JamesA11 (Pennsylvania)
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Posts: 5
Posted:
In our next up coming meeting there is going to be heavy discussion.
First off I feel this BOD member should be removed from the BOD.
The story..
First off during the executive session it was decided to leave parts of a motion out. this was with article issue of a lease, and disclosing the actual violation the board felt was confidential. we all discussed it and ALL agreed, leave out the exact detail and just mention the article number of the lease only.
Open session comes about and members are in the room during the question and answer portion. A lot of upset folks about the motion and asking a lot of questions. One BOD member starts to get upset, sees another BOD member shake her head about something. He Then at top of his voice looks at her and says "F(@K YOU" then her name "F(@K YOU!".. Stares her down then Blurts out the info the BOD ALL agreed to keep confidential and follows up with "Your a Bi!@H, You BI!@H"
The membership was shocked as to the actions of this BOD member to a fellow BOD member. He refused to apologize to her and did not even make a apology to the membership. So far our president seems to feel a formal apology is all that is going to be needed.
I do however feel due to the confidentiality breech, and the outburst. It is all actions unbecoming a board member and should NOT be tolerated.
Am I wrong for this, or is it better to let the apology be made and move on? what would you do if you were on this BOD.
First off I feel this BOD member should be removed from the BOD.
The story..
First off during the executive session it was decided to leave parts of a motion out. this was with article issue of a lease, and disclosing the actual violation the board felt was confidential. we all discussed it and ALL agreed, leave out the exact detail and just mention the article number of the lease only.
Open session comes about and members are in the room during the question and answer portion. A lot of upset folks about the motion and asking a lot of questions. One BOD member starts to get upset, sees another BOD member shake her head about something. He Then at top of his voice looks at her and says "F(@K YOU" then her name "F(@K YOU!".. Stares her down then Blurts out the info the BOD ALL agreed to keep confidential and follows up with "Your a Bi!@H, You BI!@H"
The membership was shocked as to the actions of this BOD member to a fellow BOD member. He refused to apologize to her and did not even make a apology to the membership. So far our president seems to feel a formal apology is all that is going to be needed.
I do however feel due to the confidentiality breech, and the outburst. It is all actions unbecoming a board member and should NOT be tolerated.
Am I wrong for this, or is it better to let the apology be made and move on? what would you do if you were on this BOD.