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Posted By PatJ1 on 08/19/2018 10:58 AM
Mostly bring a dish.
Mmmmm. Franks & beans and 6 trays of deviled eggs. Pot luck affairs here wore out their welcome pretty quick. We used to have a social committee that arranged some sort event every couple of months. We had a signup sheet and the committee would plan the food budget based on that and usually between $5 and $10 per attendee. 6 members on the social committee would volunteer their time to buy the food, decorate for the party, and clean up afterward. Two residents complained bitterly and anonymously that the events were a waste of time because not everyone could afford to attend and offered a low-cost alternative - pot luck dinners - instead. They also accused the social committee of wasting money on decorating when, in reality, the members were paying out of their own pockets for the decorations. The social committee had a yearly budget from the HOA of $500 and ended every year without even having spent it all.
After that the entire social committee resigned. Nobody likes an ingrate, especially an anonymous one. We haven't had anything but informal get-togethers since. We didn't even have a holiday party the last 2 years. When there are enough members interested in re-forming a social committee it will happen, but you can't force people to volunteer.