets very close when talking, particularly when he is yelling at someone. He is a truly awful human being, and I'm genuinely concerned that he is going to harm someone, or at the very least, a physical altercation could develop.
As an HOA, this is difficult to account for in regulations. Does anyone have suggestions of what we can do? Can we take out a restraining order? A lot of his behaviour is difficult to document or to fully describe on paper, and I doubt the police would be interested, so I'm at a loss on how we deal with him, but I want to figure out if we can do something formally to attempt to regulate his behavior.