RonaldW (South Carolina)
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Posts: 901
Posted:
A member was sent a violation letter concerning placing a pile of limbs and debris at curbside for collection a couple days before it was supposed to be placed out for collection. It was the standard, polite letter pointing out the violation, quoting the actual restriction, and asking her to rectify the situation and see that it doesn't happen in the future.
The day she received the letter she sent me an e-mail asking the date, time and location of the BOD meetings. She said she wanted to attend the meeting.
This is a lady who fought and won a lawsuit against the HOA concerning the design of her house. She seems to have "legal connections", she had the lawsuit moved to another county where she found a judge favorable to her position. Winning her lawsuit nearly bankrupted our association. This was a couple years ago. I suspect she feels she "owns" the HOA now, that she is "special" and can do what she pleases.
Our board meetings are not typically attended by members although they have occasionally come to address the board on issues and then left. It's a small association (134 members) with no MC and the board meetings are held at a board member's home (mine for now).
The questions:
If she comes to complain about her letter and then leaves, that's fine. If she wants to stay for the entire meeting must we let her?
We have some sensitive negotiations in progress with neighboring associations concerning maintenance of common areas. Must we allow her to stay and hear our discussion on these issues? We really don't want anything to get back to the other associations until we can present a united front.
We may need to discuss issues we are having with other members. How could we do that with her (or any other member) present?
If she must be allowed to stay for the entire meeting is she allowed to speak or must she just observe?
If she stays for the entire meeting do we just postpone any sensitive issues until another meeting? Call an "emergency meeting" later?
And finally, since the meeting is in my home, if she gets out of line, can I demand that she leave?
The day she received the letter she sent me an e-mail asking the date, time and location of the BOD meetings. She said she wanted to attend the meeting.
This is a lady who fought and won a lawsuit against the HOA concerning the design of her house. She seems to have "legal connections", she had the lawsuit moved to another county where she found a judge favorable to her position. Winning her lawsuit nearly bankrupted our association. This was a couple years ago. I suspect she feels she "owns" the HOA now, that she is "special" and can do what she pleases.
Our board meetings are not typically attended by members although they have occasionally come to address the board on issues and then left. It's a small association (134 members) with no MC and the board meetings are held at a board member's home (mine for now).
The questions:
If she comes to complain about her letter and then leaves, that's fine. If she wants to stay for the entire meeting must we let her?
We have some sensitive negotiations in progress with neighboring associations concerning maintenance of common areas. Must we allow her to stay and hear our discussion on these issues? We really don't want anything to get back to the other associations until we can present a united front.
We may need to discuss issues we are having with other members. How could we do that with her (or any other member) present?
If she must be allowed to stay for the entire meeting is she allowed to speak or must she just observe?
If she stays for the entire meeting do we just postpone any sensitive issues until another meeting? Call an "emergency meeting" later?
And finally, since the meeting is in my home, if she gets out of line, can I demand that she leave?
Ron
SC
SC