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Posted By GeorgeS21 on 01/05/2020 12:52 PM
Shelia,
Is the neighbor who has issues, a troublemaker? I donât get the sense that they may simply be responding to this issue ...
I wasnât referring to the elderly man, but the person living below him whoâs DEMANDING the board do something. I fully understand his concern about the smell and everything else, but sometimes, looking at the situation with some amount of compassion is more effective instead of screaming lawsuit. Based on what Wayne has said, the elderly owner sounds like heâs too ill to address the issue at all and might not have the cognitive ability to even respond to a nastygram from an attorney, let alone a summons to appear in court. Then what can the board â or the neighbor - do?
This IS a sensitive situation and I agree there has to be a balance between the neighborsâ right to a clean environment without the stink and working with the man in resolving the problem because it appears he canât live on his own and doesnât have anyone to look in on him. At least try discussing this with the local department of aging â hopefully, youâll come across someone whoâs addressed these issues before and can provide some tips on approaching him. Maybe if someone acts as if they care about him, he, she or they can earn the manâs trust and then start working with him to address the problems. It may be this will eventually end up in court, but it may bode well for the association if they can show efforts were made to get the man some help before coming to this point.
If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius