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RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
I am sorry this is so long. I don't want to leave out details you need to know.

I am the (inexperienced) CAM for 112 Unit HOA in Florida. Recently the five member board waived the statutory 48 hour Board Meeting notice in order to hold an emergency meeting on a Sunday for the purpose of discussing bids for a repair to our pool that had to be shut down the Friday before. I was uncomfortable with this, because I believe the Board President really knew on Friday that she had every intention of meeting on Sunday. She simply wanted to hold an Emergency meeting, because she wanted to limit the agenda to discussing only the needed pool repair. There has been a lot of fighting amongst the Board in recent months, and there are certain issues that the President and Treasurer are attempting to block discussion about.

The meeting was attended by the Pres, VP & Secretary. During discussion of the two bids, the Treasurer, as if on cue, waltzed in and obtained the floor from the Pres to discuss a PnL she had asked me to prepare earlier in the day and presented her case for the repair and how she planned to pay for it. She then stayed in the room, did not participate in the vote, and took her leave before the meeting was adjourned, but not before making it clear to everyone in attendance that she "wasn't really here". I was absolutley flabbergasted. The Board voted unanimously to accept one of the bids I had obtained and work was to begin the following Friday.

By Saturday (my day off) afternoon the contractor had drained a portion of the water and discovered that the damage was far worse than originally thought and discussed his recomendations with three board members (at separate times). My assistant called to tell me to explain what she had heard of the situation and let me know that the contractor planned to submit another bid for the additional work and that the Board would let me know on Sunday if they were to hold a meeting. I came in on Sunday to a notice hanging up in one bulletin board in front of my office that an Emergency Board Meeting would again be held that day to discuss possible use of reserves and a possible special assessment for the additional repairs. I immediately starting making phone calls to the other pool contractors that bid the original work and emailed out a notice to the membership of the meeting planned for that day. The Board President and Treasurer actually tried to instruct me not to contact the other contractors, as they already had their minds made up that they were going to stick with this one and he was going to start the next morning.

The meeting was held anyway, even with my objections, they voted to use $38,000 from reserves and to assess the 112 unit owners $385.00 for the balance. 7 owners (all lived on the property) attended the meeting.

My head says to get out of this place and get out now. My sucker of a heart feels badly for the owners that have no idea how bad some members of this board is. I know I am in over my head and don't have the experience to handle this, but I need to see these people through until the election in October and my contract ends in November. I don't know what recourse I have against Board members that will deliberately do things when I am out of the office in order to skirt the rules.

RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
Forgot to mention that this assessment is was passed on August 12th and is due by August 27th.
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
RebeccaM - I don't believe the statutory rule for 48 hours notice applies since the Board felt an emergency meeting was required. Emergencies happen. Notification to owners of the result of the emergency meeting and a more public vote at the next opportunity for an open meeting would be appropriate. There seems to be a bit of dog and pony show going on amongst the BOD. Why didn't the contractor that discovered more damage call you as the PM, rather than members of the BOD?
BradP (Kansas)
Posts: 2,640
Posted:
Joe:

Is a repair to the pool really an emergency? Unless someone is trapped in the pool or the fence surrounding the pool was knocked down I don't know how any pool repair is an emergency. If this was really an emergency why did they wait from Friday to Sunday to announce the meeting, I think that is a smoke screen for an agenda.

I believe the 48 hour notice should apply and I think both votes, and the assessment should be null and void. I think the board should be reported to the AG, and the membership should seriously think about who is taking care of their association.

Furthermore...why wasn't the pool drained first and damage assessed then as opposed to waiting until after the original contract was awarded? I think we all know something isn't right and I am not buying the emergency part because there was no risk to life or property if they waited an additional 2 days for notice.
NancyD1 (Florida)
Posts: 447
Posted:
This was not an emergency and the HO should know this. They should bring it up at the next board meeting.

Brad, in Florida, the Dept of Business has the last say on HOA's or Condo's.

Rebecca, as a licensed CAM, you know that you have a duty to advise the board what are the proper procedures for meetings et al. IMO, I would have everything in writing going forward. You will protect yourself.

When we ask our PM something, he always puts it in writing,"I had the trees trimmed on common property". Signed and dated.

The first note I would write is; why was the pool not drained? and lets get new estimates now that it is? I just got a replacement value on our pool and it is only about $30,000 more than your repair. We have a 48x70 pool. What is wrong with the pool that a repair will cost $84,000. It seems excessive for almost anything but close to replacement.
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
NancyD1 - Perhaps you didn't read the part where Rebecca posted the Board voted unanimously to accept one of her bids?
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
BradP - What's the agenda? You can quibble all you want about the pool repair not being an "emergency", but don't get caught up in the wording because it's useless. The Board will claim they have a responsibility to provide the service of the pool and probably that owners would expect them to act swiftly to correct the matter. Yes, notice should be provided and I do believe the Board is could have handled it better. However what is the agenda?
BradP (Kansas)
Posts: 2,640
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JoeW1 on 08/20/2007 6:18 PM
BradP - What's the agenda? You can quibble all you want about the pool repair not being an "emergency", but don't get caught up in the wording because it's useless. The Board will claim they have a responsibility to provide the service of the pool and probably that owners would expect them to act swiftly to correct the matter. Yes, notice should be provided and I do believe the Board is could have handled it better. However what is the agenda?

Joe:

So calling it an emergency makes it ok to circumvent the rules? I don't know what the agenda is because I don't live there and don't have the whole story but something is fishy and you can't argue that.
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
BradP - Calling it an emergency may circumvent the rules for those that wish to do so. But what else would you call an unscheduled meeting of the BOD where a vote is required? Remember, the BOD chose the contractor from one of Rebecca's bids?
Jadedone4 (Virginia)
Posts: 495
Posted:
JoeW, a few points...

First this was not (IMHO) an valid "emergency" situation. Emergency situations are those where life, limb, or property damage may occur if the Board fails to act. Again this is my interpretation based on my community's standards. While the pool closure is an inconvenience, it is not an emergency - proper steps could have been undertaken by the Board to address the issue and work towards a quick solution. If this community has Board meeting quarterly, or not every month, etc - and the next meeting was well away in schedule - then calling a duly and properly noticed (to membership) meeting would have been appropriate. Unsure of what Rebecca's community's requirements are for open meeting laws, or what their doc's require - but it would appear that the board acted improperly, per the original posting.

Second, the minute that action was taken, where the funds were not readily available (operating or reserve/replacement accounts) and an additional assessment was considered to fund the additional repairs to the pool, the membership had a valid right to notice (under most codes/laws, and most governing documents). Again not sure what Rebecca's jurisdiction, or the community's governing documents require - but it would speak volume to "transperancy" to the owners to have been properly advised.

Third, not sure what all the "in/out" business of the Treasurer was about - either you are an active participant of the Board's activities, or you are not. Tossed around the quorum issue, etc - but in the long run, either way, it does not matter - if the Treasurer was present, to give a summary/presentation to the full board, and if Rebecca's jurisdiction/documents require open meetings, and minutes were perfected, or even required, the meeting should have been conducted in a professional manner.

Last, I would further advise Rebecca to review the governing documents for any reference of "actions taken, not during a regularly scheduled meeting." where it may define what limits/powers are prescribed to the Board to act absent a meeting. However if it does have such a clause, I would also strongly suspect that it would require that actions taken be immediately incorporated/recorded into the next full scheduled meeting of the board.
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
Jadedone4 - You're preaching to the choir. I agree with the fact that it wasn't a valid emergency. However, bottom line the Board held a meeting to vote on an issue that they wanted addressed immediately. I'm merely evidencing that the Board that employs Rebbecca will use whatever terminology they wish. I'm not sure what you expect Rebbecca to accomplish other than research of the gov. docs for her knowledge and to respectfully advise the Board on conduct. She can point out all she wants. It's clear her client (the Board) won't listen.
RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
Thank you all. I know it is very hard to opine on this type of thing with only limited info, but I appreciate the information.

We have an extremely old pool that is, structurally speaking, quite sound. However, it was resurfaced in (approx. 1988) with fiberglass and that fiberglass was beginning to lift, created a sharp edged hazard for swimmers in what we thought was one side of the steps entering the pool. Initially the area was roped off (hindsight is 20/20. I should've shut the pool down immediately.) and I began seeking bids for what we thought to be a relatively minor fiberglass repair.

Two bids were secured by licensed pool/spa contractors. I contacted numerous other contractors, but was unable to find anyone else that was qualified to work on a fiberglass pool. I was still seeking additional bids when an inspector from the Health Department came out on a Friday (my day off) to do a routine inspection and shut down my pool. He was extremely helpful to me and I understood that I should've done that from the beginning. In a conversation with the Board President that evening, she made it clear to me that she wanted to have an emergency meeting to discuss moving forward on one of the two bids I had obtained. I advised her that I didn't feel that to be a prudent decision as we still had 48 hours to duly notice the meeting. Whether we met that evening, or Sunday evening, I could not get in touch with either contractor before Monday anyway. There was no reason not to notice the meeting properly and involve the membership in the decision. She advised that she would contact other members of the Board and call me back to let me know whether or not a meeting would be held or have notice sent out by my assistant as I had a memorial and funeral to attend that evening and Saturday afternoon. I returned to work on Sunday and she came in at 10:30am to announce that an emergency meeting was to be held at 2:00pm and that each member of the Board waived notice. I expressed my disapproval to the Board members present, but was over-ruled. I ws confident with the bids I had received, but I wanted things done "by the book". I find the definition of "Emergency" in this kind of case can be quite subjective. It is August and we have a very active summer rental season here, so I think that Board could be justified in calling this an Emergency. The bottom line here is that it wasn't necessary for it to be an emergency. That was used as a means to keep other Board members from being able to introduce other pressing business that the President and Treasurer did not want discussed.

That was the first emergency meeting. A $9200 bid was accepted for the repair to the top step (the only pressing matter), two new ladders, one new railing, new tile around the scum gutter and re-texturing of our bon-beam. He advised that it was possible that the costs could go up once he drained water off the steps and assessed the other two steps. The pool was only to be drained down below the steps. The contractor was to pick up the material on Friday, and begin work on Monday. Instead, he began draining the pool on Saturday and discovered additional damage, not only on the other steps, but all along the scum gutter and exposed surface of the pool. He immediately stopped work and spoke with a Board member who lives onsite and supplied a $72,000 bid on Sunday morning for the additional work. The rest is in my original post.

I understand now all of the "should haves", but what do I do now? I don't really have any doubt that the very old pool did need this work done. Could it have waited 6 months, a year maybe? Yes. I think it could have. That really isn't my gripe though. I have the support of the membership. They understand that they got their money's worth from this pool. We have excellent collection here and have already received most of the money assessed. It's is the means that I have a problem with. This needed to be handled quickly, but not at the expense of obtaining competitive bids.

Sadly, this is not the first thing I have had a major problem with here. What do you do as a CAM when two Board members are pitted against two others and the remaining one is in Canada attending to a deathly-ill spouse? Short of publishing a letter to the membership about my concerns, I don't know what to do besides either quit, or continue to hold my breath until the election in October.

I am sorry this is so long and rambling. I accept the responsibility for putting myself and this community in this position by not having the experience to handle these types of situations, but I don't think stepping down now will help the situation. I feel like I need to see them through their election. Hopefully they will make the right choice for their community. When a stable Board is in power, I would like to help them find a replacement for me that is truly qualified to manage this Association and attempt to go to work for an MC where I can gain experience. I have read 720 and my docs thoroughly. I know what is right and wrong. What I don't know is what my recourse is when a Board refuses to heed my advice or do what is right.

Again, thank you for all of your help.
Jadedone4 (Virginia)
Posts: 495
Posted:
JoeW we are in agreement on the meeting issue; my advice to Rebecca regarding the gov/doc's was to "CYA" for her since she is an Agent for the community, and could face exposure (she provided the bids to the board, and the M/C's role, as you noted, is to advise). While she cannot compel the board to do anything, she can (from a professional position) insulate herself from liability from the board's errant actions. Also, since Rebecca works for the community, via the board she can advise the membership/owners of the errant actions. From my understanding the M/C - board relationship is not protected by any disclosure/privilege; it should be reasonable that in a situation such as this, the M/C can address the owners.

