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Posted By MelissaP1 on 08/09/2016 8:10 AM
It's NEVER EVER a good idea to bad mouth someone. You will find the number of fingers pointed at someone else is triple pointing back. Plus it proves everything they may say about the board NOT liking her. It's best NOT to play into the "victim of the HOA" rhetoric. It's best that she stand on her own 2 feet and prove herself. Why not? It's the "be careful of what you wish for, you may just get it".
Well that would be one opinion. Myself I have never had much trouble calling a spade a spade. When the future of my home and largest single investment hinges on the people with the authority to manage is involved when necessary NICE goes out the window.
Now many people live to please and avoid conflict and bad feelings well..... That might just not work out well when ding dongs take over.
Our board has distributed letters and notices making the owners aware of what we felt certain candidates were not desirable. So comments of not many have been quite direct. In my view no sense sugar coating garbage.
Now in my 29 years serving on our board, after working to remove those who had served decades,z we have had from time to time individuals who were best not put into a board position. My view I wish to work with people who either work with me or at the very least have enough sense to stay out of the way. In those 29 years with elections each year not one of those candidates we would rather not deal with has made it onto our board.
And in most cases the elections were never even close. As I have said politics. You support the people you wish to see serving as board members and you work to keep those off who will make an already difficult job more difficult. In my world Imhave no strong desire or need to end each day with everyone liking me. And as the old saying goes and ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. I would rather prevent the problem rather than address the problem when it is sitting at the table each month as an elected member of the board. And the triple fingers fear well at my age that no longer concerns me.
Do you want a ding dong directing your property, home and investment? if not that prevent that from happening. Or live with the consequences.