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BonnieG1 (Nebraska)
Posts: 1,186
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Some background. One couple owns a unit. This couple's brother-in-law owns another unit. The minor grandchildren of the couple who own a unit are staying in the brother-in-law's unit for about 6 days. The brother-in-law is not sleeping in the unit. Our current President thinks this is against our governing documents. Our governing documents state that units are not to be used for hotel or transient purposes. There is no charge for the children to stay in the unit and they are family not transients. I don't think that allowing these minors to stay in their uncle's unit without him present goes against our governing documents. The children's grandparents do check on the children frequently.

I am asking your opinion on this.
Our current President is a lawyer and I usually agree with her, but on this issue, I disagree with her.

Bonnie Gipson former President.

P.S. for those of you that happen to remember me, my cancer has been in remission for a little over two years, but I will never be getting back on the Board because I have too many "down" days. (arthritis, fibromyalge, trigeneaml neurolgia, in attention to lingering effects of the chemo treatment.
MarkM31 (Washington)
Posts: 494
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Even a lawyer needs to MYOB
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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As long as family and no rental monies, it is none of the BOD's business.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,062
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Bonnie,

Great News!

As for the opinion of your President, I think they are wrong.
MarkM19 (Texas)
Posts: 1,459
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Bonnie
How and the heck does this president know so much about the daily activities of these families? When you say minor children my thoughts go to ages that should not be left unattended. If you guys know so much about this family how old are the children? Sometimes you have to know when to hold them and know when to fold them. By the time she does anything they will be back in their respective houses and all the board will look like is nosey neighbors.
LetA (Nevada)
Posts: 2,679
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My advice, MYOB. If you press this issue, you will get sued for discriminating against the owners familial status. MYOB.
BonnieG1 (Nebraska)
Posts: 1,186
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Posted By MarkM19 on 05/20/2019 3:47 PM
Bonnie
How and the heck does this president know so much about the daily activities of these families? When you say minor children my thoughts go to ages that should not be left unattended. If you guys know so much about this family how old are the children? Sometimes you have to know when to hold them and know when to fold them. By the time she does anything they will be back in their respective houses and all the board will look like is nosey neighbors.

The president lives next to the unit the family is staying in. I learned tonight that the mother is staying with the children.

The Board Meeting was quite contentious tonight. People were calling the Board a gestapo and basically that we should not have to follow the rules. They were also upset about executive sessions. I tried to explain that there is a privacy issue. Also the Board meets with the Association Lawyer in executive session.

The man and his wife had his wife speak. His wife spoke and spoke and spoke repeating herself many times. She was upset with the Board of which her husband is Vice President. This Vice President was acting like the President giving people permission to speak and telling people to wait to speak. In my opinion this issue could have been handled by the Board in an executive session. This couple did not need to "stir the pot." Much incorrect information was presented and I could not let this pass. I corrected much correct information. One couple said they felt unwelcome (their children had forced the to move here ) since day one. I felt like telling them if they had not tried to burn down the building the day they moved in people might have been a little more welcoming to them.

Some one complained that we weren't acting very Christian since this was a "Christian Building". First time I knew it was a "Christian Building" Granted years ago a church built the building.
JohnT38 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,631
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I simply don't understand the issue.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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The issue? Keeping up appearances and nosey neighbors. The HOA is best to keep up with appearances on the OUTSIDE than the inside. Think the board crossed a personal line and needs to butt out.

Former HOA President
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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@ BonnieG1,

Glad for your good news.

Evidently y'all are bored enough to re-enter the kaka ring.

BonnieG1 (Nebraska)
Posts: 1,186
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 05/21/2019 4:03 AM
The issue? Keeping up appearances and nosey neighbors. The HOA is best to keep up with appearances on the OUTSIDE than the inside. Think the board crossed a personal line and needs to butt out.

Actually the Board was not given a chance to act on this manner before the Vice-President had many members riled. In my opinion if the Vice-President had not gotten every riled it could have been handled by the Board. I am not saying that the owners did not have a valid point. I am saying there was no need to get the many members riled. When I was President we had a similar situation. We acted on it without getting everyone riled. It was determined this was not a violation.
BonnieG1 (Nebraska)
Posts: 1,186
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Posted By RoyalP on 05/21/2019 6:46 AM
@ BonnieG1,

Glad for your good news.

Evidently y'all are bored enough to re-enter the kaka ring.


guess so It's been a while.
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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On a serious note:

It is NOT, repeat NOT, the CORPORATION's business UNLESS a specific COVENANT and/or RESTRICTION can be shown as VIOLATED by the informant IN WRITING.

else

J'accuse ... J'accuse ...
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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..... of being TRANSIENTS just like all other GUESTS



... albeit what was probably INTENDED in the CCRs was TRANSIENT rental TENANTS

however

from a legal definition point of view:

Tenant = ANY non owner in residence with the owner's permission (whether paying for said privilege or not).

Some occupants are tenants some occupants are resident owners all occupants are residents (assuming overnight stay(s).

Some tenants are guests some tenants are renters some tenants are family members.

eg.

I am an owner resident.

My wife, if not on the deed, would be a tenant.

We would BOTH be occupants.

This is the stuff which 'comes into play' if one has DIY documents or developer documents or 'cheapo attorney' documents.

THEN

Their is Federal, State, and Local law with wich to contend including Corporate Law and HOA Law.

SO

Anyone seeking advice from an internet forum has an IDIOT for a client.

At least Lincoln was, himself, an attorney when he advised: "person who represents self has fool for client".
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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Darn no edit:

There is Federal, State, and Local law with which to contend including Corporate Law and HOA Law.
MarkM31 (Washington)
Posts: 494
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Posted By RoyalP on 05/21/2019 9:36 AM

I am an owner resident.