BradP (Kansas)
Posts: 2,640
Posted:
Rebecca:

your board is not very bright...when you have $72,000 in repairs staring you in the face you step back, gather multiple bids and explore options. You don't rush through a process. If I were a resident in that community I would report them to any agency around and would lead a petition to get them recalled.

Furthermore, as Jade and myself have stated this is not an emergency. Even if it is in the middle of rental season what is the emergency? Nothing, if the pool was a danger you shut down the pool and assess the damage.

They did not follow proper procedure for a special assessment so they in reality stole from the members amongst many other things.
Jadedone4 (Virginia)
Posts: 495
Posted:
Rebecca, in response to your last post... and I may catch the "ire" of HOATalk and the pro's here, but it appears on face value that you did what a PM/CAM was "expected" to have done in this situation. You cannot compel a board to act responsibly - and the reality is (and this may sound harsh/cold), you collect a paycheck whether they do what you advise or not. I understand (and may have "read" this in your post) but you want to do right by the community, but the board has other plans. Well the reality is that the owners/community are the ones who elected the board to serve. Not much you can do about that... except... properly "CYA" on each instance where you feel that proper management protocols were not followed. We all walk into work (sometimes) and have to perform duties which are "company" mandated, but are not what we may feel are the best alternatives/solutions. I think that it is great that you have such an affinity for this community (and hopefully the owners recognize this as well), and that you sincerely want to do a good job - however your "job" is to assist the board, if and when mistake occur, or advice is not heeded, you have to be able to "disconnect" professionally.

RogerB (Colorado)
Posts: 5,067
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By RebeccaM1 on 08/20/2007 1:33 PM
I am the (inexperienced) CAM for 112 Unit HOA in Florida. .......
.........
....... I don't know what recourse I have against Board members that will deliberately do things when I am out of the office in order to skirt the rules.

From what you posted I don't know that the Board skirted the rules. Are you throughly familiar with the controlling documents? And if they violated meeting requirements did you so advise? A special Board meeting is normally allowed by the By-laws. IMO "out of the office" is not acceptable. Don't you have a cell phone, answering service, and backup personnel?

Your recourse is to:
1) accept that the Board may act with or without your input; or
2) terminate the management agreement.
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
Rebecca - After reading your second post, I agree with RogerB. I honestly don't see how the Board skirted the rules in calling this a special meeting or emergency meeting. You say so yourself, there was a sharp edged hazard and you don't really have any doubt that the very old pool did need this work done.

As far as I see, the President wanted to hold a meeting to discuss one thing only. The pool. What's wrong with that?

You should absolutely not write a letter to the membership advising them of the Board actions you disagree with. If you did that and I was on your Board I'd fire and possibly sue you. That is inappropriate, divisive, and very bad advise to write a letter.

Is the Board authorized to spend the money, or is a membership vote of the entire residents required? If the former, it's debatable if you need to inform the entire membership before the expenditure is approved.

I believe it's always best to try to notify the membership in advance but definitely notify them immediately afterwards.

If you disagree with an action you say so and state why. If you believe you will be exposed you can recuse yourself from the meeting and quit if you so desire.

RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By RogerB on 08/21/2007 8:04 AM
Posted By RebeccaM1 on 08/20/2007 1:33 PM
I am the (inexperienced) CAM for 112 Unit HOA in Florida. .......
.........
....... I don't know what recourse I have against Board members that will deliberately do things when I am out of the office in order to skirt the rules.


From what you posted I don't know that the Board skirted the rules. Are you throughly familiar with the controlling documents? And if they violated meeting requirements did you so advise? A special Board meeting is normally allowed by the By-laws. IMO "out of the office" is not acceptable. Don't you have a cell phone, answering service, and backup personnel?

Your recourse is to:
1) accept that the Board may act with or without your input; or
2) terminate the management agreement.

My documents mimic 720, in that they have an "out", if you will, by calling this an "Emergency Meeting". I don't dispute that they could be deemed justified in what they did. I did advise that I did not feel this constituted an emergency that would override notice requirements. That is not really the issue for me. My main concern is that it wasn't necessary to do it the way they did. Because of the way it happened over the weekend, they easily could have properly noticed the meeting. I also advised that I was uncomfortable moving forward without obtaining more bids when the repair changed and that all of this happened in my absence, when they could have easily called me in.

