VirginiaB5 (California)
Posts: 6
Posts: 6
Posted:
First of all I want to thanks those who responded to my questions. They were quite helpful. I did not mean to cause commotion using a 9 year old thread. Being new to the system I was prompted to view former topics and just found the one that pertained to my issues.
Clearly our CCR's and Bylaws are olf (1981) and our board is attempting to recover from decades old mis-management. As I said these 3.5 years as president has been a steep learning curve for me which has mostly been self educating as I have received alot of ill-advised information and am now dealing with politics.
As previously mentioned , I believe the two other board members are trying to kick me off the board for these reasons: I am constantly challenging the one board members opinions (he knows everything because he is a civil attorney), and the other board member sucumbs to his brash sytle of throwing his expertise around. He has been a bully and tries very hard to intimiate me. Our new property management firm(who bought out our contract from the former) has a "special relationship" with this attorney. NOt quite sure exactly what it is but the mutual compliments keep flying back and forth between them at meetings.
Not to bore you with all the disagreements, but I have spoken to several HOA presidents in similiar type neighborhoods (SFR $1M+)and have gotten a good handle on correct protocols et el. Bottom line I have realized that his mngt co and this attorney are tyring to run a rouge board.
Regarding revising out Bylaw,CCR's I believe they should be revised by a qualifed HOA attorney. The management owner suggests she can do them for free. ANd the attorney agrees saying the HOA attorneys will just deliver boiler plate documents and charge us $6500.
I'm not missing that these two are cohorts here, and have called them on the table.
Not withstanding, I have gone on record that I will not tolerate his bullying and bi-polar like behavior anymore. He literally barks at me, then intermittenly tells stupid jokes throught the entire meetings. Told me a few months ago when I suggested we need to treat each other with respect, that he did not have to be nice or kind to ME inparticular. And nobody said anything.
Having gone on record a week ago, I have been silenced from the board. This is why I believe they are tyring to kick me off. And why I am trying to understand our old bylaws and CCR's.
Now being in this neigborhood over 18 years, I have also of friends (many from our country club). And if/when I get some kind of notice to be off the board, I plan to either have the election of these two board members recalled (as their was no Inspector of Elections) and since they had no challengers the Mgnt Co didn't even bother to open the 25 ballots (we have 101 homes)they were elected in. Or I suppose just kicked off the board with enough homeowners signitures.
AM I approaching this correctly? BTQ....How's this for a new thread?
Clearly our CCR's and Bylaws are olf (1981) and our board is attempting to recover from decades old mis-management. As I said these 3.5 years as president has been a steep learning curve for me which has mostly been self educating as I have received alot of ill-advised information and am now dealing with politics.
As previously mentioned , I believe the two other board members are trying to kick me off the board for these reasons: I am constantly challenging the one board members opinions (he knows everything because he is a civil attorney), and the other board member sucumbs to his brash sytle of throwing his expertise around. He has been a bully and tries very hard to intimiate me. Our new property management firm(who bought out our contract from the former) has a "special relationship" with this attorney. NOt quite sure exactly what it is but the mutual compliments keep flying back and forth between them at meetings.
Not to bore you with all the disagreements, but I have spoken to several HOA presidents in similiar type neighborhoods (SFR $1M+)and have gotten a good handle on correct protocols et el. Bottom line I have realized that his mngt co and this attorney are tyring to run a rouge board.
Regarding revising out Bylaw,CCR's I believe they should be revised by a qualifed HOA attorney. The management owner suggests she can do them for free. ANd the attorney agrees saying the HOA attorneys will just deliver boiler plate documents and charge us $6500.
I'm not missing that these two are cohorts here, and have called them on the table.
Not withstanding, I have gone on record that I will not tolerate his bullying and bi-polar like behavior anymore. He literally barks at me, then intermittenly tells stupid jokes throught the entire meetings. Told me a few months ago when I suggested we need to treat each other with respect, that he did not have to be nice or kind to ME inparticular. And nobody said anything.
Having gone on record a week ago, I have been silenced from the board. This is why I believe they are tyring to kick me off. And why I am trying to understand our old bylaws and CCR's.
Now being in this neigborhood over 18 years, I have also of friends (many from our country club). And if/when I get some kind of notice to be off the board, I plan to either have the election of these two board members recalled (as their was no Inspector of Elections) and since they had no challengers the Mgnt Co didn't even bother to open the 25 ballots (we have 101 homes)they were elected in. Or I suppose just kicked off the board with enough homeowners signitures.
AM I approaching this correctly? BTQ....How's this for a new thread?
Virginia L Braun