My wife, if not on the deed, would be a tenant.


Community property arguements, status and statutes notwithstanding.

The President does recognize that her arguement would disavow the ability of all residents to get a house sitter when they were out of town?

That could have serious results, especially in a place like a condo in a cold climate.

Even lawyers don't always think before they act. Seems like there is a axe being ground here.
MarkM31 (Washington)
Posts: 494
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Posted By RoyalP on 05/21/2019 9:50 AM
Darn no edit:

Thasts a loot of fun, no?

Nothing but the best as of 1996 here.
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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1996 has 'some' advantages:

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RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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... such as the ability to 'code' replies

RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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Posted By MarkM31 on 05/21/2019 10:29 AM
Posted By RoyalP on 05/21/2019 9:36 AM

I am an owner resident.

My wife, if not on the deed, would be a tenant.



Community property arguements, status and statutes notwithstanding.

The President does recognize that her arguement would disavow the ability of all residents to get a house sitter when they were out of town?

That could have serious results, especially in a place like a condo in a cold climate.

Even lawyers don't always think before they act. Seems like there is a axe being ground here.

We will not discuss the 'rights' of the tenant in question.

We will not discuss the 'acquired' assets of the tenant in question.

A resident non-owner (barring trespass) is a tenant. PERIOD

ps. my wife is actually a 'joint tenant in common' on the deed, as, if you are married, is yours

? ain't the 'socratic method' wonderful ?
BonnieG1 (Nebraska)
Posts: 1,186
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Posted By RoyalP on 05/21/2019 9:22 AM
On a serious note:

It is NOT, repeat NOT, the CORPORATION's business UNLESS a specific COVENANT and/or RESTRICTION can be shown as VIOLATED by the informant IN WRITING.

else

J'accuse ... J'accuse ...

There is something written in our documents that the units are not to be used for hotel or transient purposes. In my opinion this is not a violation of that rule since they are not paying to stay in the unit and they are not transients.
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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There is something written in our documents that the units are not to be used for hotel or transient purposes.

Guests are, in fact, by definition, TRANSIENTS.

'there is something written ...... ' = prima facie arbitrary and capricious

? Have you not actually read my above (albeit facetious) replies ?

sheeeez .... here we go .... again

As Einstein would opine: I must be insane for expecting different outcome(s).

BonnieG1 (Nebraska)
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Posted By RoyalP on 05/21/2019 2:19 PM
There is something written in our documents that the units are not to be used for hotel or transient purposes.

Guests are, in fact, by definition, TRANSIENTS.

'there is something written ...... ' = prima facie arbitrary and capricious

? Have you not actually read my above (albeit facetious) replies ?

sheeeez .... here we go .... again

As Einstein would opine: I must be insane for expecting different outcome(s).


I see your point. So if one takes not used for transient purposes too literally we could never have any guests?
NpS (Pennsylvania)
Posts: 4,216
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Posted By BonnieG1 on 05/21/2019 1:39 PM
There is something written in our documents that the units are not to be used for hotel or transient purposes. In my opinion this is not a violation of that rule since they are not paying to stay in the unit and they are not transients.

Several problems here. You can't just assume that words like "hotel" and "transient" should be interpreted a certain way. If they are not specifically defined in your docs, if they are ambiguous in their meaning ... then a court could throw them out as unenforceable.

Same with the word "tenant". If you apply RoyalP's definition, then a family of 4 (mom, dad, and 2 kids) would be in violation if the parents went away for the weekend and left the kids at home with a baby-sitter.

I would ask your lawyer why her interpretation is the only one possible?

Sikubali jukumu. Read all posts at your own risk.
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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Rentals may, or may not, be prohibited.

Tenancy may NOT be prohibited.

eg. an owner's guest, child, brother 'in residence' are non rent paying tenants

a renter is a PAYING (for the privilege) tenant

This is EXACTLY why one gets what one pays for ESPECIALLY in contract 'draw up' issues.

ps. the courts have repetitively ruled that nothing beyond the clear and obvious meaning is allowed to be 'read into' a Covenant - if it is ambiguous, it probably will be ruled unenforceable

The "Law" definition of a tenant may be different than the general public's 'interpretation':

tenancy (ˈtɛnənsɪ)
n, pl -cies
1. (Law) the temporary possession or holding by a tenant of lands or property owned by another
2. (Law) the period of holding or occupying such property
3. the period of holding office, a position, etc
4. (Law) property held or occupied by a tenant
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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Legal Definition of tenant. : one who holds or possesses property by any kind of right : one who holds a tenancy in property

Legal definition of lesee. : one who possesses property in exchange for payment of rent - see also lessee

Words actually have meanings, different words have different meanings.

I 'believe' the misconception of what a tenant means is based on the fact that in the past almost all tenants of rented apartments were EITHER rent paying lesees AND/OR their family members.

All the above occupants are resident tenants, BUT, only the 'rent payer' is the lesee.

JaredC (Texas)
Posts: 264
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WTF? Why is this even being seriously discussed? There is nothing to discuss. Tell the president to STFU and mind their own business. If anyone else agrees with this idiot lawyer gestapo president then tell them to STFU and mind their own business. This is way beyond ridiculous!
RoyalP
Posts: 1,104
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Ridiculous:

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RoyalP
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Posted By JaredC on 05/22/2019 7:38 AM
WTF? Why is this even being seriously discussed? There is nothing to discuss. Tell the president to STFU and mind their own business. If anyone else agrees with this idiot lawyer gestapo president then tell them to STFU and mind their own business. This is way beyond ridiculous!

? Why ?

Why not ?

it breaks the senile demented boredom



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