Thank you for your input. I understand that they don't have to listen to me. Do you feel, as some others have posted, that it would be appropriate for me to make my feelings known to the membership if the Board refuses to heed advice? Is that an appropriate way to CYA? Or is there some implied privilege that I need to maintain and just put my feelings in writing to the Board?
RogerB (Colorado)
Posts: 5,067
Posted:
Rebecca, it is not appropriate to go directly to the members. That is a no no! Why do you think the Board has to take your advise? To CYA document your actions in a letter to the Board spelling out each action which they were chosing to violate and what advise you gave on each.
RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JoeW1 on 08/21/2007 9:09 AM
Rebecca - After reading your second post, I agree with RogerB. I honestly don't see how the Board skirted the rules in calling this a special meeting or emergency meeting. You say so yourself, there was a sharp edged hazard and you don't really have any doubt that the very old pool did need this work done.

As far as I see, the President wanted to hold a meeting to discuss one thing only. The pool. What's wrong with that?

You should absolutely not write a letter to the membership advising them of the Board actions you disagree with. If you did that and I was on your Board I'd fire and possibly sue you. That is inappropriate, divisive, and very bad advise to write a letter.

Is the Board authorized to spend the money, or is a membership vote of the entire residents required? If the former, it's debatable if you need to inform the entire membership before the expenditure is approved.

I believe it's always best to try to notify the membership in advance but definitely notify them immediately afterwards.

If you disagree with an action you say so and state why. If you believe you will be exposed you can recuse yourself from the meeting and quit if you so desire.


Thank you, Joe. I see Roger's point as well. I do have the advantage of having all of the information. I have only been able to provide you all with snippets. I do appreciate the help.

I agree with your thoughts on addressing the membership. None of what is going on here has crossed the line to criminal, albeit irresponsible. I think it would be counter-productive as well. It may only stir the pot and get me fired. Then the Board would be left to do whatever they please until they find another young, inexperienced Manager they figure they can intimidate. I can be much more effective by continuing to advise them and hope that the membership does the right thing for their community in October. I do feel that some of these once effective Directors are suffering from "Board Burn-Out".

If they knowingly violate either their docs or 720, and I advise them of it, what else can I do? Are they really allowed to ignore my warnings about it and I have no obligation to take it further? Just CYA, that's it?
RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
JadedOne, Thank you.
JoeW1 (New York)
Posts: 728
Posted:
Rebecca - Use this experience, tow the line and CYA by documenting to the Board the areas you see they could have acted differently, or as RogerB posts. That's very good advice. Other than that, don't worry about it, but don't loose your license you've worked so hard to achieve.
LindaC3 (Florida)
Posts: 526
Posted:
RebeccaM1.........As a member of an HOA in Florida and one who has a CAM in our employ.. it is his duty according to his contractual agreement for employment to be up to date with all current legislation with regards to law and statutes and inform the board of such...He can lead them to water as they say - but he cant make them drink....
It is also MY DUTY as a member of an HOA to be aware of all my documents and the Statutes which govern HOA'S in the state. If I as a homeowner felt that our Board was doing something out of line. you betcha I, as a HOA Member would inform my neighbors and between all of us take appropiate action....

We have a community pool in our HOA and if this type of repair was required I dont believe we would have declared an " emergency " but would have put up a sign and said pool closed for repair...

I don't believe when I read your entire post that your BOD did anything out of line with regards to this emergency meeting..They only dealt with the pool issue at the time....
Now as I understand your post and correct me if I am wrong - are you wanting to notify the members that the BOD did something wrong with having this meeting ? and if so.... if you were my HOA CAM and you notified the members of this action I would say that you have overstepped your bounds.... If you feel strongly about this issue and seeing how your license is governed by DPBR you may want to make a call to the legal dept at DPBR explain your situation and ask them for guidance in order to protect your license...I am sure you dont want someone filing a complaint with the licensing division for the state of florida and having to go thru the whole horse and pony show.... I say all this with the hopes of helping you , not to admonish you.... When it comes to licensing issues here in florida - one must tread lightly ......

Now with regards to the assessement for the pool repair....did in fact the Board follow the statute with regards to the assessment ? Or did they just tell everyone to pony up the bucks ????

2. An assessment may not be levied at a board meeting unless the notice of the meeting includes a statement that assessments will be considered and the nature of the assessments. Written notice of any meeting at which special assessments will be considered or at which amendments to rules regarding parcel use will be considered must be mailed, delivered, or electronically transmitted to the members and parcel owners and posted conspicuously on the property or broadcast on closed-circuit cable television not less than 14 days before the meeting.

I hope some of this helps you..... It is a tough job to be a CAM in Florida and having to deal with all the different personalities that come with the job....LOL Best of Luck to you and use DPBR when you are in doubt..they are there to help you ......LindaC
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
I've had a similar situation with our pool. Mine was a much worse situation that really did have multiple violations and questionable legalties. It's too long to post here. However, reading your issue, I don't see a problem. Just maybe the fact that you weren't consulted or part of the actual decision making may be the real issue. Your NOT a member of the HOA so you can't have a voting right to what goes on. The board is to make the decision and your position is to make sure that decision can happen. That may involve you getting bids and presenting them to the BOD. After that, it's the HOA/BOD decision on how to raise the funds and what actions to take.

This may sound a bit harsh but this is HOA bureaucracy at it's best. The BOD did NOT have an option of "changing" bidders AFTER the "extra" repair issue came up. At this time, they had voted to accept this bidder's contract and there is no going back just because they found additional work to be done. Techinically, if they had to go back to the other bidders, that would have to involve ANOTHER vote to do so and then start over from scratch. Meaning they would now have to pay possibly 2 contractors to get back to the original problem. It was better just to keep the original bidder and work the rest of the deal from there. As someone who's hired many contractors, once you sign a contract, it's best to keep to that one contract.

You can have "emergency meetings" just to address one issue. They are usually called "Special meetings" which cover just one issue. In this case, the issue was deemed an "emergency" and involved one issue. No problem if the board did not want to address the other thousand issues it has going on everyday in this meeting. That's what the regular meetings are for.

My pool situation was the nightmare situation that your wanting this to be. I don't think the board acted inappropriately. There are issues involved with hiring and changing contractors mid contract that they had to take under consideration. It's the homeowner's money not yours. Sounds like the majority of homeowner's were there and were aware of the circumstances as they were presented. Maybe not the best presentation but they were informed or could do so amongst themselves if they so desired.

My board voted in an "one-time special assessment" that covered MORE than the repair work costs. They wanted not only to cover the pool repair (which was the wrong expensive repair) plus cover any additional HOA projects. They only told the people the assessment was just for the pool repair. Which is what a special assessment is ONLY to cover the cost of the repair. It is NOT to collect additional money outside that scope just because you want to build up funds. That's a whole other assessment. I didn't see your BOD do this. They did it just for the repair bill alone which is the RIGHT thing to do in this situation.

Former HOA President
RebeccaM1 (Florida)
Posts: 43
Posted:
Roger & Joe: Thank you for the guidance. Your advice goes along with my original gut feelings about things. I didn't feel it appropriate to address the membership directly, but I did want to ask your thoughts on it, because it has been suggested by others.

Linda: You seem to know exactly where I am coming from in, above all else, wanting to protect my license. I understand my role in the decision making process. I try quite hard to keep my personal opinions out of it and just advise on procedural things and making sure that the Board has all the information available to make an educated decision. I have the utmost respect for the fact that this is their money. I think you said it well with "you can lead a horse to water...". I am not wanting to notify the owners of my feelings. It was suggested to me and I wanted to see how you felt about it.
Regarding the statute, I think this is the crux of our debate on this subject. No, I don't feel that they followed the statute to the letter, but they have the "out" of calling it an emergency and not noticing the meeting properly. It is very subjective, but to my way of thinking, the pool being down was an unfortunate inconvenience, not an emergency. I had already secured use of a pool at a property just south of us. Again, none of that is up to me to decide and I accept that.

I am grateful for the guidance you all have offered. I just want to say too, that I was a bit nervous to post here. While I find this forum to be extremely helpful, I have at times found some of the threads and posters to be unkind and disrespectful. I was a little worried that I would be admonished, as Linda had said. I really appreciate that you all took the time to be helpful to me. I think this is what the site was intended for.

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